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What do black leather armbands mean?

In the gay leather subculture, what do those black leather bands around a bicep mean (if anything)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 2, 2009 - 10 answers

Notable Gay Women in the LGBT Rights Movement?

Where are the lesbians in the history of the Gay Rights Movement? [more inside]
posted by crossoverman on Feb 1, 2009 - 20 answers

Where to go for non-touristy, gay-friendly, warm-beachy spring break?

Four women want to spend the week of March 14-22nd on a warm beach. We also don't want to spend any time with thousands of drunk co-eds and frat boys. Have any advice on where to go for a non-touristy, gay friendly spring break? [more inside]
posted by binocularfight on Jan 18, 2009 - 13 answers

Help me pick a marriage equality charity for donations

I'm looking for a good charity to list as a suggestion on our wedding registry. Specifically, one that works for marriage equality for everyone. [more inside]
posted by phearlez on Jan 9, 2009 - 14 answers

How does this work?

So, I'm a junior in high school. Recently came out. Pretty much moved on from all the drama associated with that act, and now I'm looking for a relationship. Problem is: I can't for the life of me figure out how to meet and get to know my fellow homos. [more inside]
posted by Gotham on Dec 22, 2008 - 29 answers

Excuse me, you've just bigoted on my shoes.

What is the proper way of dealing with people who habitually use homophobic language (i.e. "that's so gay/queer," "Romo the homo," "faggoty") etc. but aren't really bigots? [more inside]
posted by AlbatrossJones on Dec 22, 2008 - 45 answers

Gay Writing

Can anyone recommend good novels about gay people? Not just genre fiction but actually literature? It seems to me there must be, but I've never been able to find any.
posted by blue shadows on Dec 14, 2008 - 57 answers

Tell my friend where to make friends in Ft. Myers

Where do gay men and people who love them hang out in Fort Myers, Florida? [more inside]
posted by millipede on Dec 10, 2008 - 4 answers

The Next Step After Encountering Ambiguity

What is the next step? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Dec 2, 2008 - 16 answers

In a relationship, need friends.

I'm in a long-term relationship and I hardly have any friends. How do I get some? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 20, 2008 - 15 answers

How do married same-sex couples hold title?

How do married same-sex couples hold title? Any recommendations or resources for California same-sex unions wanting to change title to their property? [more inside]
posted by Graygorey on Nov 13, 2008 - 4 answers

Protest Runway (sorry, bad pun)

[GayDC_Filter] Should I go to the protests this Saturday? (See explanation) [more inside]
posted by Franklin76 on Nov 13, 2008 - 31 answers

Ethics and Ethnicity

How to practice ethics and negotiate ethnicity as a gay man? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Oct 27, 2008 - 12 answers

teaching tolerance to a troubled teen!

How can someone help a teenage boy who has been showing some hateful, homophobic behavior recently? [more inside]
posted by logic vs love on Oct 23, 2008 - 30 answers

Must my child be a bastard?!

My girlfriend and I live in a state where gay marriage is not legal. We'd get married if we could. What would be the implications for us (and potentially a future child) if we got an out-of-state gay marriage? [more inside]
posted by palegirl on Oct 14, 2008 - 10 answers

Ideal Night in the Castro

Looking for an ideal night in the Castro for some gay friends visiting out of town. [more inside]
posted by mto on Oct 11, 2008 - 7 answers

Like Chuck E. Cheese for twentysomethings.

Where can I throw a pizza dance party in NYC? [more inside]
posted by Help, I can't stop talking! on Oct 8, 2008 - 11 answers

Why do straights use the word "partner"?

I want to know more about the use of the word "partner," especially for straight couples... [more inside]
posted by iliketolaughalot on Sep 22, 2008 - 68 answers

How can I make them see?

I'm die-hard military, but I'm also die-hard gay. With the election coming up, how do I show my military friends what this election means to me as a gay man? [more inside]
posted by matty on Sep 4, 2008 - 28 answers

Vaseline + buttsex = ?

Is vaseline okay for gay sex? (NSFW and probably gross for most people) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 5, 2008 - 15 answers

Do I intervene with the bullies?

My son may be gay. I don't think he even knows yet. He is 15 this month-entering high school. He is ADHD, funny, cute, great with kids, thoughtful, and very loud and effeminate. He's jumped into the theater/choir crowd at school (Big group- I LOVE these kids and their families!). My question is- Can or should a mom get involved with the bullying that goes on? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 3, 2008 - 41 answers

Come out already, damn..

How do I help my obviously gay, claiming to be straight roommate come out of the closet? [more inside]
posted by ad4pt on Aug 1, 2008 - 53 answers

Moving to Seattle; landing safely.

At some point within the next year I will have the opportunity to move to Seattle, Washington in order to be with the man I love. He will be relocating there in order to pursue his career. However I have some cold feet… [more inside]
posted by kzin602 on Jul 30, 2008 - 11 answers

Where do you find good masculine clothing--for women?

