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Escape from the rustbelt.

Finishing up my degree and looking for a gay-friendly, outdoorsy city with good tech employment prospects. [more inside]
posted by ayerarcturus on Apr 30, 2010 - 34 answers

High-end gay-friendly day spa in San Francisco?

I want to buy a gift certificate to a day spa for a twenty-something gay man with upscale conservative taste. I'm looking for a place that's sleek, sophisticated and oriented towards men, with good massage and other services, high standards for service and cleanliness, and ideally also offering lunch and cocktails. The kind of place where someone could lounge around all day drinking a mimosa and reading the paper, wearing slippers and a robe. It needs to be in San Francisco proper, not elsewhere in the Bay Area. [more inside]
posted by Susan PG on Apr 25, 2010 - 2 answers

Gender-bending Song Covers

I need examples of gender-specific songs covered by singers of the opposite gender. For instance, Jack White's cover of Dolly Parton's "Jolene". [more inside]
posted by domo on Apr 19, 2010 - 114 answers

How to deal with her feelings for me?

My best friend has expressed sexual feelings for me in a disrespectful way. I'm uncomfortable. How do I deal with this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 11, 2010 - 23 answers

Transgendered, Transexual, Bigendered, Bi....sexual?

Is there such a thing as being bi-sexual or a-sexual? (Not in the way that you think.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 2, 2010 - 22 answers

We had the party, do we want to sign the papers?

How do we figure out the pros/cons of entering a same-sex marriage in various jurisdictions? Do we want to talk with a lawyer? [more inside]
posted by PMdixon on Mar 19, 2010 - 13 answers

I need blunt, direct advice about a recent crush.

I need blunt, direct advice about a recent brief crush. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 19, 2010 - 34 answers

“That’s so gay”: How do you ask/remind people to be a little bit more sensitive without being a buzzkill in social situations?

“That’s so gay”: How do you ask/remind people to be a little bit more sensitive without being a buzzkill in social situations? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 17, 2010 - 101 answers

Entering the gay dating scene late

I'm a gay man in my late 20s who has never gone on a date before. Where do I start? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 14, 2010 - 12 answers

creative + sexy + fun name +... HIV Prevention?

Please (re?)name my texting/facebook/email-based, safer sex outreach program aimed at men who love men! [more inside]
posted by potatopeople on Mar 9, 2010 - 8 answers

Does He Even Want to Meet for a Date?

Does He Even Want to Meet for a Date? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Feb 15, 2010 - 13 answers

What to get my boyfriend for V-Day?

What to get my boyfriend for V-Day? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 10, 2010 - 17 answers

Reggae for this bhatti boy, please.

Suggestions for reggae artists from the Caribbean, but NOT from Jamaica. [more inside]
posted by Craig on Jan 29, 2010 - 8 answers

Doing good things and also... being able to buy food in DC?

Is there any hope of a non-technical internship in DC which pays well enough to live in DC? Asking for a girl interested in nonprofits, womens issues, rights, and has tons of writing skills, people skills, and work ethic. [more inside]
posted by tmcw on Jan 28, 2010 - 18 answers

I want to dance all night in Los Angeles.

What gay bar/club should I go to in Los Angeles? [more inside]
posted by hazyspring on Jan 18, 2010 - 3 answers

How is a bi high school guy supposed to meet like-minded individuals outside of school?

I am a bisexual guy at a religious high school in Atlanta, GA and, while there isn't much homo-hostility, the majority of my classmates are uncomfortable with homosexuality. (And that's including the gay ones.) I'd like to meet interesting people outside of my school, but I haven't the first clue how to start. How is a bi high school guy supposed to meet like-minded individuals outside of school?
posted by iktomi on Jan 12, 2010 - 11 answers

Gay Sex: Help a Bottom Learn to Top

Help this bottom become a top? [NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 11, 2010 - 11 answers

An American Idiot In Paris.

