Mr. DeludingMyself is turning 30 in September, and isn't entirely pleased with the idea. I know I can't stop him from being upset about the big 3-0, but I want to come up with something to make the day itself awesome.
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posted by deludingmyself
on Aug 6, 2010 -
22 answers
There's a girl I see often that I'd like to get to know better. Problem: I'm absolutely terrified on how to start.
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posted by ConstantineXVI
on Jul 14, 2010 -
27 answers
I’m a former academic who would like to focus on self-driven writing and creative projects, but I’m not ready for self-employment. I’d like to find a low-stress job that will leave time and energy for my creative work, but I have some health restrictions and complicating factors. What should I do?
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posted by velvet winter
on Jul 7, 2010 -
9 answers
Are there any effective, well-respected alternatives to Alcoholics Anonymous that don't require group meetings?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 7, 2010 -
12 answers
I'm being romanced by a wonderful man. Problem is, he's a super-social extrovert, and I am your classic introvert who needs lots of alone time. Communication is good about this, but I am worried that I am somehow "holding him back".
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posted by anonymous
on May 20, 2010 -
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I am an introvert. The situation/stimulation at work has escalated to a painful level. What is the best way to approach my boss to get an (available) office?
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posted by Prairie
on May 16, 2010 -
29 answers
I am a happy introvert between the horns of what must be a common dilemma, yet I have not seen a clear answer to it: What do I say when my SO or best friend or cousin invites me to do something and I would very clearly rather just stay home and read?
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posted by the foreground
on Feb 5, 2010 -
32 answers
Help find a coping mechanism for an introvert so he can better tolerate his chatty co-workers?
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posted by lizbunny
on Dec 14, 2009 -
11 answers
Every night that he comes home and winds up browsing the internet for hours, I feel like I'm going to scream.
Am I a nagging worrywort, is my boyfriend mildly depressed, or both? And what's the best way to work on it?
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posted by brisquette
on Nov 17, 2009 -
39 answers
What is a good comeback for an introvert, attending a social occasion, who gets told, for the umpteenth time, "Hey you're really quiet aren't you?"
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posted by pixlboi
on Sep 29, 2009 -
99 answers
One bachelorette party, ten miscellaneous female guests, one extremely introverted organizer (that's me!). Activities are set, but what little things can I do (or how should I behave) to keep things cohesive and lively, instead of awkward or lame?
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posted by yersinia
on Sep 17, 2009 -
9 answers
Calling all introverts: I need suggestions for places in or around Oak Park/Chicago where I can chill with a laptop or a book and not be bothered.
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posted by desjardins
on Jun 29, 2009 -
12 answers
How can an introvert survive and hopefully thrive while entertaining short to medium term house guests? (Long term being out of the freaking question!)
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posted by srboisvert
on Jun 8, 2009 -
20 answers
Just started a new job. I want these people to like me. Other than working hard, what's the best way for an introverted person like me to make a good impression with my new co-workers?
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posted by Effigy2000
on Mar 31, 2009 -
23 answers
My friend is a sociophobe with an Arts degree. She wants to find a job with
some social interaction, but avoiding high pressure / extroverty jobs.
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posted by ClarissaWAM
on Mar 16, 2009 -
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Fellow introverts, and others who need lots of alone time: How did you deal with becoming a parent?
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posted by El Curioso
on Jan 31, 2009 -
12 answers
Where do you go and where do you live?
I currently live in West Lakeview and after the daily hustle/bustle that is working in the Loop, I find myself needing to unwind.
I like the idea of book stores and coffee shops but the only ones I know around me are the standard Borders/B&N and Starbucks and those are usually busy.
posted by hitopshelf
on Aug 1, 2008 -
14 answers
I'm a male introvert with very, very few close friends. I can make casual friends no problem, but I'm rather particular about the type of people I'd want to be serious friends with. Difficulty: I'm an atheist liberal eco-friendly vegetarian tech nerd who doesn't drink, smoke, or do drugs.
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posted by anonymous
on May 16, 2008 -
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After several miserable years in the ad industry, I'm quitting, because I was never cut out for this to begin with. Suggest some gigs more suited to a right-brained, literature-loving introvert who values kindness far more than the bottom line.
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posted by Chaotician
on Feb 14, 2008 -
12 answers
What are some good (preferably experience-based) birthday gifts for a 21-year-old Australian programming geek who thinks he's Danish?
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posted by divabat
on Nov 29, 2007 -
12 answers
Pretty soon I’ll be going out of town to visit a good friend, and said friend has just invited me to the Xmas party with the folks she works with since it’ll be held while I’m out there. Problem is, they’re very cool and I’m very NOT. We’ve met before and I’m pretty sure most of them think of me as my friend’s dweeby, awkward, strange pal. This only compounds my anxiety and will likely make me act even MORE dweeby, awkward, & strange this time around. Please help me with damage control!
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 28, 2007 -
21 answers
How can I feel more gregarious? How to more deeply appreciate fellowship?
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posted by levijk
on Aug 28, 2007 -
8 answers
What careers would suit an introverted but intelligent person?
I am working through several careers books but have difficulties settling on careers to research further. I have social anxiety as do most of my friends (met through self help sites) and we are mostly in the same boat. Everyone seems to be looking for extroverted types, where do we introverts succeed?
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posted by AuroraSky
on Nov 10, 2006 -
28 answers
First date: I'm going to call the nice young lady I met during jury duty and I have a couple dating questions. I like to think I'm nice but I'm not flirtatious or otherwise outgoing. I think I'll come across as uninterested on the date (and I'm afraid that I already have in our previous contact).
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posted by stuart_s
on Jun 10, 2006 -
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