As a woman, how can I have safe sex with another woman? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 25, 2009 - 8 answers

Late start at dating, and I'm worried that I don't/can't express attraction on dates or around people I like. Halp! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 18, 2009 - 8 answers

I have a first date with a girl coming up, which is awesome and I'm psyched. Only... I've never dated girls before! Help! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 3, 2009 - 9 answers

There are gay icons and lesbian icons - are there people who are bisexual/pansexual icons? [more inside]
posted by divabat on Sep 15, 2009 - 47 answers

I had an absolutely terrible incident with a homophobic doctor. I have taken all the steps to report him to the local College of Physicians and Surgeons, and I hope he gets disciplined, but that doesn't address the systemic problem of homophobia in family physicians in my area (and it doesn't help me find a less homophobic doctor to switch to). I would like to blog about the incident, contact gay and lesbian associations, etc, but I am worried about being sued for libel/slander/I don't know. Will I get in trouble if I write publicly about this incident? Can I use the Dr's name? I'm in Alberta, Canada.
posted by arcticwoman on Sep 11, 2009 - 25 answers

I am one half of a lesbian couple with small children thinking of moving out of Baltimore and out to the suburbs. So far Timonium looks like the best bet. Will we be welcome there? [more inside]
posted by lodie6 on Aug 27, 2009 - 3 answers

So, women-who-have-sex-with-women, what do you consider having had sex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 15, 2009 - 23 answers

I'm straight, but I've been seeing this girl. She's beautiful and a socialite and I've been feeling conflicted about being seen in public together. More inside... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 13, 2009 - 32 answers

Lesbian-dating-a-man-filter. When should I tell a guy that I'm dating that I've only ever dated girls before? And how? And does it even matter? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 30, 2009 - 35 answers

What is a lesbian daughter to do, when the mode and extent of her mother's display of affection becomes "too much"? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 29, 2009 - 31 answers

Lesbian seeks men's (or men's-like) suit in Montréal ASAP. Other non-location-specific genderqueer shopping advice appreciated. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2009 - 3 answers

Can you recommend a nice/interesting place for a weekend away on Maryland's Eastern Shore or thereabouts? [more inside]
posted by Morrigan on May 1, 2009 - 7 answers

Lesbian monogamy filter: I am really just a hopeless romantic no matter how hard I try not to be? Should I not move right on to the one waiting in the wings? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 25, 2009 - 16 answers

I'm about to be involuntarily outed as a bisexual at work. What should I expect? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 27, 2009 - 25 answers

How can I safely experiment sexually, like in a club or other group setting? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 22, 2009 - 11 answers

Where are the lesbians in the history of the Gay Rights Movement? [more inside]
posted by crossoverman on Feb 1, 2009 - 20 answers

Were Miss Hinchcliffe and Miss Murgatroyd perceived as lesbians? (Warning: Contains SPOILER for book that is almost 60 years old.) [more inside]
posted by DU on Jan 21, 2009 - 38 answers

Do straight chicks dig lesbian erotica? My wife trolls the net for stories of girl on girl sex. No pics. No videos. Oh, and by the way, our sex life is not so good. Might she be gay? curious? or do straight girls dig lesbian sex stories?
posted by teg4rvn on Jan 2, 2009 - 41 answers

I'm a married woman and I developed a maddening crush on another woman. Now I can't figure out how to get on with my otherwise really happy life and wonderful husband. Help me sort this out! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 19, 2008 - 17 answers

How do married same-sex couples hold title? Any recommendations or resources for California same-sex unions wanting to change title to their property? [more inside]
posted by Graygorey on Nov 13, 2008 - 4 answers

I want to know more about the use of the word "partner," especially for straight couples... [more inside]
posted by iliketolaughalot on Sep 22, 2008 - 68 answers

Low-Budget Lesbian Space Adventure...filter: What was the name of this late-90s Northern Virginia community access channel show? [more inside]
posted by el_lupino on Sep 7, 2008 - 8 answers

Asking for a very close friend: A married lesbian couple, friends of mine, have invited me to be the sperm donor for their first child. [more inside]
posted by Baby_Balrog on Sep 4, 2008 - 18 answers

What does the "futch" woman wear to Vegas? And where does she find her clothing? If I'm not feeling the nine-inch heels, where can I find the clothing that will be appropriate for a night on the town and fit butch-leaning tastes? [more inside]
posted by schroedinger on Jul 15, 2008 - 14 answers

