I've been told by several people that I kiss "like a high schooler," and that this is a bad thing. I'm a straight male in my mid-20s and relatively a n00b, sexually. What are ways for me to become more mature in my physical intimacy? [more inside]
posted by Spock Puppet on Nov 16, 2009 - 30 answers

Is it wise to kiss at the end of the first internet date? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 12, 2009 - 21 answers

Almost every woman I've kissed has told me that I'm a “good kisser.” I've spoken to a couple of male friends about this and they've been told similar by the women they've been involved with, which makes me suspicious. How seriously should I take it when she tells me I'm a good kisser? Is this just something that people say to people they’re interested in regardless of accuracy?
posted by anonymous on Jul 24, 2009 - 32 answers

I'm about to enter the college dating scene - or sex scene, I guess. I know to always use condoms - but what about kissing? I know diseases can spread orally, but I never hear about anyone worrying about kissing. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 15, 2009 - 25 answers

My girlfriend claims to love peanuts and peanut butter more than anyone else on the planet. This poses a problem because I am allergic to peanuts. Anyway we can coexist without me dying or her giving up what she loves so dearly? [more inside]
posted by I, Slobot on Jan 2, 2009 - 26 answers

I'm allergic to sulfa drugs (specifically known to be allergic to Septra). My boyfriend's taking Bactrim, a sulfa drug. Could I have an allergic reaction from kissing him or coming into contact with his sweat? Could sleeping next to him be dangerous?
posted by anonymous on Dec 26, 2008 - 4 answers

Weddings freak me out, why? [more inside]
posted by sondrialiac on Nov 10, 2008 - 11 answers

Something I've wondered about for many years: how do actors get through love scenes? [more inside]
posted by bluekrauss on Oct 15, 2008 - 30 answers

How do you kiss? [more inside]
posted by prefpara on Oct 8, 2008 - 40 answers

I've tied myself into a knot trying to date someone and need to undo it. [more inside]
posted by LoneWolfMcQuade on Sep 22, 2008 - 22 answers

We had our first date last week and the chemistry was incredible (as was the kissing). However, I want to find out if there's more than just the physical here. Our second date is Thursday evening - how do I keep myself under control? [more inside]
posted by shiny blue object on Sep 3, 2008 - 20 answers

Am I fair in blaming a snail's-pace relationship on my weak ability to show affection? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 15, 2008 - 24 answers

So there's this beautiful woman that I'm finding myself overwhelmingly attracted to. We have a great time, seem to have some chemistry, some central common interests. There's been a couple of moments when I thought that she wanted me to kiss her. But they don't last long. Oh yeah, she's a biter. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 27, 2008 - 44 answers

Dating for Dummies, Chapter 73: Getting Physical. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 16, 2008 - 28 answers

Do most cultures have some version of "Spin the Bottle" or other kissing games? What kinds of similar games does the coming-of-age crowd play in other cultures? Did you play these kinds of games when you were growing up (and where are you from)?
posted by amyms on Dec 25, 2007 - 10 answers

How do you teach someone to be a better kisser? Can you? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 16, 2007 - 19 answers

How do my wife and I avoid kissing at our wedding reception? [more inside]
posted by ODiV on Oct 3, 2007 - 70 answers

Well, this might be an odd one. The girl I am seeing has very delicate skin. I have stubble and it does quite a number on the skin on her chin. Is there anything we can do? [more inside]
posted by synecdoche on Nov 7, 2006 - 14 answers

Making out with our clothes on. Ideas? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 19, 2006 - 17 answers

[French-kissing filter (not that kind)] When doing that little double kiss the French do, should I go right then left, left than right, or is there some subtle clue that the French give off to let you know which direction you should be moving your head? 'Cause if you go left when she goes right, it's not office appropriate and seems to upset her...
posted by bonecrusher on Jun 2, 2006 - 26 answers

I love having my ears kissed/licked, but this seems to cause ear infections sometimes. Is there a way to avoid the infections?
posted by rwatson on May 21, 2006 - 17 answers

Got myself a brand new boyfriend! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 4, 2005 - 18 answers

Awkwardfilter: I got my first kiss this year, and after more practice, I still am not really enjoying it. Is that weird? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 3, 2005 - 21 answers

How do you tell a man that you don't like the way he kisses? Is it even possible to do without irrevocable damage to his ego?
posted by Juicylicious on Nov 27, 2004 - 23 answers

Pulling girls in bars: how do you do it? I don't think I know how. The two or three times I have they've kissed me first. I'm more used to getting into relationships - sometimes even just asking "can I kiss you? I think you're lovely" after a date - but want some of the late-night stranger-kissing that all the bar guys get. How do you turn cheery bar conversation into cheery bar smooching?
posted by anonymous on Nov 18, 2004 - 23 answers

A question for the ladies:
If a man does not try to kiss you on a first date, how would you be likely to interpret that [lack of] action?
posted by sciurus on Nov 12, 2004 - 34 answers

Kissing. Did people really kiss in that closed-mouth head-shaking style so popular in 1940s movies (and Bond films) or was it one of those self-censorship things? And if they did, when did french kissing become de rigeur?
posted by bonaldi on Jun 19, 2004 - 5 answers