What does the "futch" woman wear to Vegas? And where does she find her clothing? If I'm not feeling the nine-inch heels, where can I find the clothing that will be appropriate for a night on the town and fit butch-leaning tastes? [more inside]
posted on Jul 15, 2008 - 12 answers

Why are there so few lesbian bars in the NYC/Brooklyn area when compared to the high number of gay bars? [more inside]
posted on Jun 19, 2008 - 31 answers

Sexyfilter: Lesbian role-play ideas, bonus points for kinky. Yes, really. [more inside]
posted on May 27, 2008 - 12 answers

After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW [more inside]
posted on Apr 21, 2008 - 22 answers

Where are all the lesbian yuppies in NY hiding? [more inside]
posted on Feb 28, 2008 - 14 answers

Can you recommend a good, lesbian-friendly therapist/psychologist/whatever in Kentucky? [more inside]
posted on Feb 22, 2008 - 4 answers

Complicated name-change issues. I am changing my last name, but not due to a legal marriage. Can I get my name changed now, but start using it for everything later? [more inside]
posted on Jan 30, 2008 - 11 answers

I'm seeking a wedding location in Central New York, the closer to Syracuse the better. Details beyond... [more inside]
posted on Jan 22, 2008 - 9 answers

Help me sort out my feelings about the relationship I’m in because I just can’t seem to figure it out. (long and complicated - sorry!) [more inside]
posted on Dec 25, 2007 - 23 answers

Where can I find a lesbian feminist strip club? Do they exist? [more inside]
posted on Oct 12, 2007 - 9 answers

Looking for the film of a trailer I saw a while back: A lesbian couple during World War II. Possibly artists, writers. They live together in a house in Germany. One (or both?) gets captured by the Nazis while stubbornly staying put in the house, instead of making a run for it. [more inside]
posted on Sep 23, 2007 - 5 answers

Help me locate a VHS documentary filmed in the 90's called "Lesbian Misconceptions". It was filmed by Dinah Holtzman, and submitted to a film festival. It's possible the festival was called "Lesbian Misconceptions," not the film itself.
posted on Jul 18, 2007 - 1 answers

I'm looking for some lesbian friendly indie songs for a mixtape, as well as just regular old indie love songs. [more inside]
posted on Jul 8, 2007 - 32 answers

Why are gay people so flamboyant? [more inside]
posted on Jun 25, 2007 - 97 answers

I am confused about my sexuality. [more inside]
posted on Jun 3, 2007 - 25 answers

I want to have a baby with my wife. Problem is, we're both women. [more inside]
posted on May 24, 2007 - 49 answers

I identify as a lesbian. Friends have recently begun discussing the fact that they think that that I'm bisexual. I honestly don't know if they're right. Help me find good essays/books/etc, preferably online, that deal with some of these issues... [more inside]
posted on May 23, 2007 - 22 answers

Would appreciate your opinion on a counseling question for heterosexual men ~ [more inside]
posted on May 9, 2007 - 33 answers

If blowjobs bug me, should I avoid dating men? I'm female. [NSFW] [more inside]
posted on Apr 20, 2007 - 58 answers

[LesbianSongLyricsFilter] There's a lesbian-feminist version of I Want To Be Seduced that refers to a woman making eyes at you while engaging you in discussion of Robin Morgan. Who sang it? [more inside]
posted on Apr 6, 2007 - 4 answers

Has an openly gay man or lesbian ever won an Academy Award (in any category)?
posted on Apr 3, 2007 - 29 answers

Please point me toward resources to help me cope with my family and their responses to my impending (gay) engagement. My Google-fu seems to be failing me. There's more details on my specific situation inside. [more inside]
posted on Apr 3, 2007 - 35 answers

Where's a nice place for two queer women to hang out, eat, or dance in San Antonio this weekend? We're staying at a hotel about half an hour west of downtown, and we'll have a car. [more inside]
posted on Mar 22, 2007 - 10 answers

Are there any openly lesbian women's basketball coaches in the NCAA?
posted on Feb 17, 2007 - 12 answers

What's the best way to use money to support marriage equality in the US? [more inside]
posted on Feb 1, 2007 - 12 answers

Lesbian Bed Death... what gives? [more inside]
posted on Dec 11, 2006 - 15 answers

Can I help two teenagers in a violent relationship when they don't seem particularly interested in being helped? One of the teenagers lives with me. [more inside]
posted on Dec 3, 2006 - 15 answers

For a student of mine: Is it a good idea or a bad idea, on a law school application, to disclose past drug use and rehabilitation, sexual orientation, and family issues to explain why one has a problematic academic history? [more inside]
posted on Sep 26, 2006 - 27 answers

Gayfilter: Where can/should my girlfriend and I get married? [more inside]
posted on Jul 29, 2006 - 16 answers

Are there any documented cases of gay men or lesbians moving to Massachusetts to take advantage of our marriage laws? Has anyone written profiles of people or couples who have done this?
posted on Jul 11, 2006 - 10 answers

I've never dated a girl before. Where do I start? Oh, and I am one, too... [more inside]
posted on May 31, 2006 - 24 answers

Can a non-Canadian man donate sperm to a Canadian lesbian couple and use that child as justification to apply for immigration? Furthermore, once his immigration goes through, can the non-carrying lesbian adopt the child and be a legal parent? [more inside]
posted on Apr 15, 2006 - 17 answers

Help dress a lesbian. [more inside]
posted on Mar 14, 2006 - 9 answers

Are there organizations that report on the human rights of gays and lesbians around the world? [more inside]
posted on Jan 6, 2006 - 6 answers

Recently I found out that my 10th grade flame is not only doing well, but has ditched a potential husband and come out. She looks great. I wouldn't think anything of it, except that my first true love and the first girl I ever kissed also decided they were gay after seeing me. What're the odds? Am I recruiting for the other team? [more inside]
posted on Oct 30, 2005 - 28 answers

Help me cure lesbian bed-death. Lesbians and non-lesbians alike are welcome to reply. It's a not-so-funny joke in the gay community that a few months into a serious relationship. lesbians stop having sex. My partner and I have been together for six years now, and, although we talk about sex (especially how much we miss it!) we don't have sex. Maybe once a month, possibly less often than that. [more inside]
posted on Oct 11, 2005 - 13 answers

How did you come out to your parents / friends / family?
posted on Apr 21, 2005 - 34 answers

I am a hetero male. Why am I attracted to lesbians? I know it's a fairly common thing for guys, but I just don't understand where it comes from, and this disturbs me -and hurts my hetero relationship.
posted on Feb 6, 2005 - 28 answers

I'm toying with opening a site based upon the MeFi model for LGBT issues and community building. What software programs do MeFi and other online communities use to administer the system? I've really only installed MT and other simple programs before, so I'm looking for ease of install as well as ease of use... Thanks in advance!
posted on Dec 19, 2003 - 9 answers