Does anyone else feel like an imposter? I often have a hard time building relationships with people. I can be polite and make small talk with other people, but I struggle with making friends. I struggle with social anxiety which is part of the problem, but how do you move past it and build relationships with other people so that they are genuinely interested in getting to know you better? [more inside]
posted by Garden on Oct 5, 2009 - 13 answers

I'm looking for help in finding good examples of interest surveys for social sites that match a user to a group/other users based on interest survey results (very much like StumbleUpon process but its focused on matching sites I might like). I'm looking for best practices, too, to decide on hierarchy structure (what is a considered a top level and second level category). [more inside]
posted by dael on Nov 17, 2008 - 1 answer

I've done some soul-searching, and I've come up with some ideas for new jobs or careers for myself, but I know there are other possibilities out there that I just haven't thought of yet. Based on my skills and interests, can you think of a great job or career for me? [more inside]
posted by springo on Sep 21, 2008 - 8 answers

Depression has knocked my passion (for everything) out. Gwargh. What do I do while I get therapy sorted? [more inside]
posted by divabat on Jul 21, 2008 - 13 answers

How do you try new things? [more inside]
posted by hamhed on Oct 31, 2007 - 16 answers

I love everything. How can I narrow down my field of interest to decide what I want to do for the rest of my life? [more inside]
posted by d13t_p3ps1 on Oct 11, 2007 - 21 answers

How do you fit everything into life that you want to do? [more inside]
posted by Brittanie on Jun 21, 2007 - 20 answers

I have a lot of free time now that I'm single again, but I don't really know what to do with it. Help? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 18, 2006 - 22 answers

What do you and your significant other like to do together? [more inside]
posted by justonegirl on Apr 14, 2006 - 36 answers

All of the guides to life planning or career management start from the assumption that the individual knows what they want or at least what they like. I have no idea what I want. What can I do to discover or rediscover direction? [more inside]
posted by Tolerant on Mar 16, 2006 - 23 answers

Help me decide on a project... [more inside]
posted by jackofsaxons on Dec 22, 2005 - 12 answers

My girlfriends brother wants some new music to listen to. What questions can I ask to better gauge what suggestions I make? [more inside]
posted by Botunda on Sep 20, 2005 - 16 answers