I used to live with my dog and (now) ex-boyfriend. I moved out. Dog now lives with him. I live in apartment that doesn't allow dogs. Ex is abusive to dog. She can't stay with me, she can't stay with him, even though he wants to keep her. If I find her a new home, she'll be safe, but I won't get to see her again and my ex might retaliate against me. If I leave her there, I'll get to see her more often, but my ex could flip out and hurt her. I'm not sure how to do what I need to do. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 15, 2009 - 37 answers

Is there anything I can do to help my child adjust to her new custody arrangement? (And possibly make life a little easier on me, too?) [more inside]
posted by kelzabel on May 8, 2007 - 23 answers