Knowing that two of my housemates plan to leave the third one high and dry, while he has no idea about it, do I tell him? Or is this a breach of trust to them? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 14, 2009 - 25 answers

I was not truthful about my past drug use in a job interview. Now I have a job offer and need to get a secret security clearance. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 30, 2009 - 23 answers

Introvert Filter: please help me revive a friendship! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 27, 2009 - 18 answers

How honest should my okcupid profile be? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 10, 2009 - 22 answers

RelationshipAngstFilter: Am I overreacting? More inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 17, 2009 - 62 answers

I ran across an old friend on a social networking site. Five years ago, we went on a few dates and slept together a few times. He wants to have coffee. Really, just coffee. He's in a relationship, I'm married. Is it OK to see this guy? Should I tell my husband about our past? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 13, 2008 - 44 answers

I'm really confused about how and when to bring up your level of interest in relationships. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 28, 2008 - 31 answers

How should I handle a broken window at my apartment? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 23, 2008 - 17 answers

I would like to stop faking orgasms. Help me out? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 27, 2006 - 18 answers

How much brutal honesty between friends is too much? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 25, 2006 - 32 answers

Do I have to represent myself with a flawlessly healthful past to be approved for individual (Blue Cross) health insurance? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 18, 2006 - 14 answers

I am a really terrible person. I lie to everyone I know, I cheat on people relentlessly, I drink excessively and do things to hurt just about everyone I know. I hate doing these things in retrospect but when it's happening, all I can focus on is how it's benefitting me at the moment.

How do I go from being an asshole who's only concern is his own self interests to being a regular human being who concerns himself with those around him? I'm afraid that if I don't fix this soon, I'm going to lose everyone in my life.
posted by anonymous on Jan 22, 2005 - 44 answers

If you were cheated on and broken up with, would you want to know that you were cheated on or would ignorance be bliss?
posted by anonymous on Dec 28, 2004 - 37 answers