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Just-18 friend kicked out for being gay, what are his options?

A very close online friend of mine is getting kicked out of the house and disinherited for being gay and not going through with what amounts to an arranged marriage. He just turned 18. The situation is somewhat urgent, he doesn’t have much in the way of local resources, and getting in touch with specifically LGBT groups is likely to strain his family situation further. What resources and options can I help him find? [more inside]
posted by NMcCoy on Apr 23, 2012 - 13 answers

Should I, as a gay male, settle when dating or in a relationship?

Should I, as a gay male, settle when dating or in a relationship? [more inside]
posted by jpritcha on Apr 12, 2012 - 15 answers

Gay male and gay male of color filter. How do I come to terms with my dating issues?

Gay male and gay male of color filter. How do I come to terms with my dating issues? [more inside]
posted by 314159 on Apr 11, 2012 - 4 answers

Mild Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome

Wondering whether I might have mild androgen insensitivity syndrome and that it may play a role in my sexual orientation. I haven't turned much up on this on Google. Does anyone have any expertise on the subject? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 10, 2012 - 4 answers

How can I be a good straight ally at work?

How can I show my support for a new co-worker in my company's homophobic environment? [more inside]
posted by abirdinthehand on Apr 7, 2012 - 19 answers

I suck at being gay

I suck at being gay. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 18, 2012 - 11 answers

Two lesbians eating out (in restaurants) – how to get good service.

What are some ways my partner and I (two women) can signal to restaurant staff that we are on a date and hope to receive service similar to straight couples? [more inside]
posted by tr0ubley on Mar 5, 2012 - 25 answers

I think I'm losing my mind

I still have my eyesight (for now), but the diagnosis has triggered serious anger and midlife crisis issues. [more inside]
posted by bad grammar on Feb 25, 2012 - 23 answers

Know of any webcam chat sites for gay teens that are NOT chatroulette / cam4 style?

Know of any webcam chat sites for gay teens that are NOT chatroulette / cam4 style? [more inside]
posted by audio on Feb 24, 2012 - 1 answer

omgwtfbbq mefi, i can haz gay boyfriend, plz?

PhillyGayPhilter: Online dating through OkCupid hasn't been working out well for me, but I'm not quite sure how else to do it now that I'm out of college. How do I meet other young-ish gay men in Philadelphia, in either meat-space or alternative digital pastures? Anxieties, personal details, and candy within! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 20, 2012 - 10 answers

History Of 'Gay Hotels' in Provincetown?

Recently, I found out that a now deceased family member worked at a 'gay hotel' in Provincetown MA in the 1940's. I'm trying to find out more about what 'gay hotels' were like in Provincetown, and just generally more about gay life in Cape Cod during that time. Can someone point me toward some good resources? I'm particularly interested in the sexual identities of the men who lived and stayed in Provincetown. [more inside]
posted by shushufindi on Feb 17, 2012 - 5 answers

Go with my gut? Hell, I don't even know what my gut is telling me right now...

I realize this post is a little long.....but has anyone ever experienced the following Made-For-TV-Hallmark-Channel episode, or something like it, or know anyone who did? If so, how did you handle it? [more inside]
posted by BeastMan78 on Feb 8, 2012 - 10 answers

How to Find this Vague Half-Remembered Article?

Long shot article search: blog post or article about Anderson Cooper's sexuality. [more inside]
posted by amicamentis on Jan 31, 2012 - 3 answers

Coming-out tips for an older gentleman

I have been asked by an older gentleman to help him come out of the closet in San Francisco, and was wondering what resources might be available. [more inside]
posted by steinsaltz on Jan 26, 2012 - 11 answers

Rare, interesting, awesome dance tracks needed!

Accidental DJ is on deck - I need alternative/underground/indie/queer dance hits of the last decade, any genre. Help me minimize looking a fool! [more inside]
posted by Frowner on Jan 19, 2012 - 31 answers

Impotence

[Penis filter][Gay sex filter] I'm 24 years old and I can't maintain an erection. This is probably a psychological problem, but possibly not entirely. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 16, 2012 - 14 answers

How should I approach my girlfriend - and myself - with my evolving sexuality?

