How do married same-sex couples hold title? Any recommendations or resources for California same-sex unions wanting to change title to their property?
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posted by Graygorey
on Nov 13, 2008 -
4 answers
My girlfriend and I live in a state where gay marriage is not legal. We'd get married if we could. What would be the implications for us (and potentially a future child) if we got an out-of-state gay marriage?
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posted by palegirl
on Oct 14, 2008 -
10 answers
Looking for an ideal night in the Castro for some gay friends visiting out of town.
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posted by mto
on Oct 11, 2008 -
7 answers
I'm die-hard military, but I'm also die-hard gay. With the election coming up, how do I show my military friends what this election means to me as a gay man?
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posted by matty
on Sep 4, 2008 -
28 answers
My son may be gay. I don't think he even knows yet. He is 15 this month-entering high school. He is ADHD, funny, cute, great with kids, thoughtful, and very loud and effeminate. He's jumped into the theater/choir crowd at school (Big group- I LOVE these kids and their families!). My question is- Can or should a mom get involved with the bullying that goes on?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 3, 2008 -
41 answers
How do I help my obviously gay, claiming to be straight roommate come out of the closet?
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posted by ad4pt
on Aug 1, 2008 -
53 answers
At some point within the next year I will have the opportunity to move to Seattle, Washington in order to be with the man I love. He will be relocating there in order to pursue his career. However I have some cold feet…
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posted by kzin602
on Jul 30, 2008 -
11 answers
What does the "futch" woman wear to Vegas? And where does she find her clothing? If I'm not feeling the nine-inch heels, where can I find the clothing that will be appropriate for a night on the town
and fit butch-leaning tastes?
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posted by schroedinger
on Jul 15, 2008 -
14 answers
I'm a female with this recurring fantasy about two men (my biggest fantasy since I was 15). How do I go about fulfilling it? Wait, there's a catch or two. [NSFW]
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 8, 2008 -
13 answers
I fell in love with my best friend, who is a guy. I’m a young bisexual guy. Apparently, he is not. Did the “wrong thing” and told him about how I felt, and was rejected, but things seemed okay afterward. However, I’m still hurting, I’m feeling delusional about it, and sometimes I think that he inadvertently isn’t helping… how do I live with my best friend now? Help me, Metafilter!
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 7, 2008 -
25 answers
I'm curious about what is the validity of my partner's Health Care Power of Attorney when he travels out of state. I can't seem to find much authoritative information when I google this. Can anyone clarify?
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posted by Robert Angelo
on Jun 27, 2008 -
4 answers
Just out of the closet. Little bit socially clueless. Teach me how to behave at a gay bar.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 22, 2008 -
9 answers
Why are there so few lesbian bars in the NYC/Brooklyn area when compared to the high number of gay bars?
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posted by Viola
on Jun 19, 2008 -
31 answers
Scholarly journal article on gay bathhouses - can't find an article I read a few years back.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 11, 2008 -
12 answers
I live on an island and it's hard to date. And I'm queer...and 50...a bad combo. Is all hope lost?
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posted by zenpop
on Jun 9, 2008 -
13 answers
Friend was fired today for being homosexual. State of Iowa.
I know she has the opportunity to file for unemployment but does she have any recourse for lawsuit for unlawful termination
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posted by lutzla23
on May 28, 2008 -
33 answers
How do I even start to locate the therapist that I think would be right for me among so many options? The details are inside.
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posted by logovisual
on May 22, 2008 -
7 answers
I've recently come out of denial/uncertainty and realize I'm gay, I live in Adelaide, I don't really dig the club scene that much, but I want to meet other gay men. How do I find them?
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posted by Basalisk
on May 15, 2008 -
11 answers
This is a 3rd party question and as such I am looking more for general information than specific help. It has to do with the military's policy on being gay while serving.
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posted by edgeways
on Apr 26, 2008 -
13 answers
After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 21, 2008 -
23 answers
Kinda like the anonymous question a little bit ago, but looking for the geeky gay guys in Phoenix.
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posted by kzin602
on Mar 30, 2008 -
9 answers
GayDramaFilter. How can I make sure that people don't confuse my basic interest in them with flirting?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 18, 2008 -
19 answers
What are some necessary tips for approaching and meeting guys in gay bars, esp. when I'm alone?
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posted by shivohum
on Mar 15, 2008 -
6 answers
I have a question about an Spanish-language word that may have been used in one or more episodes of
Cheech and Chong. NSFW drug references/language.
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posted by mdonley
on Feb 25, 2008 -
16 answers
Can you recommend a good, lesbian-friendly therapist/psychologist/whatever in Kentucky?
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posted by reese
on Feb 22, 2008 -
4 answers
Complicated name-change issues. I am changing my last name, but not due to a legal marriage. Can I get my name changed now, but start using it for everything later?
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posted by fiercecupcake
on Jan 30, 2008 -
11 answers
I'm trying to find the name of a book I read several years ago. The book told the life story of a young gay man who might have been British. Further, possibly only half-correct, details inside.
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posted by MadamM
on Jan 10, 2008 -
6 answers
As a high school senior going to a Chicago-land school in fall 2008, what should I know to plan for my first apartment?
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posted by shesaysgo
on Jan 6, 2008 -
11 answers
How do you make everything good again after someone finds out you've kept a secret from them? Thing is, it's not your own secret you are keeping.
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posted by Jazz Hands
on Dec 25, 2007 -
30 answers