As part of my New Year's Self-Improvement Program (tm), I'm seeking out a few sexual experiences I haven't had but would like. In particular, I'd like to be the third in a heterosexual couple's threesome. I'm a mostly-straight man in San Francisco. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 5, 2010 - 5 answers

Please help a single, adventurous woman step up her kink in simple, everyday ways. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 3, 2010 - 17 answers

American male/female swinger couple stranded in London next month. Where's the best fun? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 25, 2009 - 2 answers

Sexyfilter: Lesbian role-play ideas, bonus points for kinky. Yes, really. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2008 - 12 answers

Where are the good, exciting online fetishwear sites? [more inside]
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur on Mar 6, 2008 - 10 answers

SexFilter - is kink curable? [more inside]
posted by Jake Apathy on Aug 16, 2007 - 20 answers

How does one come to peace with unfulfillable sexual fantasies? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2007 - 14 answers

Do I have a (sexual) kink? Should I have a kink? If I do have a kink, how do I discover it? [more inside]
posted by Ethereal Bligh on May 31, 2007 - 27 answers

Kinkfilter: I know there’s a big campaign to discourage kids from playing the choking game, and I know people die from autoerotic asphyxiation all the time, but [more inside]
posted by serazin on Oct 30, 2006 - 14 answers

Help my partner and I find a place to do BDSM play where we'll fit in. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 9, 2006 - 3 answers

BSDMFilter : Is it true that there are far more male bottoms then there are female tops? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 20, 2006 - 14 answers

So has anyone tried to explain sexual kinks and fetishes? I don't mean in a cataloguing sense, but in the same sense that an evolutionary biologist explains a fish's tail shape. Where it came from, what purposes it serves, that sort of thing.
posted by kavasa on Mar 5, 2005 - 29 answers