Mr. Matty and I are looking to get 'everything but married'... but how? And by who? [more inside]
posted by matty on Dec 9, 2009 - 16 answers

Help me find a comedy bit about gay marriage? [more inside]
posted by macfly on Dec 2, 2009 - 3 answers

The legalization of same-sex marriage is very important to me. What can I do to help? [more inside]
posted by Mrs. Pterodactyl on Nov 6, 2009 - 19 answers

If you were writing a letter to the editor with the title, "Christian Church Mustn't Oppose Same-Sex Marriage," what facts and arguments would you include? [more inside]
posted by fogster on May 9, 2009 - 46 answers

I'm looking for a good charity to list as a suggestion on our wedding registry. Specifically, one that works for marriage equality for everyone. [more inside]
posted by phearlez on Jan 9, 2009 - 14 answers

How do married same-sex couples hold title? Any recommendations or resources for California same-sex unions wanting to change title to their property? [more inside]
posted by Graygorey on Nov 13, 2008 - 4 answers

My girlfriend and I live in a state where gay marriage is not legal. We'd get married if we could. What would be the implications for us (and potentially a future child) if we got an out-of-state gay marriage? [more inside]
posted by palegirl on Oct 14, 2008 - 10 answers

I'm die-hard military, but I'm also die-hard gay. With the election coming up, how do I show my military friends what this election means to me as a gay man? [more inside]
posted by matty on Sep 4, 2008 - 28 answers

How will the recent California Supreme Court ruling affect my resident status? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 18, 2008 - 14 answers

After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 21, 2008 - 23 answers

Complicated name-change issues. I am changing my last name, but not due to a legal marriage. Can I get my name changed now, but start using it for everything later? [more inside]
posted by fiercecupcake on Jan 30, 2008 - 11 answers

GayFilter: What interesting details and rites can be changed about a gay wedding and reception to make it more distinct? [more inside]
posted by greekphilosophy on Oct 30, 2007 - 22 answers

What's the best way to use money to support marriage equality in the US? [more inside]
posted by Xalf on Feb 1, 2007 - 12 answers

Does anyone know of articles or books documenting the lives of happy, monogamous male gay couples and/or statistics on what % of the male gay population resides in relationships of that type? [more inside]
posted by shivohum on Aug 22, 2006 - 8 answers

Is proposing to my boyfriend in a location from a Hitchcock thriller a good idea? [more inside]
posted by tonylord on Aug 2, 2006 - 25 answers

Gayfilter: Where can/should my girlfriend and I get married? [more inside]
posted by CwgrlUp on Jul 29, 2006 - 16 answers

Are there any documented cases of gay men or lesbians moving to Massachusetts to take advantage of our marriage laws? Has anyone written profiles of people or couples who have done this?
posted by alms on Jul 11, 2006 - 10 answers