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	  <title>Ask MetaFilter questions tagged with housing</title>
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      <description>Questions tagged with 'housing' at Ask MetaFilter.</description>
	  <pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 12:48:29 -0800</pubDate> <lastBuildDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 12:48:29 -0800</lastBuildDate>

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	<title>Oh give me land, lots of land under LA skies above...</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/137852/Oh%2Dgive%2Dme%2Dland%2Dlots%2Dof%2Dland%2Dunder%2DLA%2Dskies%2Dabove</link>	
	<description>Say I want to buy some cheap land in the Los Angeles area: where would I find such a listing online? Basically it&apos;s time to go from a renter to buyer. Only given that a nice two bedroom in Compton is still over 300K I think I want to go a different way.&lt;br&gt;
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I&apos;ve been looking at some amazing pre-fab houses that are 100-150 all in and all up. Now all I need is a piece of property to put one on. So where do you look for that? Craigslist? Landhunter.com? Lotsoffun.net?</description>
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	<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 12:48:29 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>house</category>
	<category>housing</category>
	<category>land</category>
	<category>pre-fab</category>
	<category>property</category>
	<category>realestate</category>
	<dc:creator>rileyray3000</dc:creator>
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	<title>Required notice for vacating apartment?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/137098/Required%2Dnotice%2Dfor%2Dvacating%2Dapartment</link>	
	<description>Our apartment was damaged on Friday, and the whole floor needs to come out, possibly some of the drywall too. The property manager needs us to vacate, and remove all of our stuff, for an extended period of time (1-2 months). (Note that we have been dealing with the property manager, and to a lesser extent, the superintendent, and not our landlord.) How much notice is he legally required to give us? We live in Toronto. YANAL. Today, at about 6, our landlord emailed us, saying the property manager wanted us out of our unit by Wednesday. Which gives us less than 2 days to co-ordinate moving, storage, and new accommodation.&lt;br&gt;
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Our insurance company informed us that repairs wouldn&apos;t take place for at least another three weeks. Until just a few hours ago, the super + PM had given us absolutely no information on when we could expect them to begin.  The two of them came by to inspect the damage &lt;em&gt;twice&lt;/em&gt; just today, and said nothing about it.&lt;br&gt;
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As far as I can tell, this is completely unreasonable. But I can&apos;t seem to find any specific tenancy law it violates, perhaps because repairs rarely require tenants to leave for such a long period of time. I have seen by-laws,  for example, that require 24 hours of written notice for repairs - and that&apos;s reasonable for something like &quot;I need to repair your water-pipe,&quot; but not for something like &quot;I need you, and all of your stuff, out for 2 months.&quot; &lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
What can we do?</description>
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	<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 20:30:51 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>housing</category>
	<category>landlord</category>
	<category>law</category>
	<category>manager</category>
	<category>property</category>
	<category>superintendent</category>
	<category>tenancy</category>
	<dc:creator>mellifluous</dc:creator>
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	<title>Short term housing in/near Worcester, MA</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/137084/Short%2Dterm%2Dhousing%2Dinnear%2DWorcester%2DMA</link>	
	<description>I need short-term housing within 45 min drive of Worcester, MA.  I&apos;m open to apartment/hotel/hybrid suggestions, but right now, everything looks the same and I&apos;m eager to hear others&apos; experiences in the area. I will start a new job within a few weeks in Worcester, MA.  My husband can&apos;t come along for a month or two, so as the worst case scenario, I figured I would just get a cheap hotel room for the time being and be on the lookout for better options.&lt;br&gt;
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Do you know of a better option?  I see that there are short-term apartments available, but they all look sort of the same to me.  If someone had had a really good experience somewhere, that would be nice to know (and bad experiences would also be helpful to hear about).  I lived in Worcester several years ago and I guess I would prefer not to live right in the city...I never had much love for the city but I enjoy all the little towns surrounding.  I like quiet a ton and would be willing to have to drive a little bit further/pay more/climb extra stairs/be a little inconvenient to drive to in order to obtain that quiet.  I also need to feel safe though...  It makes me think a high rise building with some thick walls (but still lots of people around) might be the best thing for me while I&apos;m living alone.  A place to park the car is another requirement..&lt;br&gt;
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As far as my price range, $50 per night would be about the max, but I&apos;d pay it for a nice place, since this is so short term.  Anything cheaper would be a bonus.  Thanks for your help...</description>
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	<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 17:31:32 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>housing</category>
	<category>transition</category>
	<category>worcester</category>
	<dc:creator>Tandem Affinity</dc:creator>
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	<title>complex real estate cost benefit analysis needed</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/136665/complex%2Dreal%2Destate%2Dcost%2Dbenefit%2Danalysis%2Dneeded</link>	
	<description>Complex cost/benefit real estate question. We put our small, far suburban, now-overpriced house on the market two weeks ago. (Bought in &apos;05.)&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Because my wife has gotten a job, our income has doubled since buying our house, and we are saving $5k per month. However, her commute is lengthy, and we would like to move closer to the city, to lessen her commute, because now we can afford to, we know the target area better now, and we have friends in the city. Also, she may work more if we are closer, resulting in a higher income.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
