What are the best agressive, alternative, out, fun, political, pro-gay shirts? I'm looking to update my wardrobe with some more queer clothing and am looking for suggestions.
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posted by andoatnp
on Aug 14, 2012 -
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Mid-20s, female, sort of starting to wonder if I might maybe be bi, kind of hating on myself over it.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 10, 2012 -
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What are some great (somewhat) recently released novels/books/memoirs with queer/LGBTQ themes or characters?
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posted by kylej
on May 23, 2012 -
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PhillyGayPhilter: Online dating through OkCupid hasn't been working out well for me, but I'm not quite sure how else to do it now that I'm out of college. How do I meet other young-ish gay men in Philadelphia, in either meat-space or alternative digital pastures? Anxieties, personal details, and candy within!
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 20, 2012 -
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Accidental DJ is on deck - I need alternative/underground/indie/queer dance hits of the last decade, any genre. Help me minimize looking a fool!
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posted by Frowner
on Jan 19, 2012 -
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Two weeks ago, my partner of 7 years informed me that we are no longer a couple. We are going to continue to live together for now, with no plans to change the living arrangements. So far, things have been quite amicable between us, and I would like that to continue. What can I do to help us handle this with grace and maturity?
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posted by yesster
on Dec 25, 2011 -
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I'll be late to the NYC pride parade. Where should I go to catch as much of it as possible?
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posted by cheerwine
on Jun 26, 2011 -
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I'm a trans-man looking into a month-long NOLS course. Is NOLS a safe place for LGBTQ folks?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 14, 2011 -
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[Queer-filter] How do you cope with the ambient heterosexism of everyday life?
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posted by zahava
on Jan 27, 2011 -
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Does anyone know where I can find a list of the ubiquitous "several conservative members of congress" who recently spoke out against the clip from David Wojnarowicz's "A Fire In My Belly" video at the National Portrait Gallery?
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posted by Bengston
on Dec 30, 2010 -
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I need some academically credible synonyms for same-sex erotic activity that are less ambiguous than "gay sex" and less clinical-sounding than "homosexual contact."
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posted by Jon_Evil
on Oct 26, 2009 -
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Celebrity Sexual Preference-filter: Does Gordon Gano, singer of the Violent Femmes, like boys, girls, or both?
posted by Jon_Evil
on Oct 17, 2009 -
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I fell in love with my best friend, who is a guy. I’m a young bisexual guy. Apparently, he is not. Did the “wrong thing” and told him about how I felt, and was rejected, but things seemed okay afterward. However, I’m still hurting, I’m feeling delusional about it, and sometimes I think that he inadvertently isn’t helping… how do I live with my best friend now? Help me, Metafilter!
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 7, 2008 -
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Please help me remember the name of a 1970's Mexican film about homosexual kidnappers.
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posted by item
on Jul 19, 2007 -
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What is the best (if any) way to deal with anti-gay Christian protesters on my campus?
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posted by ikahime
on Apr 2, 2007 -
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I am looking for a good science-fiction website or blog with reliable reviews, preferably covering gay/queer issues.
posted by kolophon
on Sep 25, 2006 -
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