American Male In Paris For The First TIme: I've read the previous questions but looking for some exact things. I'll be staying in Monmartre' for a few weeks and looking for things that are uniquely Parisian, laid back gay spots, and clothing that'll make me look halfway human. Details below. [more inside]
posted by The Whelk on Dec 31, 2009 - 9 answers

What are the origins of "the straight woman with a gay best friend" cliché?

What are the origins of "the straight woman with a gay best friend" cliché? [more inside]
posted by Joe Beese on Dec 29, 2009 - 16 answers

Do you know of somewhere funky to have a civil partnership in South Wales (Cardiff)?

Does anyone know of any cool places to have a civil partnership in or around Cardiff, UK (or South Wales in general) as my current option may not be a possibility? [more inside]
posted by Nufkin on Dec 23, 2009 - 6 answers

The job offer, the boyfriend, and the dilemma

I'm considering a great job offer in another state, and what it might mean for my two-year relationship. Help me develop a framework for making some decisions about all this. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 19, 2009 - 15 answers

Research supporting that homosexuals are born homosexuals

What exact research has been done to support the notion that homosexuals are born gay? [more inside]
posted by Prunedish on Dec 16, 2009 - 40 answers

I actually WANT you to be my lawyer!

Mr. Matty and I are looking to get 'everything but married'... but how? And by who? [more inside]
posted by matty on Dec 9, 2009 - 16 answers

Engaging young gay adults in the criminal justice system.

How do I more effectively encourage gay young adults in the criminal justice system to engage with the larger gay community? (long question) [more inside]
posted by The Straightener on Dec 8, 2009 - 39 answers

Help me find a comedy bit about gay marriage?

Help me find a comedy bit about gay marriage? [more inside]
posted by macfly on Dec 2, 2009 - 3 answers

Should a parent mention their bisexual past to their gay teen?

My 14-yo son has recently come out to me as gay. Should I share anything about the "experimental" phase of my youth? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 7, 2009 - 74 answers

How can I help make same-sex marriage legal?

The legalization of same-sex marriage is very important to me. What can I do to help? [more inside]
posted by Mrs. Pterodactyl on Nov 6, 2009 - 19 answers

How do I find a boyfriend?

I'm a young, "straight-acting", alternative guy who is tired of being single. Help me find a boyfriend! [more inside]
posted by mosherdan on Nov 5, 2009 - 23 answers

Help me find a wooden engagement ring in the UK

Recommend me a preferably UK-based wooden engagement ring seller. [more inside]
posted by Nufkin on Nov 2, 2009 - 8 answers

How do I fix me?

I feel like my life is over and I'm only 35. I feel completely stagnant and stuck, relationshipwise and jobwise. Do I need to change things or do I need to learn how to deal? Help me figure out how to be a happier person. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 28, 2009 - 34 answers

crazy little thing called the love that dare not speak its name

I need some academically credible synonyms for same-sex erotic activity that are less ambiguous than "gay sex" and less clinical-sounding than "homosexual contact." [more inside]
posted by Jon_Evil on Oct 26, 2009 - 16 answers

Body and beats, for whom does he stain his sheets?

Celebrity Sexual Preference-filter: Does Gordon Gano, singer of the Violent Femmes, like boys, girls, or both?
posted by Jon_Evil on Oct 17, 2009 - 9 answers

Another 'Moving to Seattle' AskMe!

Twenty-Something Gay couple making the leap to a new city with no connections and potentially limited job opportunities, in a down economy too! The man I'm in love with has fallen in love with Seattle, and after visiting and experiencing the mild climate, nice people, great public transit and relaxed attitude, I've grown partial to the city also. [more inside]
posted by kzin602 on Sep 27, 2009 - 17 answers

So I Guess He Wasn't Into Me?

Is He Just Not That Into Me: Part Deux [more inside]
posted by cscott on Sep 23, 2009 - 31 answers

Is He Just Not That Into Me?

