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Gay bar tips?

What are some necessary tips for approaching and meeting guys in gay bars, esp. when I'm alone? [more inside]
posted by shivohum on Mar 15, 2008 - 6 answers

gay guide to NOLA

Tell me about gay bars in New Orleans. [more inside]
posted by fugitivefromchaingang on Mar 13, 2008 - 7 answers

How does a gay man go about dating women?

How does a gay man go about dating women? [more inside]
posted by pantheON on Mar 11, 2008 - 31 answers

Dating Etiquette Confusion

What is the right dating etiquette after a good first date? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Mar 5, 2008 - 18 answers

How do you take homoeroticism to the next level?

How do you turn your homoerotic relationship with your best friend into a full-fledged homosexual affair? [more inside]
posted by captain nemo the dream squire on Feb 27, 2008 - 32 answers

Cheech and Chong word?

I have a question about an Spanish-language word that may have been used in one or more episodes of Cheech and Chong. NSFW drug references/language. [more inside]
posted by mdonley on Feb 25, 2008 - 16 answers

Lesbian-friendly psychiatrist/therapist in Kentucky?

Can you recommend a good, lesbian-friendly therapist/psychologist/whatever in Kentucky? [more inside]
posted by reese on Feb 22, 2008 - 4 answers

How to deal with a messy breakup

What do I take away from a messy breakup? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Feb 18, 2008 - 9 answers

Can I change my name now, but start using it later?

Complicated name-change issues. I am changing my last name, but not due to a legal marriage. Can I get my name changed now, but start using it for everything later? [more inside]
posted by fiercecupcake on Jan 30, 2008 - 11 answers

Help me find a book about a troubled young gay man.

I'm trying to find the name of a book I read several years ago. The book told the life story of a young gay man who might have been British. Further, possibly only half-correct, details inside. [more inside]
posted by MadamM on Jan 10, 2008 - 6 answers

college+moving= ???

As a high school senior going to a Chicago-land school in fall 2008, what should I know to plan for my first apartment? [more inside]
posted by shesaysgo on Jan 6, 2008 - 11 answers

Keeping secrets is keeping me up nights.

How do you make everything good again after someone finds out you've kept a secret from them? Thing is, it's not your own secret you are keeping. [more inside]
posted by Jazz Hands on Dec 25, 2007 - 30 answers

I'm gay -- but do I only like straight guys?

I'm gay, and I'm afraid that I only like straight guys. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 8, 2007 - 24 answers

Gay Male Fiction Help

Gay Male Fiction: Please Recommend something good to read [more inside]
posted by blast on Dec 1, 2007 - 25 answers

He's gay and in denial. I'm not. What do I do?

I believe my friend is gay and in denial. I'm openly gay. How can I keep his cognitive dissonance from causing him to drop me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 6, 2007 - 42 answers

Am I a horrible gossip?

Say your friend told you a year ago he's gay. Is it ok to pass that information along to a mutual friend, a year later, with whom he has not had direct contact? No one in this equation is afraid of gaiety.
posted by M.C. Lo-Carb! on Oct 31, 2007 - 37 answers

Brideless Weddings and Other Modern Problems

GayFilter: What interesting details and rites can be changed about a gay wedding and reception to make it more distinct? [more inside]
posted by greekphilosophy on Oct 30, 2007 - 22 answers

Dress to Impress at the Clubs

Going out clubbing for the first time in years and i'm at a loss for what to wear. I'm going to be going out to the gay bars / clubs this weekend and have not been out for nearly two years so I'm a but out of touch. [more inside]
posted by kzin602 on Oct 18, 2007 - 11 answers

A sad coming-out story

I'm dealing with the fallout from coming out to my deeply religious immediate family. For years, I had prepared for their tears, their anger, their remonstrances, their appeals to the Bible, and all of those have come. What I hadn't prepared for was how disappointed I would be, and how fundamental and lonely that disappointment would be. Help? [more inside]
posted by grrarrgh00 on Oct 16, 2007 - 38 answers

Should I just crawl into bed with him?

I've lived with my best friend and another good friend for 3 years. I've known them for 7--since we were freshmen in college. I've come to the conclusion that I'm bisexual, and that I have a bit of a crush on my best friend. I'm having trouble telling him that I'm not straight. I've read everyone's advice not to tell him I'm crushing on him, because there is a good chance that would be messy. What is a good way to tell him that I'm bi though? [more inside]
posted by rocket_johnny on Oct 16, 2007 - 32 answers

Is it time to come out?

Next week apparently marks National Coming Out Week. Is now the time I've looked forward to for so long? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 7, 2007 - 36 answers

Where to attend a vogue ball in Chicago?

I was wondering if there was any place in Chicago where I could see a vogue ball? I greatly enjoyed Paris is Burning as well as the numerous videos on YouTube but I'm not sure where to look to find local events. Any suggestions?
posted by mjbraun on Oct 1, 2007 - 1 answer

Maybe I can proofread the website?

What is the best way for me - a gay man living in a country where I don't speak much of the language and where gay people are relatively repressed - to promote greater rights for gay people here? [more inside]
posted by mdonley on Sep 30, 2007 - 17 answers

How can a young gay man from New York adjust to small-town life?

How can a young gay man from New York adjust to small-town life? [more inside]
posted by fugitivefromchaingang on Sep 11, 2007 - 17 answers

Turkish men kissing?

culturally normal for turkish college-age men to kiss before bed? [more inside]
posted by kraigory on Aug 31, 2007 - 16 answers

Am I getting strung along?

Am I getting strung along or should I wait this out? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Aug 31, 2007 - 26 answers

Where does a gay Minneapolitan look for a LTR?

