I've recently come out of denial/uncertainty and realize I'm gay, I live in Adelaide, I don't really dig the club scene that much, but I want to meet other gay men. How do I find them? [more inside]
posted on May 15, 2008 - 11 answers

This is a 3rd party question and as such I am looking more for general information than specific help. It has to do with the military's policy on being gay while serving. [more inside]
posted on Apr 26, 2008 - 13 answers

After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW [more inside]
posted on Apr 21, 2008 - 22 answers

Very personal sex/anatomy question ahoy. [more inside]
posted on Apr 4, 2008 - 18 answers

Kinda like the anonymous question a little bit ago, but looking for the geeky gay guys in Phoenix. [more inside]
posted on Mar 30, 2008 - 6 answers

What can I expect in a Younger/Older relationship? [more inside]
posted on Mar 25, 2008 - 13 answers

GayDramaFilter. How can I make sure that people don't confuse my basic interest in them with flirting? [more inside]
posted on Mar 18, 2008 - 19 answers

What are some necessary tips for approaching and meeting guys in gay bars, esp. when I'm alone? [more inside]
posted on Mar 15, 2008 - 6 answers

Tell me about gay bars in New Orleans. [more inside]
posted on Mar 13, 2008 - 7 answers

How does a gay man go about dating women? [more inside]
posted on Mar 11, 2008 - 31 answers

What is the right dating etiquette after a good first date? [more inside]
posted on Mar 5, 2008 - 18 answers

How do you turn your homoerotic relationship with your best friend into a full-fledged homosexual affair? [more inside]
posted on Feb 27, 2008 - 31 answers

I have a question about an Spanish-language word that may have been used in one or more episodes of Cheech and Chong. NSFW drug references/language. [more inside]
posted on Feb 25, 2008 - 16 answers

Can you recommend a good, lesbian-friendly therapist/psychologist/whatever in Kentucky? [more inside]
posted on Feb 22, 2008 - 4 answers

What do I take away from a messy breakup? [more inside]
posted on Feb 18, 2008 - 9 answers

Complicated name-change issues. I am changing my last name, but not due to a legal marriage. Can I get my name changed now, but start using it for everything later? [more inside]
posted on Jan 30, 2008 - 10 answers

I'm trying to find the name of a book I read several years ago. The book told the life story of a young gay man who might have been British. Further, possibly only half-correct, details inside. [more inside]
posted on Jan 10, 2008 - 6 answers

As a high school senior going to a Chicago-land school in fall 2008, what should I know to plan for my first apartment? [more inside]
posted on Jan 6, 2008 - 11 answers

How do you make everything good again after someone finds out you've kept a secret from them? Thing is, it's not your own secret you are keeping. [more inside]
posted on Dec 25, 2007 - 30 answers

I'm gay, and I'm afraid that I only like straight guys. [more inside]
posted on Dec 8, 2007 - 24 answers

Gay Male Fiction: Please Recommend something good to read [more inside]
posted on Dec 1, 2007 - 25 answers

Is there a time of year that's "best" for coming out of the closet? In your experience, what did you do right and what do you wish you would have done differently when you told your parents that you're gay? [more inside]
posted on Nov 16, 2007 - 81 answers

I believe my friend is gay and in denial. I'm openly gay. How can I keep his cognitive dissonance from causing him to drop me? [more inside]
posted on Nov 6, 2007 - 42 answers

Say your friend told you a year ago he's gay. Is it ok to pass that information along to a mutual friend, a year later, with whom he has not had direct contact? No one in this equation is afraid of gaiety.
posted on Oct 31, 2007 - 37 answers

GayFilter: What interesting details and rites can be changed about a gay wedding and reception to make it more distinct? [more inside]
posted on Oct 30, 2007 - 22 answers

Going out clubbing for the first time in years and i'm at a loss for what to wear. I'm going to be going out to the gay bars / clubs this weekend and have not been out for nearly two years so I'm a but out of touch. [more inside]
posted on Oct 18, 2007 - 11 answers

I'm dealing with the fallout from coming out to my deeply religious immediate family. For years, I had prepared for their tears, their anger, their remonstrances, their appeals to the Bible, and all of those have come. What I hadn't prepared for was how disappointed I would be, and how fundamental and lonely that disappointment would be. Help? [more inside]
posted on Oct 16, 2007 - 38 answers