However, looking around at the other houses for sale in our area, I kind of doubt that our house will sell at the price which the realtor set for it, because there are nicer, bigger houses in better areas available for less or the same money. However, those are mostly foreclosures or short sales, which our realtor says takes a lot of time to buy, so maybe they are not that attractive to folks who are not real estate professionals. &lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
We have $60k of our money in the bank and no debt except for our mortgage. We have $60k of my brother-in-law&apos;s money in the bank as seasoned assets, which he would like for us to use to buy the house. He is going to send $20k more soon. Later we could either pay him back, or he could continue to own part of our house (which &lt;strong&gt;I know &lt;/strong&gt;is another &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;big&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; can of worms).&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
So what we will be faced with soon is: do we lower the price of our house (i.e., lose money on the house) in order to sell it? Although our house&apos;s price is depressed, the price of the house that we want to buy is also depressed. And I feel that we might be able to &quot;save&quot; more money on the purchase than we will lose on the sale...because the price of our house is only about 67% of the price of the type of house that we want to buy. We are &lt;strong&gt;not &lt;/strong&gt;upside-down on the house --- our mortgage is 68% of the current asking price of our house.</description>
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	<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 09:51:46 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>estate</category>
	<category>housing</category>
	<category>housingmarket</category>
	<category>housing-market</category>
	<category>market</category>
	<category>real</category>
	<category>realestate</category>
	<category>real-estate</category>
	<category>resolved</category>
	<dc:creator>anonymous_account</dc:creator>
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	<title>What happens when you report an illegal rooming house in Toronto?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/136505/What%2Dhappens%2Dwhen%2Dyou%2Dreport%2Dan%2Dillegal%2Drooming%2Dhouse%2Din%2DToronto</link>	
	<description>What is the likely result of reporting an illegal rooming house in Toronto? e.g. How often do they end up getting cleaned up, repaired, and properly licensed vs. shut down (whether by the inspectors or by an owner who doesn&apos;t want to bother fixing it up)?</description>
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	<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 14:52:05 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>homeimprovement</category>
	<category>housing</category>
	<category>law</category>
	<category>licensing</category>
	<category>poverty</category>
	<category>toronto</category>
	<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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	<title>Real Estate development in a nutshell</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/136106/Real%2DEstate%2Ddevelopment%2Din%2Da%2Dnutshell</link>	
	<description>I think I really, really want to get into developing real estate. Can anyone give me an overview description of what the work / process is is like? The thing is, I have no educational/professional background in real estate per se. &lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
I want to start small and I know it will be a long while before I see my big hairy audacious goal realized. So what I want to know exactly is:&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
What books, articles do I read on basic strategies for real estate business development? Where do I get ideas for a business plan? What knowledge is within my reach for me to study? Where do I start looking?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Social housing (which is a big reason for my wanting to go into this), from the little that I know, is usually done by nonprofits and the government. Is providing that a commercially viable option? Can private companies survive while providing low-cost and public housing / has it been done?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
What am I expected to reasonably accomplish every five years up to the twenty - year mark?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
I know I have to start small, but where exactly does developing real estate start, and how does it grow, exactly? Where does my funding come from apart from loans?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
So far, what I can see about the idea is to buy lots, develop houses, and then sell or rent them, use the profit to develop more houses, and so on until I gain momentum and a large portfolio. But it seems to me that it&apos;s like living hand-to-mouth, and given the recent financial crisis it doesn&apos;t seem like a good idea to just borrow a ton of money from the banks from the get-go.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
I hope my questions makes sense. The idea fires me up and I want to start but I hope my lack of experience and knowledge doesn&apos;t cause me to stagnate/give up. I&apos;m also really really young, but I&apos;m looking at this as a way to give me a headstart in the business. Eventually, I hope the answers will give me what I need to start pursuing this goal. The answers might not be as in-depth as I&apos;d like but I figure the hive mind can give me various points of view to assess.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Thank you very much.</description>
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	<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 20:38:47 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>development</category>
	<category>entrepreneurship</category>
	<category>estate</category>
	<category>housing</category>
	<category>real</category>
	<category>social</category>
	<dc:creator>drea</dc:creator>
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	<title>Wants to work hunting scammers</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/135599/Wants%2Dto%2Dwork%2Dhunting%2Dscammers</link>	