Is he just not that into me or what? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Sep 16, 2009 - 13 answers

Who are our Pansexual Icons?

There are gay icons and lesbian icons - are there people who are bisexual/pansexual icons? [more inside]
posted by divabat on Sep 15, 2009 - 47 answers

Can I complain about a doctor online?

I had an absolutely terrible incident with a homophobic doctor. I have taken all the steps to report him to the local College of Physicians and Surgeons, and I hope he gets disciplined, but that doesn't address the systemic problem of homophobia in family physicians in my area (and it doesn't help me find a less homophobic doctor to switch to). I would like to blog about the incident, contact gay and lesbian associations, etc, but I am worried about being sued for libel/slander/I don't know. Will I get in trouble if I write publicly about this incident? Can I use the Dr's name? I'm in Alberta, Canada.
posted by arcticwoman on Sep 11, 2009 - 25 answers

One's company, two's a crowd, and three's a party?

How do threesomes stay balanced? [more inside]
posted by HotPatatta on Sep 5, 2009 - 21 answers

$48 for marriage license; how much for gay couples to get similar protections?

We are a gay couple living in St. Louis, Missouri, USA. We would like to get as much protection as we can to make decisions for each other and visit each other in hospitals. I have been calling around to gay and lesbian lawyers in the area, and no one will give me a 'straight' answer about cost. How much is it going to cost us to get a health care directive, durable power of attorney, and medical power of attorney for each of us?
posted by hworth on Aug 26, 2009 - 11 answers

How do I proceed without alienating him?

Should I be content with just being friends, or should I push more? [more inside]
posted by animerion on Aug 8, 2009 - 16 answers

Can you find lifelong love at 35?

LoveFilter: Interested in your stories of finding lifelong love at age 35 or older, gay or straight. I'm a 35-year-old gay man and want to know what my chances are. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 30, 2009 - 35 answers

How do I become more manly?

How do I become more manly? Even though I think masculinity is bulls$#!%! [more inside]
posted by beingresourceful on Jul 29, 2009 - 56 answers

Boston or Chicago for the gay guy on the go?

Boston or Chicago -- which is the better city for the gay traveler? [more inside]
posted by sevenyearlurk on Jul 28, 2009 - 18 answers

Good gay podcasts

Many of the gay podcasts out there seem to just be two guys chatting. Does anyone know of a podcast that gives an overview or a history of the gay rights movement, or even is just gay and entertaining generally? Also auditory stuff that isn't a podcast but is iPoddable would also be fine (i.e. a good audiobook).
posted by edbles on Jul 3, 2009 - 4 answers

Online Gayting in the District

I'm gay. I'm in DC. I just don't have what it takes to go out and "meet" guys at bars. It's time to hit up the online dating scene, but there are soooo many different services and options, it's hard to know where to start. Who should I create a profile/start a subscription with? [more inside]
posted by Franklin76 on Jun 22, 2009 - 6 answers

Not gay, or at least, probably not.

I'm straight, but I've been seeing this girl. She's beautiful and a socialite and I've been feeling conflicted about being seen in public together. More inside... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 13, 2009 - 32 answers

Why should the church support gay marriage?

If you were writing a letter to the editor with the title, "Christian Church Mustn't Oppose Same-Sex Marriage," what facts and arguments would you include? [more inside]
posted by fogster on May 9, 2009 - 46 answers

No rest for the weary

How serious an offense is it when your employer refuses to give you a meal break? [more inside]
posted by levijk on May 7, 2009 - 8 answers

Eastern Shore destinations?

Can you recommend a nice/interesting place for a weekend away on Maryland's Eastern Shore or thereabouts? [more inside]
posted by Morrigan on May 1, 2009 - 7 answers

yeah i'm a "faget", what's it to you?

Oh boy. Anti-gay vandalism outside my apartment. What do I do about it? [more inside]
posted by yellowbinder on Apr 19, 2009 - 36 answers

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