I've lived with my best friend and another good friend for 3 years. I've known them for 7--since we were freshmen in college. I've come to the conclusion that I'm bisexual, and that I have a bit of a crush on my best friend. I'm having trouble telling him that I'm not straight. I've read everyone's advice not to tell him I'm crushing on him, because there is a good chance that would be messy. What is a good way to tell him that I'm bi though? [more inside]
posted on Oct 16, 2007 - 32 answers

Next week apparently marks National Coming Out Week. Is now the time I've looked forward to for so long? [more inside]
posted on Oct 7, 2007 - 36 answers

I was wondering if there was any place in Chicago where I could see a vogue ball? I greatly enjoyed Paris is Burning as well as the numerous videos on YouTube but I'm not sure where to look to find local events. Any suggestions?
posted on Oct 1, 2007 - 1 answers

What is the best way for me - a gay man living in a country where I don't speak much of the language and where gay people are relatively repressed - to promote greater rights for gay people here? [more inside]
posted on Sep 30, 2007 - 17 answers

How can a young gay man from New York adjust to small-town life? [more inside]
posted on Sep 11, 2007 - 17 answers

culturally normal for turkish college-age men to kiss before bed? [more inside]
posted on Aug 31, 2007 - 16 answers

Am I getting strung along or should I wait this out? [more inside]
posted on Aug 31, 2007 - 26 answers

Advice for a gay man looking for long-term-relationship oriented prospects in the Minneapolis Metro area. [more inside]
posted on Aug 26, 2007 - 7 answers

I'm gay, new at dating, and kind of overweight (though not morbidly so -- say ~ 20/22% body fat), though my face doesn't show it. I'm afraid dates will like me, in part based on that deceptive face, then discover my fatness during a moment of intimacy, and be repulsed. Am I being paranoid?
posted on Aug 24, 2007 - 21 answers

Does anyone know of any public service announcements or other advertisements that contain a message that says it's ok to be gay? Examples of what I am talking about can be seen here and here [more inside]
posted on Aug 12, 2007 - 9 answers

Asking for a friend: how to deal with someone who deflects criticism with accusations of homophobia and social ostracism? [more inside]
posted on Aug 9, 2007 - 18 answers

Was it a first date? Can I expect a second date? [more inside]
posted on Aug 4, 2007 - 16 answers

How does your average awkward straight fellow go about finding a gay friend to help with the ladies? [more inside]
posted on Aug 2, 2007 - 84 answers

What's the best way to find a boyfriend (gay) / Cuddle buddy in New York?
posted on Jul 28, 2007 - 9 answers

Please help me remember the name of a 1970's Mexican film about homosexual kidnappers. [more inside]
posted on Jul 19, 2007 - 8 answers

In light of the horrendously awful "I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry," are there any GOOD (i.e. both funny and non-homophobic) comedies about straight people either having to pretend they're gay or, more generally, about straight people slowly but surely letting go of their prejudices towards LGBT people? [more inside]
posted on Jul 19, 2007 - 43 answers

Help me locate a VHS documentary filmed in the 90's called "Lesbian Misconceptions". It was filmed by Dinah Holtzman, and submitted to a film festival. It's possible the festival was called "Lesbian Misconceptions," not the film itself.
posted on Jul 18, 2007 - 1 answers

I think my son's about to tell me he's gay. I want to say the best thing possible. What is that? [more inside]
posted on Jul 11, 2007 - 53 answers

I'm a 25 year old gay male and I'm scared to get involved with dating. Guys my age seem shallow and snarky. [more inside]
posted on Jul 6, 2007 - 31 answers

Why are gay people so flamboyant? [more inside]
posted on Jun 25, 2007 - 97 answers

I'm considering starting an adult internet dating service in the US. What legal implications do I need to consider? (Some mildly NSFW details follow). [more inside]
posted on Jun 19, 2007 - 8 answers

It is a good thing where I work that I identify as gay. Very good. Recently however, I have fallen (madly) for a hetero... This would be somewhat of an issue of at my gay workplace and I'd like some good ole MeFi advice (MI) [more inside]
posted on Jun 13, 2007 - 32 answers

This is very complicated so get comfortable....I'm a girl of 24 and I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years in october to be with a woman. [more inside]
posted on Jun 12, 2007 - 22 answers