	<description>Someone I know wants to find a job as the person who is portrays themselves as seeking housing or employment, and is either preferred or discriminated against because of their race, sex, age, etc. I would guess a job like this; someone who portrays an apartment or job seeker, might be offered by the state, or the feds or a reputable non-profit, but I don&apos;t know.   They are even interested in starting out pretending to be a customer who is victimized by mortgage fraud or auto garage scams as part of an investigation.  Does anybody know which agency to approach and what credentials she might need to get her foot in the door?</description>
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	<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 16:39:53 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>employment</category>
	<category>housing</category>
	<category>investigations</category>
	<category>mortgage</category>
	<category>rip-offs</category>
	<category>scams</category>
	<dc:creator>CollectiveMind</dc:creator>
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	<title>Housing for couple.</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/134328/Housing%2Dfor%2Dcouple</link>	
	<description>Disabled couple without children eligible for section 8 housing? My boyfriend is currently on disability and is living in section 8 housing, and my disability application is currently pending. Is it possible for us to qualify for section 8 together? The max monthly income we would make together should I be accepted and receive disability would be approximately $1500. Also if my disability isn&apos;t accepted would we still qualify with me not being able to work? I&apos;m not exactly sure what the income requirements are by state for section 8. I know at the housing authority office they have a print out by state on income requirements, is that available anywhere online? My boyfriend is planning to call the housing authority office tomorrow to get a better understanding of things. Though any information we get here that could offer some clarity on our situation would be helpful and appreciated.</description>
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	<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 09:49:46 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>8</category>
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	<category>disabled</category>
	<category>housing</category>
	<category>section</category>
	<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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	<title>Do you have to pay taxes on money paid during a seller rent-back?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/134186/Do%2Dyou%2Dhave%2Dto%2Dpay%2Dtaxes%2Don%2Dmoney%2Dpaid%2Dduring%2Da%2Dseller%2Drentback</link>	
	<description>You buy a house in California. You agree that the seller can stay up to 2 months after escrow closes (a &quot;seller rent-back&quot;) if they make your (&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PITI&quot;&gt;PITI&lt;/a&gt;) payments. Do you need to pay income taxes on the money they pay toward your PITI?&lt;/strong&gt; Also, what was your &quot;seller rent-back&quot; experience? We are buying a house in California. The sellers (who are very nice) want the option to rent the house beyond closing while they look for a house to buy (e.g., a seller rent-back or Residential Lease After Sale [RLAS] agreement) for up to 2 months. If they stay beyond escrow, they will pay our &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PITI&quot;&gt;PITI&lt;/a&gt;, say $100/day for the sake of convenient calculations.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Suppose they stay 20 days and pay $2000 toward our PITI during that time. &lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;Is that $2000 considered our income for tax purposes?&lt;/strong&gt; In other words, would we (in the 25% federal and 9% state tax brackets) need to pay taxes on that $2000, effectively reducing it by one-third?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
I understand we can deduct our interest and mortgage insurance payments from our taxes, does that mean this comes out in the wash?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
What was your experience with a &quot;rent-back&quot; or a Residential Lease After Sale agreement?</description>
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	<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 21:31:20 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>agent</category>
	<category>buyer</category>
	<category>housing</category>
	<category>income</category>
	<category>incometax</category>
	<category>realestate</category>
	<category>rentback</category>
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	<dc:creator>unclezeb</dc:creator>
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	<title>To squat or not?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/133969/To%2Dsquat%2Dor%2Dnot</link>	
	<description>I am considering renting out an artist&apos;s studio space and squatting in it temporarily, does anyone have any experience in this? Good idea, bad idea? So, I have been staying at a friends place in Chicago for the past few months and am ready to move out. Only problem is finding a good roommate/apartment combination hasn&apos;t quite happened yet. Because of this I am considering getting artist&apos;s studio space to move all of my stuff into and sleep in while I keep looking for a proper apartment. This could really be an ideal situation for me, because having studio space is really more of a concern to me than having a swanky apartment and most of the time I would actually use the space for art making etc. I figure in the future, if I find a better apartment situation I can just share my studio space with someone else to help offset the cost. &lt;br&gt;
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I have an older friend who has managed to squat in her studio in NYC for years and years, even after getting married for a while, so it seems like something I could manage. What I am more curious about are peoples experiences trying to do this in Chicago, and what the worst legal ramifications would be if I was found out. How do landlords even check for this or prove it if they are suspicious?&lt;br&gt;
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Thanks in advance.</description>
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	<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 19:09:06 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>artist</category>
	<category>chicago</category>
	<category>housing</category>
	<category>living</category>
	<category>space</category>
	<category>squat</category>
	<category>squatting</category>
	<category>studio</category>
