Help me survive my performance review! I have to complete an extensive self-evaluation form for my boss, and it’s freaking me out. What would make this an easier and less anxiety-inducing experience?
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posted by gingerbeer
on Apr 15, 2009 -
16 answers
Help! My boyfriend/roommate has less time for me than he used to, and now I feel like I'm sabotaging my relationship with insecurity and anxiety. Help me deal with this without being crazy and treating my already-stressed boyfriend badly.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 6, 2009 -
18 answers
How can I learn to stop letting my past relationship influence how I behave in my current one?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 27, 2009 -
21 answers
What did you do to get over your deep-seated belief that you'll fail at everything you do? In the past this has manifested itself in overtly self-destructive behaviors (e.g. substance abuse), and while those are currently under control I still engage in massive self-sabotage that I'm pretty sure is connected to my belief that I do not deserve success and will fail at anything I try to do.
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 27, 2008 -
18 answers
I lack faith in myself and am convinced that if I undertake anything but the most menial tasks I will screw things up. As a result, I screw things up and give myself even
more proof that I will always screw things up. How do I stop the cycle?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 10, 2008 -
25 answers
How can a person overcome general insecurity, improve their self-esteem, and bolster their sense of self worth?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 25, 2007 -
18 answers
I'm 23, she's 25. We saw each other casually while I was in school. She wanted something more serious, but I wasn't ready. Now I am ready, but she says I'm too late– she can't risk getting hurt again. She still cares for me, and I for her. Help me understand and address her needs.
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posted by colgate
on Jul 11, 2007 -
39 answers
[Insecure Female Filter] Help me feel less clingy when asking for affection from or even just displaying it to my more stoic significant other. Back story & lots
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posted by Phire
on Jan 2, 2007 -
17 answers
How do I learn to overcome (better: eliminate) deep-seated insecurity in a relationship?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 27, 2006 -
18 answers