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How to stop blushing when coworkers talk about sex

Help me stop blushing when people at work talk about sex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 13, 2011 - 20 answers

Relationship ripped apart by Facebook messages

I just read messages between my boyfriend and a former(?) flame, after we started dating.. emotional messages about sex, and meeting up. I am devastated. Help... [more inside]
posted by ninefour on Dec 10, 2011 - 31 answers

My fear of AIDS is destroying my life

I'm a 28 year old gay male. My fear of AIDS is destroying my life. It's so bad that I don't really want to be gay anymore. [more inside]
posted by Tyrant King Porn Dragon on Dec 1, 2011 - 45 answers

As a gay woman, when is it okay to pursue a straight woman?

I am a gay female in my late 20s who has understood my own sexuality for as long as I can remember and has been out to all of my friends for many years. My orientation is certainly not anything I would consider a defining characteristic about myself. The kind of profession I am in, the kind of experiences I have had and my life goals have greatly shaped who I am as a person, and have absolutely nothing to do with who I am attracted to. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 20, 2011 - 42 answers

I want to accept my sex drive.

Help me accept my sex drive and become okay with fulfilling my sexual needs outside my sexless (and open) relationship. [more inside]
posted by chameleon on Nov 16, 2011 - 16 answers

Flexible, customizable, free, gay-friendly, Windows-compatible genealogy software?

Flexible, customizable, free, gay-friendly, Windows-compatible genealogy software? [more inside]
posted by pracowity on Nov 3, 2011 - 5 answers

Tab A goes in which slot again?

Where can I read some good gay erotica? [more inside]
posted by jacquilynne on Oct 29, 2011 - 14 answers

LGBT-related volunteering in NYC?

What are some volunteer opportunities in NYC that involve working with the LGBT community? [more inside]
posted by Tin Man on Oct 25, 2011 - 12 answers

Gay Girl in Amsterdam for 2 Days: Where to stay and what to do???

Where should I stay in Amsterdam and what should I check out? I'm going to Amsterdam for two days and two nights the first week of January. I am a 26 year old single lesbian who is very interested in checking out the local hotspots for gay women and also visiting some art galleries. I would like to see some unusual art installations and/or performance art while I am there. Thank you! : ) [more inside]
posted by thatgirl1985 on Oct 24, 2011 - 6 answers

What DVD is this clip from, and where do I buy it?

How do I find out what DVD this clip is from, and where to buy it? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 14, 2011 - 4 answers

What are some cool queer events in Paris?

What are some lesbian/queer events, gallery exhibitions, movies, bars, etc. to see in Paris? [more inside]
posted by msk1985 on Oct 7, 2011 - 2 answers

help me stack the odds in my favor

Checklist for increasing the odds of finding a significant other [more inside]
posted by GraceCathedral on Oct 2, 2011 - 48 answers

Media that explores lines between male friendship and homosexuality?

Can you recommend books, short stories, academic pieces, movies, tv shows, and other media that explore the boundaries (and their blurring) between male bonding, friendship, camaraderie, hero worship and more "platonic" relations and homoeroticism/homosexuality? That delve into the lines between liking, love, lust, admiration, and feelings of belonging?
posted by Malad on Oct 2, 2011 - 24 answers

'Reverse' Bicurious, am I kidding myself?

I am a 25 year-old gay(-ish?) male living in New York City. Perhaps uncharacteristically, I have a really strong drive to have kids (of my own) and really want to do so in the next five or ten years. I'm torn about how to get there though, given relationship difficulties that hinge largely on unresolved issues relating to my sexuality. Warning: TL;DR potential, but significant context is necessary. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 25, 2011 - 21 answers

Equality of bad taste?

Cheesy honeymoon-type motels / hotels / resorts in New York State for same-sex couple? [more inside]
posted by Morrigan on Sep 9, 2011 - 9 answers

Does this gay thriller novel sound familiar to you?