Help me figure out what's going on with my sexuality and what it means for my long-time relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 16, 2012 - 32 answers

There ARE reasonable arguments against same-sex marriage, right?

I have to publicly argue against same sex marriage in a week. Help me make logically sound arguments. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 12, 2012 - 100 answers

Pro-gay Bible Exegesis

Looking for recommendations for websites and books that explain gay theology. More specifically, pro-gay arguments explaining tough Bible passages that have respected scholarship. I'm tending to see all the usual conservative stuff instead.
posted by snap_dragon on Jan 9, 2012 - 13 answers

My hair is gay, please come out of the closet

Looking for a good alternative lifestyle haircut in Seattle. [more inside]
posted by carnivoregiraffe on Jan 6, 2012 - 15 answers

Reviewing my 8 month GAY dating experiment. What is causeing me to get these results?

Reviewing my 8 month GAY dating experiment. What is causeing me to get these results? [more inside]
posted by ryker on Jan 3, 2012 - 34 answers

Was I sexually assaulted? Can we still have a relationship if I was?

I think I may have been sexually assaulted in the past by my best friend in the whole world. I'm conflicted about this and I'm wondering if it's possible for us to still be friends? And if so, how? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 1, 2012 - 26 answers

Staying Friends

Two weeks ago, my partner of 7 years informed me that we are no longer a couple. We are going to continue to live together for now, with no plans to change the living arrangements. So far, things have been quite amicable between us, and I would like that to continue. What can I do to help us handle this with grace and maturity? [more inside]
posted by yesster on Dec 25, 2011 - 8 answers

Is there anything I should fix to increase my dateability?

Is there anything I should fix to increase my dateability? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Dec 13, 2011 - 65 answers

How to stop blushing when coworkers talk about sex

Help me stop blushing when people at work talk about sex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 13, 2011 - 20 answers

Relationship ripped apart by Facebook messages

I just read messages between my boyfriend and a former(?) flame, after we started dating.. emotional messages about sex, and meeting up. I am devastated. Help... [more inside]
posted by ninefour on Dec 10, 2011 - 31 answers

My fear of AIDS is destroying my life

I'm a 28 year old gay male. My fear of AIDS is destroying my life. It's so bad that I don't really want to be gay anymore. [more inside]
posted by Tyrant King Porn Dragon on Dec 1, 2011 - 45 answers

As a gay woman, when is it okay to pursue a straight woman?

I am a gay female in my late 20s who has understood my own sexuality for as long as I can remember and has been out to all of my friends for many years. My orientation is certainly not anything I would consider a defining characteristic about myself. The kind of profession I am in, the kind of experiences I have had and my life goals have greatly shaped who I am as a person, and have absolutely nothing to do with who I am attracted to. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 20, 2011 - 42 answers

I want to accept my sex drive.

Help me accept my sex drive and become okay with fulfilling my sexual needs outside my sexless (and open) relationship. [more inside]
posted by chameleon on Nov 16, 2011 - 16 answers

Flexible, customizable, free, gay-friendly, Windows-compatible genealogy software?

Flexible, customizable, free, gay-friendly, Windows-compatible genealogy software? [more inside]
posted by pracowity on Nov 3, 2011 - 5 answers

Tab A goes in which slot again?

Where can I read some good gay erotica? [more inside]
posted by jacquilynne on Oct 29, 2011 - 14 answers

LGBT-related volunteering in NYC?

What are some volunteer opportunities in NYC that involve working with the LGBT community? [more inside]
posted by Tin Man on Oct 25, 2011 - 12 answers

Gay Girl in Amsterdam for 2 Days: Where to stay and what to do???

Where should I stay in Amsterdam and what should I check out? I'm going to Amsterdam for two days and two nights the first week of January. I am a 26 year old single lesbian who is very interested in checking out the local hotspots for gay women and also visiting some art galleries. I would like to see some unusual art installations and/or performance art while I am there. Thank you! : ) [more inside]
posted by thatgirl1985 on Oct 24, 2011 - 6 answers

What DVD is this clip from, and where do I buy it?

