What does the "futch" woman wear to Vegas? And where does she find her clothing? If I'm not feeling the nine-inch heels, where can I find the clothing that will be appropriate for a night on the town and fit butch-leaning tastes? [more inside]
posted on Jul 15, 2008 - 12 answers
Why are there so few lesbian bars in the NYC/Brooklyn area when compared to the high number of gay bars? [more inside]
posted on Jun 19, 2008 - 31 answers 
Sexyfilter: Lesbian role-play ideas, bonus points for kinky. Yes, really. [more inside]
posted on May 27, 2008 - 12 answers
After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW [more inside]
posted on Apr 21, 2008 - 22 answers
Can you recommend a good, lesbian-friendly therapist/psychologist/whatever in Kentucky? [more inside]
posted on Feb 22, 2008 - 4 answers
Complicated name-change issues. I am changing my last name, but not due to a legal marriage. Can I get my name changed now, but start using it for everything later? [more inside]
posted on Jan 30, 2008 - 11 answers
Help me locate a VHS documentary filmed in the 90's called "Lesbian Misconceptions". It was filmed by Dinah Holtzman, and submitted to a film festival. It's possible the festival was called "Lesbian Misconceptions," not the film itself.
posted on Jul 18, 2007 - 1 answers
Why are gay people so flamboyant? [more inside]
posted on Jun 25, 2007 - 97 answers
I am confused about my sexuality. [more inside]
posted on Jun 3, 2007 - 25 answers
Has an openly gay man or lesbian ever won an Academy Award (in any category)?
posted on Apr 3, 2007 - 29 answers
What's the best way to use money to support marriage equality in the US? [more inside]
posted on Feb 1, 2007 - 12 answers
For a student of mine: Is it a good idea or a bad idea, on a law school application, to disclose past drug use and rehabilitation, sexual orientation, and family issues to explain why one has a problematic academic history? [more inside]
posted on Sep 26, 2006 - 27 answers
Gayfilter: Where can/should my girlfriend and I get married? [more inside]
posted on Jul 29, 2006 - 16 answers
Are there any documented cases of gay men or lesbians moving to Massachusetts to take advantage of our marriage laws? Has anyone written profiles of people or couples who have done this?
posted on Jul 11, 2006 - 10 answers
I've never dated a girl before. Where do I start? Oh, and I am one, too... [more inside]
posted on May 31, 2006 - 24 answers
Are there organizations that report on the human rights of gays and lesbians around the world? [more inside]
posted on Jan 6, 2006 - 6 answers
Help me cure lesbian bed-death. Lesbians and non-lesbians alike are welcome to reply.
It's a not-so-funny joke in the gay community that a few months into a serious relationship. lesbians stop having sex. My partner and I have been together for six years now, and, although we talk about sex (especially how much we miss it!) we don't have sex. Maybe once a month, possibly less often than that. [more inside]
posted on Oct 11, 2005 - 13 answers
How did you come out to your parents / friends / family?
posted on Apr 21, 2005 - 34 answers
I'm toying with opening a site based upon the MeFi model for LGBT issues and community building. What software programs do MeFi and other online communities use to administer the system? I've really only installed MT and other simple programs before, so I'm looking for ease of install as well as ease of use... Thanks in advance!
posted on Dec 19, 2003 - 9 answers