Why are there so few lesbian bars in the NYC/Brooklyn area when compared to the high number of gay bars? [more inside]
posted by Viola on Jun 19, 2008 - 31 answers

Sexyfilter: Lesbian role-play ideas, bonus points for kinky. Yes, really. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2008 - 12 answers

After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 21, 2008 - 23 answers

Where are all the lesbian yuppies in NY hiding? [more inside]
posted by chan.caro on Feb 28, 2008 - 14 answers

Can you recommend a good, lesbian-friendly therapist/psychologist/whatever in Kentucky? [more inside]
posted by reese on Feb 22, 2008 - 4 answers

Complicated name-change issues. I am changing my last name, but not due to a legal marriage. Can I get my name changed now, but start using it for everything later? [more inside]
posted by fiercecupcake on Jan 30, 2008 - 11 answers

I'm seeking a wedding location in Central New York, the closer to Syracuse the better. Details beyond... [more inside]
posted by wg on Jan 22, 2008 - 9 answers

Help me sort out my feelings about the relationship I’m in because I just can’t seem to figure it out. (long and complicated - sorry!) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 25, 2007 - 23 answers

Where can I find a lesbian feminist strip club? Do they exist? [more inside]
posted by Maia on Oct 12, 2007 - 9 answers

Looking for the film of a trailer I saw a while back: A lesbian couple during World War II. Possibly artists, writers. They live together in a house in Germany. One (or both?) gets captured by the Nazis while stubbornly staying put in the house, instead of making a run for it. [more inside]
posted by Xere on Sep 23, 2007 - 5 answers

Help me locate a VHS documentary filmed in the 90's called "Lesbian Misconceptions". It was filmed by Dinah Holtzman, and submitted to a film festival. It's possible the festival was called "Lesbian Misconceptions," not the film itself.
posted by cameradv on Jul 18, 2007 - 1 answer

I'm looking for some lesbian friendly indie songs for a mixtape, as well as just regular old indie love songs. [more inside]
posted by Suparnova on Jul 8, 2007 - 32 answers

Why are gay people so flamboyant? [more inside]
posted by Mach3avelli on Jun 25, 2007 - 97 answers

I am confused about my sexuality. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2007 - 25 answers

I want to have a baby with my wife. Problem is, we're both women. [more inside]
posted by misswiss on May 24, 2007 - 49 answers

I identify as a lesbian. Friends have recently begun discussing the fact that they think that that I'm bisexual. I honestly don't know if they're right. Help me find good essays/books/etc, preferably online, that deal with some of these issues... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 23, 2007 - 22 answers

Would appreciate your opinion on a counseling question for heterosexual men ~ [more inside]
posted by widdershins on May 9, 2007 - 33 answers

If blowjobs bug me, should I avoid dating men? I'm female. [NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 20, 2007 - 58 answers

[LesbianSongLyricsFilter] There's a lesbian-feminist version of I Want To Be Seduced that refers to a woman making eyes at you while engaging you in discussion of Robin Morgan. Who sang it? [more inside]
posted by kika on Apr 6, 2007 - 4 answers

Has an openly gay man or lesbian ever won an Academy Award (in any category)?
posted by AlliKat75 on Apr 3, 2007 - 29 answers

Please point me toward resources to help me cope with my family and their responses to my impending (gay) engagement. My Google-fu seems to be failing me. There's more details on my specific situation inside. [more inside]
posted by fiercecupcake on Apr 3, 2007 - 35 answers

Where's a nice place for two queer women to hang out, eat, or dance in San Antonio this weekend? We're staying at a hotel about half an hour west of downtown, and we'll have a car. [more inside]
posted by expialidocious on Mar 22, 2007 - 10 answers

Are there any openly lesbian women's basketball coaches in the NCAA?
posted by 10ch on Feb 17, 2007 - 12 answers

What's the best way to use money to support marriage equality in the US? [more inside]
posted by Xalf on Feb 1, 2007 - 12 answers

Lesbian Bed Death... what gives? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 11, 2006 - 15 answers

Can I help two teenagers in a violent relationship when they don't seem particularly interested in being helped? One of the teenagers lives with me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 3, 2006 - 15 answers