	<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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	<title>Can we afford this $445,000 house? How can you tell?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/133388/Can%2Dwe%2Dafford%2Dthis%2D445000%2Dhouse%2DHow%2Dcan%2Dyou%2Dtell</link>	
	<description>Can we afford &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.redfin.com/CA/Napa/Undisclosed-address-94558/home/12222327&quot;&gt;this house &lt;/a&gt; in California (just an example)? What &quot;rules of thumb&quot; or other measures should I use to determine what is &quot;affordable&quot;? I have used many of the on-line &quot;calculators&quot; but I feel like there are too many variables which are not explained and there is too much variation. Can you look at our situation and help suggest how much house we can afford while remaining fairly conservative? What other &quot;rules of thumb&quot; or standard rules should I consider when determining how much house we (or anyone) can afford?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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Total income: $120,000/year&lt;br&gt;
House price: $445,000 &lt;br&gt;
Loan: FHA with 3.5% down &lt;br&gt;
&lt;em&gt;(the down payment is not set at this amount but it is so common that we use it when making comparisons).&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
We&apos;re fairly frugal and save more than average. We&apos;re both local government employees. The house is in Northern California (Bay Area). The house included above is just an example.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Conservative rule of thumb for front end debt-to-income (DTI) ratio -&lt;br&gt;
28% of your pre-tax income = reasonable annual payment (before considering tax benefits):&lt;br&gt;
$33,600/year&lt;br&gt;
or &lt;br&gt;
$2,800/month&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Conservative back end DTI ratio: &lt;br&gt;
36% of pre-tax income minus other debt payments.&lt;br&gt;
We have about $600 of debt (student loan) payments/month.&lt;br&gt;
$43,200 - 7,200 = $36,000&lt;br&gt;
or&lt;br&gt;
$3,000/month&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
I have received several &quot;Good Faith Estimates&quot; (GFE) for a loan in these conditions - the highest GFE (with most fees filled in) places our monthly payments at $2950.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Is that reasonable based on our income? How do you make that decision?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
The tax rate for the city at issue is 1% (low) and no flood insurance is required. This is included in the GFE above. We also have a reasonable emergency fund.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Email questions/suggestions/issues to canweaffordthishouse@gmail.com&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Thanks mefites!</description>
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	<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 15:16:38 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>gfe</category>
	<category>goodfaithestimate</category>
	<category>house</category>
	<category>housing</category>
	<category>loan</category>
	<category>loans</category>
	<category>mortgage</category>
	<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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	<title>How do I salvage a fractious relationship?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/133050/How%2Ddo%2DI%2Dsalvage%2Da%2Dfractious%2Drelationship</link>	
	<description>Relationshipfilter: Is there any way to salvage our relationship once and for all? Me and my ex-girlfriend have been trying to work things out, but, lo and behold, we just had another huge argument.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
This all started about 18 months ago. We were living in a tiny flat together, we were both getting a bit claustrophobic. We had a huge argument, the sort that starts earthquakes, and she left me. I thought that was it, and I&apos;d never see her again. We didn&apos;t speak for a while after that, and both moved out of the flat.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Weirdly, we both moved to the same city because of our jobs. We got in touch again, and things went swimmingly. It was great.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
At the time I lived with a guy I got on with well. He&apos;d just broken up with his girlfriend, and seemed incredibly depressed about his situation.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
The ex went on holiday, and we&apos;d agreed that when she got back we&apos;d find somewhere to rent together. When she came back, I got cold feet about the whole moving in idea. I told her I&apos;d rather stay with my friend for a few more months, until the end of our contract. Neither me, or my girlfriend were under any pressure to move out of our then houses, and I thought she&apos;d be fine about it.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
She wasn&apos;t. She totally flipped out, saying me not wanting to move in meant that I didn&apos;t love her. To me, it just felt wrong. My friend was really down about splitting up with his girlfriend, and I felt sorry for him. He was easy to feel sorry for. I wanted to see him through the next few months, as he was talking about moving to a bigger city and having a fresh start (he did move to a big city, and I&apos;ve never seen him so happy).&lt;br&gt;
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Months passed with me and my ex not talking. Then, out of the blue, she contacted me. We met again. I was overjoyed to see her, and there were obviously romantic sparks between us. She told me she&apos;d bought a flat. After years of renting, she&apos;d managed to get on a scheme to get a mortgage and a flat on her own. I was unbelievably happy for her.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
We got on well for a bit longer, but then things went wrong again. It was great when we were together, but we were ignoring the bigger issues. I hadn&apos;t seen her parents for ages, and they&apos;d soaked up most of her tears when we split, so understandably they didn&apos;t want us to be together. She had a new set of friends she didn&apos;t want me to meet.&lt;br&gt;
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The whole flat thing didn&apos;t help as well. I was (and still am) renting a place - I don&apos;t earn enough to be able to afford to buy. We discussed me moving in, but it&apos;s tricky because she owns the place and I&apos;ll be paying rent to her, so she won&apos;t let it happen.&lt;br&gt;
