Need to update an out of the loop narcissistic sibling about our Mother's declining health. Wish do do this without fueling her issues and having it turn into a blame game. Snow storm details ahead!
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posted by cat_link
on May 17, 2013 -
25 answers
How to deal with incompatible conflict styles? My boyfriend avoids and I try to confront/face things. He hates to talk about it. I hate to leave it unaddressed. It's straining the relationship.
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posted by hungry hippo
on Nov 19, 2012 -
44 answers
Conflict with friend's partner: do I pull out of this commitment, or am I overreacting? (petty and annoying) details inside.
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posted by jrochest
on Jun 13, 2012 -
42 answers
Bad smells filter through the heating system in my building, meaning that my apartment - and by extension, me - smell like these bad smells (cigarette smoke + other). Help us both to smell like something more pleasant?
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posted by AthenaPolias
on Nov 6, 2011 -
12 answers
I need advice on building a healthy relationship with my father despite his temper.
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posted by raintree
on Jul 25, 2011 -
21 answers
I rent an apartment and park my car right next to the leasing office due to my car being vandalized several times. There's a camera right in front of the office, so if it happens again, I hope to be able to know who's doing it. Someone who works for the apartment complex told me not to park there anymore because, supposedly, they need the spots open for people who are looking into leasing.
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posted by amiableamy
on Jul 9, 2011 -
32 answers
Please help me salvage this situation, if possible. I accidentally said something racist to someone I want to be my friend.
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posted by ferngully
on Jun 25, 2011 -
56 answers
How do I let people love me? Will I ever outgrow my fear of intimacy? I'm in my late 20s. I'm scared of intimacy. Don't get me wrong, I'm not scared of sex. Won't think twice about a threesome, but am startled by holding hands. If a guy wants to get to know me more, compliments me, or crosses the line from being sweet to me to being sweet on me, I get super flustered. I stutter or look at my feet. I run away.
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posted by jamaisvu
on Nov 6, 2010 -
15 answers
Not really sure how to let this out to my college counselor. In February of this year, I came out to my mom and brother. Things were better than I thought they would turn out to be. A couple of month later, my Dad somehow got the impression that we were all hiding something from him and as such, coerced me to tell him what was going on. I told him. He was somewhat judgmental of me and I completely stopped talking to him about these topics. Ever since that, I've been worried about how my future decisions will affect my relationship with my parents.
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posted by antgly
on Aug 30, 2010 -
53 answers
About to start teaching a Current Issues class to high school students. Need recommendations about quality documentaries that can supplement what we will cover in the class.
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posted by dealing away
on Feb 19, 2010 -
24 answers
A friend and her boyfriend bought a mixed use building in California, living in 1/2 and opening a business in the other 1/2. They broke up and friend moved out, ex stayed and doesn't want to sell or contribute. Any options?
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posted by stewiethegreat
on Feb 5, 2010 -
14 answers
I'm not ultra-dependent, boyfriend and I have a healthy relationship, so why am I so bummed about moving out of his place?
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posted by thatbrunette
on Jan 13, 2010 -
20 answers
How do I cope with my angry teenage daughter? After an somewhat nonsensical rant about how hard her life is (I wanted to chat with her about applying to colleges and how the process was going), she dropped the bomb that she doesn't trust me and therefore doesn't have to talk to me.
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posted by dzaz
on Oct 18, 2009 -
39 answers