1. I want to deck out the hotel room. We're staying at a Denver Marriott for the wedding night before flying out. I want roses, candles etc... all nice and romantic. Will the marriott put out candles, rose petals, roses and chocolate strawberries for me? I'll be coming from faraway in the mountains, so if they could do it for me that would be awesome.
2. We're doing gift exchange between eachother. Any ideas what I should get my bride?
posted by snow_mac
on Apr 17, 2013 -
24 answers
Should I invite friends to our wedding that I'm not that close to and/or haven't really stayed in touch with? Do people think of wedding invitations as obligations to give gifts? Would it be really awkward? Or am I over-thinking this and I should just invite whoever I want to invite?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 22, 2012 -
33 answers
When I asked my brother if there was something in particular he would like for his upcoming wedding, he told me not to give him anything unless it was cash. I have a few issues with this request.
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 14, 2012 -
79 answers
I would like to give a tea set for a wedding gift. I'm looking for a timeless, beautiful set of objects that will last forever and do their job well.
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posted by grrarrgh00
on Dec 15, 2011 -
13 answers
As part of a gift to the groomsmen for my upcoming wedding, I am getting each of them a book that is relevant to their lives or interests. I need some help picking out a book for two of the groomsmen, based on some specific criteria:
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posted by Falconetti
on Jul 24, 2011 -
15 answers
Despite my profile name, my wife and I recently celebrated our two year anniversary. Yay! We recently received an engagement party and wedding invitation from a couple that didn't give us a gift for our wedding. Now, we're not sure how to handle the gift situation. Do we get them a gift as we would any other wedding, do we scale down the size of the gift, or do we not give a gift at all?
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posted by love is a murderer
on Oct 19, 2010 -
65 answers
Prickly wedding etiquette question: We got married a little ways back, had a wonderful wedding, an unforgettable honeymoon, and are now back in the real world again. We're ready to sit down and write our thank-you cards, and have run into a slight... hiccup.
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posted by anonymous
on May 19, 2010 -
43 answers
Grateful for inspirational suggestions for a contribution to a "Book of Memories" for my brother's golden wedding anniversary.
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posted by aqsakal
on Oct 12, 2009 -
5 answers
My fiancee and I are getting married next year, and since money is tight, we thought it would be a good idea to get the guests to contribute to paying for our honeymoon rather than buying material things. What is the best way to set this up?
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posted by Saddo
on Sep 3, 2009 -
34 answers
According to the google, I have up to a year after someone's wedding to get them a gift. Then why did I get an email that asks about my "unaccounted for gift" and how should I respond?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 27, 2009 -
34 answers
I need ideas for modern groomsmen gifts. My groomsmen don't really smoke, drink, golf, or wear french cuffs, which eliminates 99% of the results for "groomsmen gifts" from Google.
Mainly our common interests include coffee, photography, design, and vaguely geeky 30-something interests (1980s Spielberg/Lucas movies, Tron, Atari 2600, Apple products). (We're not the kind of geeks that wear the term with some sort of goony pride, so ThinkGeek is right out. So are things like knives, flashlights, and
AirSoft toys)
Any ideas?
posted by entropicamericana
on Apr 21, 2009 -
44 answers
A friend's wedding invitation had a poem that included the line "We prefer gifts of money." Besides choking on my own rage, what do I do?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 20, 2009 -
202 answers
Emergency last-minute wedding gift etiquetteFilter! Invite sort of says don't really bring gifts, but sort of says do. What do I do?!
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posted by paultopia
on Mar 19, 2009 -
22 answers
How do I give gifts to two friends in dire financial straits, so that they won't be offended?
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posted by desjardins
on Sep 10, 2008 -
21 answers
My friend is getting married in a few months. I like to give gifts that have some thought or meaning behind them.
A long long time ago, my friend was on a few episodes of the Nickelodeon show
Kid's Court.
Need help tracking down where I could find electronic copies of this tv-show.
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posted by mincus
on Jul 14, 2008 -
3 answers
Please help me find something decent to get my sister & brother-in-law as a belated wedding gift.
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posted by tastybrains
on Jun 17, 2008 -
18 answers
Can my partner and I still make use of a gift registry even if we are not doing a traditional ceremony-then-reception type event?
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posted by sneakin
on Jul 2, 2007 -
15 answers
I'm looking for advice for what to give my (5) bridesmaids. They're smart, cool women in their thirties (and of a variety of shapes and sizes), and I'm not sure that many of the typical gifts I see on some sites (super-froofy jewelry, pastel totes, etc.) would be appropriate/appreciated.
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posted by mollymolo
on Jan 17, 2007 -
31 answers
I'm thinking about about doing a beer of the month club for my 4 groomsmen. Any suggestions as to which one?
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posted by mrhaydel
on Sep 16, 2006 -
8 answers
A number of years back I gave a pair of Swatches
like these as a wedding gift. It's hard to tell from the photo, but one watch has the hours, the other has the minutes. They belong together so much that they barely function separately. I have a bunch of wedding-related gifts to give in the near future. Can anyone recommend paired things in a similar vein?
posted by krisjohn
on Jun 19, 2006 -
8 answers
I'm getting married next Saturday. I don't know what to get the two women who are standing up with me. We are 30 something women (technically cheating for me). Both quite artsy. I can't (or don't feel competent) buying jewelry or art or books for them (though that's what they like). Any ideas?
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posted by noether
on Jun 12, 2006 -
11 answers
I've been invited to an "open house" in celebration of a wedding between two Mormons and have no idea what the etiquette is for such a function, particularly considering my past relationship (and current lack thereof) with the groom.
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posted by DyRE
on Feb 3, 2006 -
15 answers
What is the best groomsman gift you ever received or heard of?
posted by jonah
on Aug 3, 2005 -
32 answers
My best friend is having a civil marriage ceremony and then going to Paris for two weeks with her husband and family (parents, etc.) to celebrate. What is something thoughtful that I could give them for the Paris trip, preferably something they could use in Paris but that I could buy or arrange here over the phone or by email?
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posted by onlyconnect
on Jul 14, 2005 -
10 answers
My good friend is getting married this summer and her bridal shower is this weekend. I'm pretty new to this whole wedding thing. What sort of gift is appropriate? I don't want to buy anything cheesy or pornographic.
posted by amber_dale
on Apr 15, 2005 -
8 answers
Wedding etiquette question. We live in the US, but are having a ceremony in the UK. We don't want to have to haul
the booty presents back, and many UK appliances will not work in US because of the voltage. Any Mefites had experience of the correct way of asking for cold, hard cash for wedding gifts?
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posted by carter
on Jul 8, 2004 -
25 answers