SO has been constantly texting a new friend for months on end and it is making me uncomfortable. How much is too much?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 29, 2013 -
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My son, 14, splits his time between my house and my ex-husband's house. About two years ago, my son's bed at his dad's house was taken away - he's been sleeping on the floor ever since. I am increasingly upset about this but unsure whether or how to intervene.
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posted by webwench
on Feb 10, 2013 -
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Really disturbing things keep showing up on YouTube "recommended for you". I'm not logged in, and all I watched recently were car reviews and animations of DNA replication. Why is it here, and how can I get it out of here?
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posted by Seeking Direction
on Feb 9, 2013 -
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I have a problem with my little sister's baby daddy. He's racist, bigoted, irresponsible, and I can see that he's a bad person for my sister and their child. It's driving me crazy, and being around him is breaking my heart. What can/should I do? Warning: some derogatory language within.
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posted by your mom's a sock puppet
on Dec 22, 2012 -
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A friend told me his baby was soothed quickly & consistently by Neutral Milk Hotel's "Oh Comely", despite its seemingly wildly inappropriate lyrics. What other songs have worked well as baby lullabies despite their actual meaning?
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posted by davebug
on Dec 22, 2012 -
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There is a unisex single-seater bathroom close to my office. Someone has been jerking off in the bathroom, and leaving the ejaculate in the toilet bowl (unflushed) or sometimes also on the seat. Super gross. I want it to stop.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 6, 2012 -
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Have I done something wrong, and if so, how will I know? I haven't had a crush in so long that I'm not sure whether I'm behaving normally or not, and I don't know how to deal. Long, involved, and socially awkward inside.
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posted by windykites
on Sep 5, 2012 -
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How to handle my husband's "friendship" with a woman half his age? I am upset about it, and he refuses to give it up. Snowflake details inside:
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posted by chaoscutie
on May 23, 2012 -
52 answers
How do I reconcile my interests and passions with creativity and human sexuality, in the face of death, grief, and tragedy? Are there any thoughtful heartfelt resources from those who have talked about the two?
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posted by divabat
on Jan 3, 2011 -
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Inappropriate flirting from a manager at work during an outing Friday evening... he apologized, I'm not going to get him in trouble for sexual harassment here, but I need advice on tactfully dodging this sort of situation in the future.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 1, 2010 -
23 answers
For Christmas Card art--what are some inappropriate workplace party behaviors that can be portrayed in a single drawing?
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posted by arniec
on Nov 9, 2009 -
25 answers
Was it inappropriate for my instructor to have us view and write about this film for our midterm?
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posted by kitcat
on Oct 30, 2009 -
80 answers
When I was a young girl, my brother's best friend made very inappropriate advances to me. My brother and his family are visiting this friend on the weekend, and I have a concern about how the friend will behave to my young niece. There are complications over what I should do …
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 29, 2009 -
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As a female 22 year old citizen, was it out of line for the male highway patrol officer to ask me to sit in the front seat of his vehicle with him while he filled out an official warning?
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posted by selavy
on Aug 12, 2009 -
60 answers
How do I explain to an acquaintance with learning difficulties that his language and actions are unwanted?
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posted by vickyverky
on Jul 20, 2009 -
18 answers
My boyfriend Skype-IMed his mother a very dirty greeting that was meant for me. It still shows the circling icon that I think happens when you try to send a user a message when the user does not have Skype running at the time. Is there any way to delete this before she gets it? He's freaking out, as you would too, if I told you what he just told his mother.
posted by anthropomorphic
on Jun 30, 2009 -
12 answers
An intern at work is dressing very inappropriately. Is there any way I can tell her nicely to tone it down?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 21, 2009 -
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A professor singled out a (blond, pretty) female student in a relatively small class and asked several male students and one female student to describe her beauty. The men were asked to describe her as though they were trying to tell a male friend how beautiful she is, while the woman was asked to describe her as though she was a family member. Should I register a complaint with the university?
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posted by Baethan
on Jun 1, 2009 -
75 answers
How do I politely and professional break of ties with a sort of creepy former colleague?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 25, 2009 -
24 answers
I'm Jewish. My wife converted many years ago. I found out that my Mother-In-Law secretly baptized my children.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 27, 2007 -
114 answers
My cat has started urinating in inappropriate spots in my house (and also my friend's house who was taking care of her and my other cat while I went through a move).
I've read the threads here on dealing with urine smell, etc. But need more detailed advice about the process of RETRAINING.
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posted by zenpop
on Sep 16, 2007 -
13 answers
Members of my family conspired to create a false identity for a sibling years ago--mine! How can I ensure that this ID is no longer being used?
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posted by anonymous
on May 16, 2007 -
11 answers
My friend has a problem with a comment her new boss made to her the other day, involving her supposedly "inappropriate" clothing. What would other females do in this sort of situation? [more inside] has her side of the story.
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posted by sperose
on Jun 8, 2006 -
117 answers