Does this gay thriller novel sound familiar to you? [more inside]
posted by missed on Sep 7, 2011 - 1 answer

Staying friends with an ex who may be in denial about his sexuality?

A guy I was seeing abruptly decided he was not gay and cut off contact with me. How can I help him through what he's going through and preserve our friendship, or at least make sense of this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 6, 2011 - 20 answers

Divorcing a person with BPD

I need to end my marriage, but don't know how to tell my husband I want out, since I fear for my property and personal safety. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 1, 2011 - 41 answers

Soldier who commited suicide because of DADT?

Looking for the name of a soldier that commited suicide because of homophobia. [more inside]
posted by alona on Sep 1, 2011 - 2 answers

Looking for race/sex statistics for reality TV shows.

Looking for race/sex statistics for reality TV shows. [more inside]
posted by Meatbomb on Aug 31, 2011 - 12 answers

He moving back, but as a roommate.

SO moved out over a year ago and we made attempts to resolve issues needs and wants during that time. Admittedly, I could've put forth more effort in being a better partner. Now he is moving back in, although I'm glad about that, he's coming back as a "roommate". Oh, and I work for him. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 30, 2011 - 29 answers

And guest?

How do I RSVP to this wedding shower? [more inside]
posted by roomthreeseventeen on Aug 26, 2011 - 10 answers

Straight girl, but scared of boys

I'm a straight female, I think, but I'm terrified of dicks. And for the past few months, I've been wondering if I'm gay, but the thought scares me. (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 25, 2011 - 43 answers

How do I plan & embark on a RTW trip as an HIV+ gay man?

How do I plan & embark on a RTW trip as an HIV+ man? I'm about to turn 25 and thanks to healthcare legislation I've been given a small window of time to travel unencumbered by the fear of loosing health insurance. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 24, 2011 - 6 answers

Oh no, I see a darkness. Oh no, I see a darkness. Oh no, I see a darkness.

The parents kicked me out for being gay. What can I do now to make sure I stay emotionally healthy, and how do I deal with my complicated feelings surrounding this? Has anyone else been through this? [more inside]
posted by Autumn on Aug 24, 2011 - 69 answers

I love you, you're perfect, now change.

How do I deal with my partner drastically changing his appearance in response to his baldness, and the way it affects my attraction to him? [more inside]
posted by Vinegaroon on Aug 19, 2011 - 18 answers

Good LGBT blogs and websites?

I'm looking for some good blogs and sites related to LGBT issues [more inside]
posted by nickhb on Aug 10, 2011 - 11 answers

Might he be interested in me?

This is silly, but might this guy be interested in me? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Jul 29, 2011 - 25 answers

Does The Uk Recognize US state-level Same Sex Marriages

I'm a dude going to marry a dude in New York State. Said dude I am going to marry is a resident alien from the UK. Will the UK recognize the marriage? Does he become an American Citizen by marrying him? Does that counteract his UK citizenship? What are my rights, here?
posted by The Whelk on Jul 20, 2011 - 27 answers

Old timey alternatives to "that's gay"?

What are some old timey words I can give my students as an alternative to "that's gay"? [more inside]
posted by mdaugherty82 on Jul 19, 2011 - 96 answers

Confirmed bachelors with more female friends than male?

What fictional male characters are confirmed bachelors with many female friends and few male friends? I'm especially interested in stories set before 1950. [more inside]
posted by Sticherbeast on Jul 18, 2011 - 6 answers

Los Angeles sex therapy

Recommendations for a gay male sex therapist in the west side of Los Angeles to deal with problems of sexual inadequacy and (in particular) psychologically-based erectile dysfunction in a 24-year-old male. Sliding fee scale a major plus.
posted by anonymous on Jul 14, 2011 - 2 answers

Sexually to Men, Emotionally to women.

Sexually attracted to men, emotionally attracted to women. My sexual orientation? I don't know. Lots of detail. I need support. Help me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2011 - 27 answers

I'm here. I'm queer. Where do I go?

