How will the recent California Supreme Court ruling affect my resident status? [more inside]
posted on May 18, 2008 - 14 answers

After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW [more inside]
posted on Apr 21, 2008 - 22 answers

Complicated name-change issues. I am changing my last name, but not due to a legal marriage. Can I get my name changed now, but start using it for everything later? [more inside]
posted on Jan 30, 2008 - 11 answers

GayFilter: What interesting details and rites can be changed about a gay wedding and reception to make it more distinct? [more inside]
posted on Oct 30, 2007 - 22 answers

What's the best way to use money to support marriage equality in the US? [more inside]
posted on Feb 1, 2007 - 12 answers

Does anyone know of articles or books documenting the lives of happy, monogamous male gay couples and/or statistics on what % of the male gay population resides in relationships of that type? [more inside]
posted on Aug 22, 2006 - 8 answers

Is proposing to my boyfriend in a location from a Hitchcock thriller a good idea? [more inside]
posted on Aug 2, 2006 - 25 answers

Gayfilter: Where can/should my girlfriend and I get married? [more inside]
posted on Jul 29, 2006 - 16 answers

Are there any documented cases of gay men or lesbians moving to Massachusetts to take advantage of our marriage laws? Has anyone written profiles of people or couples who have done this?
posted on Jul 11, 2006 - 10 answers