How do I find out what DVD this clip is from, and where to buy it? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 14, 2011 - 4 answers

What are some cool queer events in Paris?

What are some lesbian/queer events, gallery exhibitions, movies, bars, etc. to see in Paris? [more inside]
posted by msk1985 on Oct 7, 2011 - 2 answers

help me stack the odds in my favor

Checklist for increasing the odds of finding a significant other [more inside]
posted by GraceCathedral on Oct 2, 2011 - 48 answers

Media that explores lines between male friendship and homosexuality?

Can you recommend books, short stories, academic pieces, movies, tv shows, and other media that explore the boundaries (and their blurring) between male bonding, friendship, camaraderie, hero worship and more "platonic" relations and homoeroticism/homosexuality? That delve into the lines between liking, love, lust, admiration, and feelings of belonging?
posted by Malad on Oct 2, 2011 - 24 answers

'Reverse' Bicurious, am I kidding myself?

I am a 25 year-old gay(-ish?) male living in New York City. Perhaps uncharacteristically, I have a really strong drive to have kids (of my own) and really want to do so in the next five or ten years. I'm torn about how to get there though, given relationship difficulties that hinge largely on unresolved issues relating to my sexuality. Warning: TL;DR potential, but significant context is necessary. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 25, 2011 - 21 answers

Equality of bad taste?

Cheesy honeymoon-type motels / hotels / resorts in New York State for same-sex couple? [more inside]
posted by Morrigan on Sep 9, 2011 - 9 answers

Does this gay thriller novel sound familiar to you?

Does this gay thriller novel sound familiar to you? [more inside]
posted by missed on Sep 7, 2011 - 1 answer

Staying friends with an ex who may be in denial about his sexuality?

A guy I was seeing abruptly decided he was not gay and cut off contact with me. How can I help him through what he's going through and preserve our friendship, or at least make sense of this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 6, 2011 - 20 answers

Divorcing a person with BPD

I need to end my marriage, but don't know how to tell my husband I want out, since I fear for my property and personal safety. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 1, 2011 - 41 answers

Soldier who commited suicide because of DADT?

Looking for the name of a soldier that commited suicide because of homophobia. [more inside]
posted by alona on Sep 1, 2011 - 2 answers

Looking for race/sex statistics for reality TV shows.

Looking for race/sex statistics for reality TV shows. [more inside]
posted by Meatbomb on Aug 31, 2011 - 12 answers

He moving back, but as a roommate.

SO moved out over a year ago and we made attempts to resolve issues needs and wants during that time. Admittedly, I could've put forth more effort in being a better partner. Now he is moving back in, although I'm glad about that, he's coming back as a "roommate". Oh, and I work for him. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 30, 2011 - 29 answers

And guest?

How do I RSVP to this wedding shower? [more inside]
posted by roomthreeseventeen on Aug 26, 2011 - 10 answers

Straight girl, but scared of boys

I'm a straight female, I think, but I'm terrified of dicks. And for the past few months, I've been wondering if I'm gay, but the thought scares me. (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 25, 2011 - 43 answers

How do I plan & embark on a RTW trip as an HIV+ gay man?

How do I plan & embark on a RTW trip as an HIV+ man? I'm about to turn 25 and thanks to healthcare legislation I've been given a small window of time to travel unencumbered by the fear of loosing health insurance. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 24, 2011 - 6 answers

Oh no, I see a darkness. Oh no, I see a darkness. Oh no, I see a darkness.

The parents kicked me out for being gay. What can I do now to make sure I stay emotionally healthy, and how do I deal with my complicated feelings surrounding this? Has anyone else been through this? [more inside]
posted by Autumn on Aug 24, 2011 - 69 answers

I love you, you're perfect, now change.

How do I deal with my partner drastically changing his appearance in response to his baldness, and the way it affects my attraction to him? [more inside]
posted by Vinegaroon on Aug 19, 2011 - 18 answers

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