I'll be late to the NYC pride parade. Where should I go to catch as much of it as possible? [more inside]
posted by cheerwine on Jun 26, 2011 - 2 answers

When did DeDe go to the city?

I'm trying to figure out the original SF Chronicle publication date for a specific chapter from Armistead Maupin's More Tales of the City. A major spoiler inside. [more inside]
posted by roger ackroyd on Jun 22, 2011 - 5 answers

Should I cut off contact with him?

Should I cut off contact with him? [more inside]
posted by cscott on May 20, 2011 - 72 answers

I have no gay friends! help me get some!

I've never really had many gay friends, or any that I wasn't actively dating actually. Being socially awkward and naive I don't actually know where to go to meet (non-sexytime) friends, who are also gay. [more inside]
posted by selenized on May 19, 2011 - 10 answers

Will we get heckled if we kiss at the Ara Pacis?

How gay-friendly are Rome, Naples, and Capua? [more inside]
posted by yomimono on May 10, 2011 - 2 answers

Brooklyn 1-bedroom at $1650 max?

Is there a decent Brooklyn neighborhood where I could find a 1-bedroom apartment for no more than $1650? [more inside]
posted by chameleon on May 7, 2011 - 13 answers

Same-sex Split

My same-sex partner and I have separated (to my shock and opposition) after a few years of hard financial times. While I am holding out hope that she will come to her senses, I need help deciding on what to do (especially regarding our house) in case we can't resolve our issues. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 28, 2011 - 9 answers

Have you ever successfully fought for a relationship that you knew was worth saving? How did it work out?

Have you ever successfully fought for a relationship that you knew was worth saving? How did it work out? [more inside]
posted by newlyminted on Apr 28, 2011 - 24 answers

How do I break up with him?

How do I break up with him? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Apr 22, 2011 - 30 answers

Exotic => Erotic

Soc-Psych-filter! Do people become gay or lesbian because they grow up feeling that stereotypically straight-acting kids are "exotic" -- as per the "Exotic Becomes Erotic" theory? [more inside]
posted by dontjumplarry on Apr 21, 2011 - 27 answers

Abandon ship, once and for all, or fight for what I have?

Seven months ago I cheated on my partner. Six months ago I came clean to him. Three months ago we broke up. This past week we have begun to spend some time together, and I feel like we both reached a breakthrough last night. Am I crazy to have this renewed faith in/willingness to work for our love? Do I need to finally let it go? Much more inside. [more inside]
posted by fignewton on Apr 21, 2011 - 23 answers

What songs deal with unrequited loved between a gay man and a straight man?

What are some songs that lyrically deal with unrequited love between a gay male and a (questionably) straight male? [more inside]
posted by donquixote on Apr 12, 2011 - 31 answers

Finocchios

What's the Italian gay scene like? [more inside]
posted by dontjumplarry on Apr 8, 2011 - 1 answer

What is the name of this Romance language polymory film?

Foreign Movie Filter: I need help remembering the name of a movie I saw at the Verzaubert festival in Berlin in November 2006. I know that it involved a wedding where the Bride did not show up and it ended with 5 people living in a polymorous relationship. Massive details below the fold. [more inside]
posted by Nackt on Mar 19, 2011 - 5 answers

How am I going to pay for my credential program?

How do I claim myself as an independent on the FAFSA when I am completely independent, going for a teaching credential, 22 years old, or how else can I fund my schooling? [more inside]
posted by Peregrin5 on Mar 19, 2011 - 15 answers

Sex Ed Resources for Lesbians

My little sister is a lesbian, and seems misinformed about some basic sexual concepts (eg: safe sex for lesbians) .... [more inside]
posted by starfyr on Mar 14, 2011 - 46 answers

Looking for books re: Fear of Intimacy

I think I have a really bad fear of intimacy. Been working on it but could do with more books or guidance. [more inside]
posted by Kamen Rider: Sock Puppet on Mar 13, 2011 - 9 answers

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