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Every time we argue, though, she brings up the fact that I had a chance to move in with her, but didn&apos;t. I do love her so much, and I know that she&apos;s the one for me - I really do want to start a family with her. For all the arguing, 99% of the time has been the best, happiest days of my life.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
But it just seems to be going round in circles. We&apos;ll get on really well, then we&apos;ll have an argument about something petty, and it&apos;ll turn into a full-blown fight (not physical). Then we won&apos;t speak for a month or so, then see each other again, repeat ad nauseum. We had relationship counselling a few weeks ago, and it seemed like we were getting somewhere. But tonight&apos;s argument threw me off balance. It&apos;s a horrible situation to be caught in, each time we argue it becomes more and more painful for both of us.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
What can I do to restore her faith in me? And how can I sort out the housing mess? I&apos;ve said I&apos;d be happy to pay her a lump some of cash to cover what she&apos;s spent on the flat so far, and I really don&apos;t mind about the whole paying rent to her thing. The way I see it is that I&apos;ll be investing in our future.&lt;br&gt;
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I apologise for rambling, and I hope this all makes sense. And I hope I don&apos;t come across as too much of an asshole.&lt;br&gt;
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Thanks in advance</description>
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	<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 16:26:44 -0800</pubDate>
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	<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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	<title>Subleasing tenant cosmetically damaged my table. How much, if any, of her deposit should I keep?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/131863/Subleasing%2Dtenant%2Dcosmetically%2Ddamaged%2Dmy%2Dtable%2DHow%2Dmuch%2Dif%2Dany%2Dof%2Dher%2Ddeposit%2Dshould%2DI%2Dkeep</link>	
	<description>Subleasing tenant cosmetically damaged my table. How much, if any, of her deposit should I keep? I am in my late 20&apos;s and I had a tenant stay at my place for 4 months in the summer as I subleased another place with my fiancee (in town for the summer). She paid her rent on time, was courteous, kept the place in good condition, and all in all a good fit. Unfortunately, she left hair products on my antique wooden dining room table (passed from generation to generation) and left a large black waxy stain on it around the size of two fingers held together, but in an irregular pattern.&lt;br&gt;
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It was very noticeable, and compounding the problem, as I tried to remove it, I stripped some of the red from the previous refinishing of the table several years ago. So, before it it was pretty obvious and bad, and now it is very obvious and bad.&lt;br&gt;
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I have received a handful of quotes pricing out the cost of fixing the table, and the general guesstimate is around $300-$350 (not including transport of the table top, which may or may not fit in my car, and would cost $130 round trip at my favourite place). All parties say that touching up the area would be visible and not ideal, and the entire top of the table should be redone, but none of the legs, etc. The entire top would need to be redone regardless of whether I had removed some of the colouring, as the removal of the wax would necessitate the full work. &lt;br&gt;
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Other relevant facts: &lt;br&gt;
-The tenant gave me a deposit of $825. &lt;br&gt;
-The room is shared with a roommate, but I don&apos;t think there is any debate about who caused the damage. &lt;br&gt;
-There are very slight discolourations on the table from resting glasses, etc, but before the wax I would have not considered getting it refinished under any circumstances.&lt;br&gt;
-I will get it refurnished due to this problem, either now, or when I move out of my apt into a house (estimated time-10 months from now). I would not have gotten it refurnished otherwise.&lt;br&gt;
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So, hivemind, what should I do, and what is fair under the circumstances? If I did the work now, what percentage of the final cost should the tenant be charged? Thanks.</description>
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	<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 06:54:35 -0800</pubDate>
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	<dc:creator>evadery</dc:creator>
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	<title>Resettling in New Delhi</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/131454/Resettling%2Din%2DNew%2DDelhi</link>	
	<description>American woman moving to New Delhi. Tips and advice on housing requested! I&apos;m a female grad student moving to New Delhi in mid-September for nine-ish months to do research.  On the off-chance that the communal wisdom of Metafilter can help me, I&apos;m asking for advice on how to find an apartment and which neighborhoods you recommend.&lt;br&gt;
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Details: My work is divided between south Delhi (GK1, South Ex, etc)  and Gurgaon.  Since transport within Gurgaon is relatively difficult for those who don&apos;t have a car and driver constantly on call (a luxury that my research stipend, while generous, doesn&apos;t quite encompass), I think an apartment in south Delhi would suit me better.  (Plus, the university I&apos;m affiliated with is actually north of Connaught Place!)  That way, I can hire a car only on those days when I need to be in Gurgaon.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
A friend suggested neighborhoods in south Delhi that I already know, and which put me in close-ish proximity to the Gurgaon route (Hauz Khaz, Green Park, Safdarjung Enclave).  I posted on an expat listserv, but I&apos;m not having much luck finding places in those areas.  I guess I could go with a realtor, but man, they are expensive, and the rent they&apos;re suggesting to me is much higher than what folks in Delhi think I should be paying (25-30,000 rupees at the lowest for a flatshare).&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Does anyone here have any advice on how to find flatshares or apartments in south Delhi?  &lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Secondly -- I used to know Delhi pretty well, but I haven&apos;t been back since 2005, so any other tips are welcome, too.  I&apos;m thinking particularly of the stuff I wasn&apos;t interested in before.  I like to cook for myself these days, so if you know of a good supermarket (I hear they&apos;re now increasingly ubiquitous!) and a good gym where a single gal could work out in comfort without bankrupting herself, that would be great too.  (Gold&apos;s, I hear, is very chic and well-maintained, but also abominably pricey.)&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Throwaway email for good measure: newdelhibound@gmail.com</description>
