My Dad died in early December, and I've unearthed a nasty secret while cleaning up/out his house. What do I do about this? Importantly, do I tell my Mom, who is also elderly and quite sick? (mom is in a nursing home and has been essentially quadriplegic for about 20 years). There's no real 'right answer' but I'd like people's responses.
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 6, 2013 -
44 answers
Help me navigate this mine field of teenage drama and screwed up relationship between teen and adult.
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posted by lpcxa0
on Jul 8, 2012 -
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I'm trying to find a piece of artwork I saw printed in a magazine. It was a detailed, life-like pencil sketch, or at least a primarily black and white image with some pink shadings. Subject matter revolved around skewed father-daughter relationships in evangelical Christianity. The piece showed multiple father and daughter figures layered upon each other stretching across the frame. No background. I think it was a baptism being performed, the father baptizing the daughter, and the father's erect penis is shaded in pink, transposed over the daughter's figure, portraying this baptism scene as an act an incest. Suffice to say, it's a controversial piece of art. I think the artist is a woman, and she may have done a series of pieces on a similar theme. I feel like I saw the piece printed in The Believer or Vice magazine, but I may have that wrong. Probably was printed two or three years ago. Anyone know this artist?
posted by margoc19
on Nov 14, 2011 -
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I recently discovered my brother was sexually abusing my sister and how the hell do I deal with this over Thanksgiving weekend?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 25, 2009 -
38 answers
I was looking at
this chart of the ancestry of Charles II of Spain. There are quite a few uncle-niece marriages in his family tree. Presumably, at the time, this was permissible under Spanish or Austrian laws. When did uncle-niece marriage start to be considered incestuous in Europe?
posted by Charmian
on Sep 11, 2009 -
10 answers
My mom's quasi-incestuous behavior towards my younger brother seriously squicks me out. Is her behavior actually quasi-inscestuous? And what should I do?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 14, 2008 -
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I have two children. One is a male teenager [17], and the other is an infant girl. Soon after my daughter was born I discovered that my son had been looking up porn fiction on the net. I was disturbed by the content.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 25, 2007 -
28 answers