What does the "futch" woman wear to Vegas? And where does she find her clothing? If I'm not feeling the nine-inch heels, where can I find the clothing that will be appropriate for a night on the town and fit butch-leaning tastes? [more inside]
posted by schroedinger on Jul 15, 2008 - 14 answers

How can I fulfill my fantasy?

I'm a female with this recurring fantasy about two men (my biggest fantasy since I was 15). How do I go about fulfilling it? Wait, there's a catch or two. [NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 8, 2008 - 13 answers

You're so gay, and you don't even like boys... ???

I fell in love with my best friend, who is a guy. I’m a young bisexual guy. Apparently, he is not. Did the “wrong thing” and told him about how I felt, and was rejected, but things seemed okay afterward. However, I’m still hurting, I’m feeling delusional about it, and sometimes I think that he inadvertently isn’t helping… how do I live with my best friend now? Help me, Metafilter! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2008 - 25 answers

Is A Health Care Power of Attorney Valid In Another State?

I'm curious about what is the validity of my partner's Health Care Power of Attorney when he travels out of state. I can't seem to find much authoritative information when I google this. Can anyone clarify? [more inside]
posted by Robert Angelo on Jun 27, 2008 - 4 answers

What ever happened to...?

What ever happened to the lethimstay.com family? [more inside]
posted by pointystick on Jun 25, 2008 - 2 answers

How do you act in a gay bar?

Just out of the closet. Little bit socially clueless. Teach me how to behave at a gay bar. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 22, 2008 - 9 answers

Girls don't want to have fun?

Why are there so few lesbian bars in the NYC/Brooklyn area when compared to the high number of gay bars? [more inside]
posted by Viola on Jun 19, 2008 - 31 answers

It's for research, really!

Scholarly journal article on gay bathhouses - can't find an article I read a few years back. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 11, 2008 - 12 answers

gay, online, dating, quandry

I live on an island and it's hard to date. And I'm queer...and 50...a bad combo. Is all hope lost? [more inside]
posted by zenpop on Jun 9, 2008 - 13 answers

He's Not My Brother, Dammit.

How to tactfully respond when people comment that my partner and I look like "brothers"? [more inside]
posted by [NOT HERMITOSIS-IST] on Jun 4, 2008 - 68 answers

Friend was fired today for being homosexual. State of Iowa.

Friend was fired today for being homosexual. State of Iowa. I know she has the opportunity to file for unemployment but does she have any recourse for lawsuit for unlawful termination [more inside]
posted by lutzla23 on May 28, 2008 - 33 answers

Yar! Bare yer booty, wench!

Sexyfilter: Lesbian role-play ideas, bonus points for kinky. Yes, really. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2008 - 12 answers

How can I find a gay-friendly doctor?

How can I find a gay-friendly doctor in my area?
posted by tumbleweedjack on May 25, 2008 - 7 answers

How do find the therapist needle in the haystack?

How do I even start to locate the therapist that I think would be right for me among so many options? The details are inside. [more inside]
posted by logovisual on May 22, 2008 - 7 answers

How will the recent California Supreme Court ruling affect my resident status?

How will the recent California Supreme Court ruling affect my resident status? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 18, 2008 - 14 answers

Where should I look for a boyfriend.

I've recently come out of denial/uncertainty and realize I'm gay, I live in Adelaide, I don't really dig the club scene that much, but I want to meet other gay men. How do I find them? [more inside]
posted by Basalisk on May 15, 2008 - 11 answers

Council for soldiers?

This is a 3rd party question and as such I am looking more for general information than specific help. It has to do with the military's policy on being gay while serving. [more inside]
posted by edgeways on Apr 26, 2008 - 13 answers

I think I'm straight. Now what?

After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 21, 2008 - 23 answers

Am I having orgasms?

Very personal sex/anatomy question ahoy. [more inside]
posted by zeusianfog on Apr 4, 2008 - 18 answers

Gay geeks... Are they more than one in a million?

Kinda like the anonymous question a little bit ago, but looking for the geeky gay guys in Phoenix. [more inside]
posted by kzin602 on Mar 30, 2008 - 9 answers

Age is just a fabulous number

What can I expect in a Younger/Older relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 25, 2008 - 13 answers

GayDramaFilter. How can I make sure that people don't confuse my basic interest in them with flirting?

GayDramaFilter. How can I make sure that people don't confuse my basic interest in them with flirting? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 18, 2008 - 19 answers

Gay bar tips?

What are some necessary tips for approaching and meeting guys in gay bars, esp. when I'm alone? [more inside]
posted by shivohum on Mar 15, 2008 - 6 answers

gay guide to NOLA

Tell me about gay bars in New Orleans. [more inside]
posted by fugitivefromchaingang on Mar 13, 2008 - 7 answers

How does a gay man go about dating women?

How does a gay man go about dating women? [more inside]
posted by pantheON on Mar 11, 2008 - 31 answers

Dating Etiquette Confusion

What is the right dating etiquette after a good first date? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Mar 5, 2008 - 18 answers

How do you take homoeroticism to the next level?

How do you turn your homoerotic relationship with your best friend into a full-fledged homosexual affair? [more inside]
posted by captain nemo the dream squire on Feb 27, 2008 - 32 answers

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