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	<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 19:20:28 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>apartment</category>
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	<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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	<title>Housing dispute lawyer in NYC?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/131167/Housing%2Ddispute%2Dlawyer%2Din%2DNYC</link>	
	<description>Can anyone recommend a good lawyer in NYC for dealing with housing issues, specifically a dispute over a security deposit with a former landlord? I&apos;m currently wrangling with a former landlord who&apos;s refusing to return my (substantial) security deposit. I believe this will end up in Housing Court. I know I don&apos;t &lt;em&gt;need&lt;/em&gt; an attorney for Housing Court, but I&apos;d really like to have someone giving me advice and walking me through the process as well as helping me prepare and file all the necessary paperwork. I don&apos;t mind spending some money to do this, as the deposit in question was fairly large. Any recommendations?&lt;br&gt;
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Anonymous because I prefer not to have legal things associated with my username and Google-able by people I know.</description>
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	<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 06:29:50 -0800</pubDate>
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	<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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	<title>New York housing law on illegal aliens</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/127936/New%2DYork%2Dhousing%2Dlaw%2Don%2Dillegal%2Daliens</link>	
	<description>Is it illegal in New York State to rent to illegal aliens? Should illegal aliens be upfront with their status to potential landlords while searching for a place to rent?  This is assuming there is no credit or background check being done and all payments are made in cash.</description>
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	<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 17:30:29 -0800</pubDate>
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	<category>illegalalien</category>
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	<dc:creator>pinksoftsoap</dc:creator>
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	<title>Weekly rental in Palo Alto - Menlo Park</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/127769/Weekly%2Drental%2Din%2DPalo%2DAlto%2DMenlo%2DPark</link>	
	<description>I&apos;m house hunting in the Palo Alto - Menlo Park area, and looking for a reasonably nice (not a motel) rental (on a week x week basis)...any suggestions?</description>
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	<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 08:39:12 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>housing</category>
	<dc:creator>shoe478</dc:creator>
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	<title>Can I live nextdoor after a divorce?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/127718/Can%2DI%2Dlive%2Dnextdoor%2Dafter%2Da%2Ddivorce</link>	
	<description>Divorce is a possibility...how close can I really live after the split? We have two children in elementary school.  Divorce is not inevitable, but if it gets to that, I&apos;d like to have an idea what to do and where to go.  This obviously includes where to live.  Wife would likely keep the house.  There are several homes in the neighborhood for sale including some on the same block.  Is that too close?  I don&apos;t want my kids seeing daddy in an apartment (for too long).  So, divorcees, where did you go? are there any general dos and don&apos;ts particularly about proximity after a split?  I&apos;d love to have the kids within walking distance.</description>
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	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 12:49:01 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>children</category>
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	<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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	<title>How should my Georgetown-bound friend find a place to live?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/127320/How%2Dshould%2Dmy%2DGeorgetownbound%2Dfriend%2Dfind%2Da%2Dplace%2Dto%2Dlive</link>	
	<description>Advice for a Georgetown U. grad student looking for housing in DC! I&apos;m asking for a friend who is looking for an apartment--single or with roommates, but he strongly prefers his own room and is looking to spend no more than $850. Convenience to school is very important, which seems to mean he can&apos;t rely on metro (no Georgetown stop) - he&apos;s not planning to drive to school, since parking is apparently atrocious. The problem is that he can only actually be in town to look for three days.  He&apos;s got a few Craigslist appointments set up, but should he be looking into a realtor to show apartments as well? We&apos;re hearing mixed answers over whether one is helpful/neccessary, especially if he&apos;s looking to live with housemates. If helpful, does anyone know a good one to contact?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Neighborhoods he&apos;s considering: either Georgetown/Burleith/Glover Park, Foxhall or Rosslyn/North Arlington.  Also Dupont Circle or Foggy Bottom if he could find an affordable place there.   Anywhere else with decent bus rides to Georgetown he should be considering?</description>
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	<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 13:38:43 -0800</pubDate>
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	<dc:creator>heyforfour</dc:creator>
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	<title>I can&apos;t afford the perfect apartment. In what areas should I compromise to get something halfway decent?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/126583/I%2Dcant%2Dafford%2Dthe%2Dperfect%2Dapartment%2DIn%2Dwhat%2Dareas%2Dshould%2DI%2Dcompromise%2Dto%2Dget%2Dsomething%2Dhalfway%2Ddecent</link>	