Advice for a gay man looking for long-term-relationship oriented prospects in the Minneapolis Metro area. [more inside]
posted by nanojath on Aug 26, 2007 - 7 answers

Will hidden fatness hurt my love life?

I'm gay, new at dating, and kind of overweight (though not morbidly so -- say ~ 20/22% body fat), though my face doesn't show it. I'm afraid dates will like me, in part based on that deceptive face, then discover my fatness during a moment of intimacy, and be repulsed. Am I being paranoid?
posted by anonymous on Aug 24, 2007 - 21 answers

It's OK to be Gay, in Video Format Please

Does anyone know of any public service announcements or other advertisements that contain a message that says it's ok to be gay? Examples of what I am talking about can be seen here and here [more inside]
posted by davidstandaford on Aug 12, 2007 - 9 answers

Help my friend unfairly accused of homophobia

Asking for a friend: how to deal with someone who deflects criticism with accusations of homophobia and social ostracism? [more inside]
posted by StrikeTheViol on Aug 9, 2007 - 18 answers

Trouble on a "First Date"

Was it a first date? Can I expect a second date? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Aug 4, 2007 - 16 answers

Who knows women like the gays??

How does your average awkward straight fellow go about finding a gay friend to help with the ladies? [more inside]
posted by BobbyDigital on Aug 2, 2007 - 84 answers

Gay BF in NYC

What's the best way to find a boyfriend (gay) / Cuddle buddy in New York?
posted by seeminglee on Jul 28, 2007 - 9 answers

Queer mexican kidnapper film?

Please help me remember the name of a 1970's Mexican film about homosexual kidnappers. [more inside]
posted by item on Jul 19, 2007 - 8 answers

Is there life after 'I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry'?

In light of the horrendously awful "I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry," are there any GOOD (i.e. both funny and non-homophobic) comedies about straight people either having to pretend they're gay or, more generally, about straight people slowly but surely letting go of their prejudices towards LGBT people? [more inside]
posted by Ash3000 on Jul 19, 2007 - 43 answers

Looking for a certain lesbian documentary.

Help me locate a VHS documentary filmed in the 90's called "Lesbian Misconceptions". It was filmed by Dinah Holtzman, and submitted to a film festival. It's possible the festival was called "Lesbian Misconceptions," not the film itself.
posted by cameradv on Jul 18, 2007 - 1 answer

What to say to son coming out?

I think my son's about to tell me he's gay. I want to say the best thing possible. What is that? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 11, 2007 - 53 answers

I don't like most young gay guys. But I AM one of them. Help!

I'm a 25 year old gay male and I'm scared to get involved with dating. Guys my age seem shallow and snarky. [more inside]
posted by oldlies on Jul 6, 2007 - 31 answers


Why are gay people so flamboyant? [more inside]
posted by Mach3avelli on Jun 25, 2007 - 97 answers

Legal requirements for an adult dating site?

I'm considering starting an adult internet dating service in the US. What legal implications do I need to consider? (Some mildly NSFW details follow). [more inside]
posted by treepour on Jun 19, 2007 - 8 answers

I want to come out as hetero at my gay workplace.

It is a good thing where I work that I identify as gay. Very good. Recently however, I have fallen (madly) for a hetero... This would be somewhat of an issue of at my gay workplace and I'd like some good ole MeFi advice (MI) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 13, 2007 - 32 answers

I'm a girl of 24 and I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years in october to be with a woman. Confused!!!

This is very complicated so get comfortable....I'm a girl of 24 and I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years in october to be with a woman. [more inside]
posted by shitontheradio on Jun 12, 2007 - 22 answers

What am I?

I am confused about my sexuality. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2007 - 25 answers

Did you ever experiment?

Is it common for men to 'experiment' as boys? [more inside]
posted by pantheON on Jun 2, 2007 - 47 answers

Legality of Gay Adoption in Washington and Other States

I am interested in laws and cases pertaining to adoption by gays, both internationally and domestically, specifically but not limited to laws in Washington state.
posted by tehgeekmeister on Jun 2, 2007 - 7 answers

How hard is it for an overweight gay gay to find someone attractive?

In the gay male community, how hard is it to date someone pretty handsome/cute (though not necessarily physically "ripped") if one is, say, 20-25 lbs overweight (so overweight, NOT "obese") and in his mid to late 20s? How far can intelligence and personality take you? Is it easier to have a relationship on these bases than a one-night stand? Are things relatively hopeless without losing weight?
posted by anonymous on May 29, 2007 - 19 answers

Gay Manchester, England nightlife recommendations?

Have you any personal recommendations for gay nightlife—particularly on a Thursday night—in Manchester, England? There are numerous clubs, pubs, and party nights abound, particularly in the gay village area, but I'm looking for particular favorites for a gay male traveler (40ish) visiting on a Thursday night who enjoys a good booty-shaking evening of dance and drink. (Favorite club nights in London, as an example, include G-A-Y at the Astoria.) What say you?
posted by bradlands on May 4, 2007 - 0 answers

How can a gay couple bear a child?

I'm a gay male. Although it's several years out still, I've been thinking a lot about parenthood. So much, much [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 25, 2007 - 11 answers

Can a single homo adopt a baby?

Can a male homo without a partner ever hope to adopt a baby in California or New York? [more inside]
posted by DarwinianDan on Apr 23, 2007 - 16 answers

That's Gay

Help me gauge current social take on the phrase "that's so gay", and possibly decide on some rules about it's use in my new closed virtual community. [more inside]
posted by Skyriss on Apr 16, 2007 - 58 answers

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