I'm a straight female, I think, but I'm terrified of dicks. And for the past few months, I've been wondering if I'm gay, but the thought scares me. (NSFW)
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 25, 2011 -
43 answers
How do I plan & embark on a RTW trip as an HIV+ man?
I'm about to turn 25 and thanks to healthcare legislation I've been given a small window of time to travel unencumbered by the fear of loosing health insurance.
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 24, 2011 -
6 answers
The parents kicked me out for being gay. What can I do now to make sure I stay emotionally healthy, and how do I deal with my complicated feelings surrounding this? Has anyone else been through this?
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posted by Autumn
on Aug 24, 2011 -
69 answers
How do I deal with my partner drastically changing his appearance in response to his baldness, and the way it affects my attraction to him?
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posted by Vinegaroon
on Aug 19, 2011 -
18 answers
I'm a dude going to marry a dude in New York State. Said dude I am going to marry is a resident alien from the UK. Will the UK recognize the marriage? Does he become an American Citizen by marrying him? Does that counteract his UK citizenship? What are my rights, here?
posted by The Whelk
on Jul 20, 2011 -
27 answers
What fictional male characters are confirmed bachelors with many female friends and few male friends? I'm especially interested in stories set before 1950.
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posted by Sticherbeast
on Jul 18, 2011 -
6 answers
Recommendations for a gay male sex therapist in the west side of Los Angeles to deal with problems of sexual inadequacy and (in particular) psychologically-based erectile dysfunction in a 24-year-old male. Sliding fee scale a major plus.
posted by anonymous
on Jul 14, 2011 -
2 answers
Sexually attracted to men, emotionally attracted to women. My sexual orientation? I don't know. Lots of detail. I need support. Help me.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 7, 2011 -
27 answers
I'll be late to the NYC pride parade. Where should I go to catch as much of it as possible?
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posted by cheerwine
on Jun 26, 2011 -
2 answers
I'm trying to figure out the original SF Chronicle publication date for a specific chapter from Armistead Maupin's
More Tales of the City. A major spoiler inside.
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posted by roger ackroyd
on Jun 22, 2011 -
5 answers
I've never really had many gay friends, or any that I wasn't actively dating actually. Being socially awkward and naive I don't actually know where to go to meet (non-sexytime) friends, who are also gay.
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posted by selenized
on May 19, 2011 -
10 answers
Is there a decent Brooklyn neighborhood where I could find a 1-bedroom apartment for no more than $1650?
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posted by chameleon
on May 7, 2011 -
13 answers
My same-sex partner and I have separated (to my shock and opposition) after a few years of hard financial times. While I am holding out hope that she will come to her senses, I need help deciding on what to do (especially regarding our house) in case we can't resolve our issues.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 28, 2011 -
9 answers
Have you ever successfully fought for a relationship that you knew was worth saving? How did it work out?
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posted by newlyminted
on Apr 28, 2011 -
24 answers
Seven months ago I cheated on my partner. Six months ago I came clean to him. Three months ago we broke up. This past week we have begun to spend some time together, and I feel like we both reached a breakthrough last night. Am I crazy to have this renewed faith in/willingness to work for our love? Do I need to finally let it go? Much more inside.
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posted by fignewton
on Apr 21, 2011 -
23 answers
What are some songs that lyrically deal with unrequited love between a gay male and a (questionably) straight male?
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posted by donquixote
on Apr 12, 2011 -
31 answers
Foreign Movie Filter: I need help remembering the name of a movie I saw at the Verzaubert festival in Berlin in November 2006. I know that it involved a wedding where the Bride did not show up and it ended with 5 people living in a polymorous relationship. Massive details below the fold.
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posted by Nackt
on Mar 19, 2011 -
5 answers
How do I claim myself as an independent on the FAFSA when I am completely independent, going for a teaching credential, 22 years old, or how else can I fund my schooling?
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posted by Peregrin5
on Mar 19, 2011 -
15 answers
My little sister is a lesbian, and seems misinformed about some basic sexual concepts (eg: safe sex for lesbians) ....
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posted by starfyr
on Mar 14, 2011 -
46 answers
I'm a trans-man looking into a month-long NOLS course. Is NOLS a safe place for LGBTQ folks?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 14, 2011 -
7 answers
What are some representations of gay, uniformed (police, military, etc) men in television and film?
posted by Saebrial
on Feb 10, 2011 -
32 answers
I consider myself straight, but am interested in having sex with a girl just to see what it's like. I am under the impression that lesbians are not big fans of people like me.
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 7, 2011 -
21 answers
[Queer-filter] How do you cope with the ambient heterosexism of everyday life?
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posted by zahava
on Jan 27, 2011 -
33 answers
20-something straight male, minimal relationship success because I think people think I'm gay...strange situation...advice much appreciated!
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 19, 2011 -
45 answers
Sticking a toe out of the closet: help me come out with the least amount of trauma. Who should I confide in first?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 17, 2011 -
27 answers
I have some friends who have had blocks in realizing their sexualities and I'm wondering what the cause of it is. I can't seem to find much information on this topic anywhere else.
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posted by antgly
on Jan 7, 2011 -
20 answers
Does anyone know where I can find a list of the ubiquitous "several conservative members of congress" who recently spoke out against the clip from David Wojnarowicz's "A Fire In My Belly" video at the National Portrait Gallery?
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posted by Bengston
on Dec 30, 2010 -
2 answers
Started seeing a new guy very recently. I know for a fact that he had a a boyfriend when we met; however, he claims that things haven't been working out and that they're "taking a break." How do you know whether to believe someone if you haven't known them very long?
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posted by Vinegaroon
on Dec 28, 2010 -
15 answers
I'd like to know if there are any others who have people who are not into the scene or online dating to let people know, subtly, that I may play for the other team.
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posted by Kamen Rider: Sock Puppet
on Dec 21, 2010 -
18 answers
How strong is the correlation between non gender conformity and homosexuality?
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posted by antgly
on Dec 1, 2010 -
32 answers
How can I come out to my extended family without it being a holiday "surprise" or confessional atmosphere?
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posted by nakedmolerats
on Nov 20, 2010 -
22 answers
Woman in early 30s coming out as a lesbian for the first time in the Twin Cities. What's the city LGBT scene like? (Asking for a friend.)
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 18, 2010 -
5 answers
Ethical dilemma. Should I book a massage with someone I had a huge crush on in high school, just for the thrill of it?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 4, 2010 -
67 answers
Something fun (and gay) to do in San Francisco for Halloween next Saturday night?
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posted by jagalt
on Oct 24, 2010 -
11 answers