	<description>I can&apos;t afford the perfect apartment. In what areas should I compromise to get something halfway decent? I am apartment-hunting again. I am sick of being so far from the subway (I don&apos;t drive) and feel like my social life would improve dramatically if I were able to go home after work, drop my stuff, eat something and then go out again without facing a lengthy bus wait ot 15-minute walk through snow, rain, ice etc. I have also had some issues with my present apartment that leave me in need of an upgrade. Here is my issue, apartments are really costly in my area and I cannot afford a great apartment in a great area. So I will have to compromise. Here are my three choices:&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
1) Go way downtown. I can get a bigger apartment for a cheaper price if I go way downtown, but this is not practical given where I work and where I may be working in the future if I change jobs. Also, it&apos;s too far from my mother&apos;s place, which means I would lose the occasional use/access I have to her car for Costco trips, moving large objects etc.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
2) Get a much smaller apartment but be able to stay in the areas I want. This would mean I would have to get rid of furniture, which might be costly to buy again if I move later. Also, it would mean I can&apos;t do things like get an extra freezer (a long-standing goal of mine, so I can cook ahead and save money on my grocery bill) or have people over (another long-standing goal, the whole reason I am moving is a better social life and better subway access).&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
3) Get another basement apartment. I am in one now and have had a few issues (flood, critters, subject to capricious whims of landlady e.g. she sells the house, she goes away for whole summer etc.) But the big pro here would be much more space for much less money, and things like cable, laundry, utilities and internet are very often included. &lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
I am in a basement now and it&apos;s an okay one in spite of the issues. I had really been ready for a non-basement (the flood last summer was really traumatizing!) But now that I see what sort of places are available at my price range and where, I have to admit that the lure of So! Much! Space! is tempting me yet again. Everyone I have talked to says another basement would be a mistake, and I suppose it might be. But the reality is that unless I over-extend myself financially, I have to compromise somewhere! So given my options, what would be the best choice I can make to find something half-decent?</description>
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	<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 11:28:01 -0800</pubDate>
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	<dc:creator>JoannaC</dc:creator>
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	<title>location, location, location!</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/126459/location%2Dlocation%2Dlocation</link>	
	<description>Am considering buying a house both on a bus route/busyish street and a few houses down from a school. What should I be aware of before I make this purchase? Found a very reasonably priced house in downtown toronto - almost TOO reasonable. One of the reasons is that it right next to the pretty tree lined streets, but it is itself on a decently-busy street. Not afraid to cross the road busy, but one lane each way, wait for a couple cars to pass busy. On that road is a bus. While I know this drops the price, I actually think this is convenient and will help in my commute to work, but I was wondering if anyone had any thoughts both positive or negative about living on a busy-ish street with a bus route.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
As well, another positive (or negative) is that the house is a couple doors down from a school, kindergarden to grade 6. While this would be very convenient when we have kids, is there anything we should worry about due to the proximity, or is there any way to effectively check out if this is brings bad elements out in the neighbourhood?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
A third question - any idea how much these factors above would influence price (either percentage-wise, or something like &apos;greatly&apos;, &apos;hardly at all&apos; would be helpful).&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Other than those issues, we like everything about the place. So, should we be nervous about them? Thanks!</description>
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	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 08:31:41 -0800</pubDate>
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	<dc:creator>evadery</dc:creator>
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	<title>To buy, or to rent?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/125668/To%2Dbuy%2Dor%2Dto%2Drent</link>	
	<description>How do you find a good accountant, or other professional, to help you decide when it&apos;s right to buy a house? I have a friend who just graduated law school and is trying to work out whether she wants to buy or rent next year.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
She&apos;s in an... interesting situation. She has education loans from law school and already has a job lined up in NY at a good firm. She wants to go back to grad school, so she only wants to work for a couple of years, and she also doesn&apos;t know if she&apos;ll want to stay in NY or not.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
So, she needs to know her options. Is it better to pay off the loan, or just make the minimum payments since she can get loan forgiveness when her income drops when she goes back to school? How long should she stay in NY if she&apos;s buying? What should she do about taxes? Stuff like that.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
She&apos;s asked me to help, but I have no idea where to begin. I guess the right thing to do is to get an accountant, but we&apos;re not even sure who to look for or what to ask. How do you make decisions like this?</description>
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	<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 01:04:58 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>account</category>
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	<dc:creator>heathkit</dc:creator>
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	<title>Can my landlord really kick me out?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/124970/Can%2Dmy%2Dlandlord%2Dreally%2Dkick%2Dme%2Dout</link>	
