My new lover is one of those lovely geeks. He’s never had a girlfriend. He has no frame of reference for the odd sexual awkwardness, the occasional times of coolness, the unapologetic want to be alone. I’ve had lovers and know this can be worked through, but he doesn’t. Do any former geeks have advice? [more inside]
posted by goofyfoot on Sep 24, 2006 - 41 answers

How can I stop acting dumb around my girlfriend? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 29, 2005 - 51 answers

So, if it's really true that Geeks and Nerds Are Worth It, where does one find them? [more inside]
posted by INTPLibrarian on Apr 29, 2005 - 64 answers

How can a geek find a date? Particularly, I am interested in finding out from geeky women the best ways for a geeky (eg sf-fan, gamer, computery) man to find women of a similar temperment, and then the best way to approach them. [more inside]
posted by jb on Nov 1, 2004 - 10 answers