At some point within the next year I will have the opportunity to move to Seattle, Washington in order to be with the man I love. He will be relocating there in order to pursue his career. However I have some cold feet… [more inside]
posted on Jul 30, 2008 - 11 answers

I fell in love with my best friend, who is a guy. I’m a young bisexual guy. Apparently, he is not. Did the “wrong thing” and told him about how I felt, and was rejected, but things seemed okay afterward. However, I’m still hurting, I’m feeling delusional about it, and sometimes I think that he inadvertently isn’t helping… how do I live with my best friend now? Help me, Metafilter! [more inside]
posted on Jul 7, 2008 - 25 answers

What is the right dating etiquette after a good first date? [more inside]
posted on Mar 5, 2008 - 18 answers

What do I take away from a messy breakup? [more inside]
posted on Feb 18, 2008 - 9 answers

Am I getting strung along or should I wait this out? [more inside]
posted on Aug 31, 2007 - 26 answers

Was it a first date? Can I expect a second date? [more inside]
posted on Aug 4, 2007 - 16 answers

Does he want me to call him? Or should I wait for him to respond to an e-mail? [more inside]
posted on Apr 10, 2007 - 18 answers

Is he gay like me? Will it work out? The messy process of coming out ... [more inside]
posted on Feb 9, 2007 - 25 answers

[Gayfilter] I have a huge crush on a guy I've dated once, and he's moving abroad in three weeks' time. How can I let him know I desperately want to keep seeing him without coming across as a psycho? [more inside]
posted on Aug 30, 2006 - 10 answers

Are there any documented cases of gay men or lesbians moving to Massachusetts to take advantage of our marriage laws? Has anyone written profiles of people or couples who have done this?
posted on Jul 11, 2006 - 10 answers

I've never dated a girl before. Where do I start? Oh, and I am one, too... [more inside]
posted on May 31, 2006 - 24 answers

How do I get my (abusive?) boyfriend out of my life? [more inside]
posted on Apr 20, 2006 - 25 answers

FormerLesbianFilter: Can you give me any insight about men and/or the way men think and function? [more inside]
posted on Jan 22, 2006 - 56 answers

I'm an still-in-the-closet (but perhaps soon to be out) gay man in his early 20s. What are the best ways to meet good-hearted, intelligent, and personable gay men in Boston (or generally), people who are interested in relationships and not just quick hookups?
posted on Dec 8, 2005 - 17 answers

I'm a gay male in my early thirties nearing my sixth year of singlehood, and long since ready to be with someone. However, I've had the hardest time trying to relate to the the gay community. I'm a bit eccentric and will often go to the gay club to write and probably get too wordy with personal ads. It seems that emotional and spiritual depth, along with a lack of care about materialism, just doesn't jibe with the "gay mainstream." My question is this: how can I continue my joyously weird existance, and attract the right person, without diminishing my personality and belief system? What sacrifices must I make with my 'kookiness' and still be me? Thanks!
posted on Dec 29, 2004 - 30 answers