	<description>My landlords want to kick me out and move into my apartment. They gave me the 60 days notice, but I have some questions about the validity of their notice. I was checking out the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ontariotenants.ca/law/act.phtml&quot;&gt;Residential Tenancies Act&lt;/a&gt;, and it seems that there is a clause that says they can&apos;t move in unless they have previously lived there (&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ontariotenants.ca/law/act05.phtml#RTA72&quot;&gt;72 b&lt;/a&gt;), which they haven&apos;t.&lt;br&gt;
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Also, they said they would rather take over the apartment of the guys who live upstairs, but can&apos;t because they have a lease until March 2010. Since we are on month-to-month, they said they could take over our place instead.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
Are either of these things true? Could they in fact take the other apartment instead?</description>
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	<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 12:19:28 -0800</pubDate>
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	<category>ontario</category>
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	<dc:creator>krunk</dc:creator>
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	<title>Help for the Disabled in Pennsylvania</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/124253/Help%2Dfor%2Dthe%2DDisabled%2Din%2DPennsylvania</link>	
	<description>(Philadelphia) Pennsylvania filter: Tell me everything available to a poor disabled person in this state. I would exclude anything easily found on the HHS or DPW websites but nah, tell me about anything you think is nifty. My friend in Ohio told me that her state paid for a computer and a $10,000 sewing machine so she could start a business. Another Ohioan was put through a bachelor&apos;s program fully funded by the state. People in other cities get housing through &quot;housing choice&quot; programs (but that list is closed here in Philadelphia and has been for years as long as I&apos;ve been checking). &lt;br&gt;
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I already have:&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
- medical assistance through medicaid and medicare (although dental options would be great since Keystone 65 Complete doesn&apos;t cover it) &lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
- Last year I used a UESF grant for utilities and must wait another year to receive one&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
- a psychiatric nurse who comes to my home so mental health is covered&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
- enough in food stamps&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
I know I could use:&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
- housing! live with broke parents (one of whom is disabled) and most of my SSDI check goes toward household expenses, and it&apos;s still more than I can afford, I must get out of here, but even if I had first, last and security I get turned down for apartments due to income&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
- utility assistance (because I live with my parents and one of them has a job, so while I dream of things like LIHEAP, the household income is always just a few thousand too much)&lt;br&gt;
When I got the other grant, I had a lease signed by my father that reflected all the money I put into the household as rent and the fact that the utilities, while not in my name, are solely my responsibility&lt;br&gt;
However, any other time I try this, I am told the utilities need to be in my name. I don&apos;t want to put them in my name and be responsible forever. &lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
- money to pay off student loans&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
- any help paying for the next two years of college (getting my associates on Saturday, transitioning to a bachelor&apos;s program this summer/fall)&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
But those are just the mundane things I know I&apos;d like in a perfect world. I want to know about everything anyone else knows. My income is about $10,000 per year from SSDI, I have nothing else, and no assets.&lt;br&gt;
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Thanks if anyone knows anything at all.</description>
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	<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 18:27:35 -0800</pubDate>
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	<dc:creator>Danila</dc:creator>
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	<title>How can I find out if there is mold behind my drywall?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/124182/How%2Dcan%2DI%2Dfind%2Dout%2Dif%2Dthere%2Dis%2Dmold%2Dbehind%2Dmy%2Ddrywall</link>	
	<description>What is the least destructive method I could use to determine what if any mold might be growing in drywall?   You see, there&apos;s this roof leak... ... that is very minor (the leak only showed up after 5+ days of rain in a row),  and that&apos;s going to get repaired,  but here I am looking at a wall with two pencil thin lines of moisture coming down about a foot and a half.    Considering this leak has probably been here since before I moved in,  as there is some minor discoloration I just now noticed elsewhere on the wall,  I&apos;m a little worried I might have something magical living behind/within the drywall.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
I&apos;ve googled around a bit and while there are several mold remediation companies that are happy to come in and rip out my walls and clean everything out -- no one seems to be in the business of, well, &lt;i&gt;checking&lt;/i&gt; if there is anything there to begin with.    I admit I&apos;m being cheap and trying to prevent a $1,000+ remediation action without evidence of a problem,  but am I just SOL here?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
The best I&apos;ve come up with is hiring a &quot;water leak detection&quot; company.   Which is remarkable since I know where the leak is coming from -- the roof -- it&apos;s more, well, how leaky is it?&lt;br&gt;
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If it helps for anyone&apos;s anecdotes,  I am in Florida.</description>
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	<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 09:16:20 -0800</pubDate>
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	<dc:creator>cavalier</dc:creator>
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