Given my present situation, how do I find a day job that allows me to pursue my interests? If you've ever found yourself in a similar situation, how did you change things for the better? Exciting personal details inside!
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 17, 2012 -
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Months ago, I was asked to do something outside of the scope of my job (over my lunch hour to boot). I don't want to do it anymore. What are my options?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 12, 2012 -
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[female masturbation filter] I think I am perfectly healthy, so why can't I bring myself off?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 4, 2011 -
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I'm a woman in a longterm committed relationship, and I love sex. Over the years, I've started to feel that I don't get anything out of giving my partner blowjobs, and the unfairness bothers me. Yet not being excited by giving it or wanting to give one also makes me feel guilty, like I'm not being a good partner or being the stereotypical woman who hates blowjobs, which frustrates me.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 31, 2011 -
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I get lethally quiet when I'm upset, and my relationships suffer as a result. Please help me break out my little black rain cloud.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 28, 2011 -
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One of the other graduate students in my lab occasionally makes comments that I feel are sexist - just barely so, but sexist nonetheless. How do I deal with this?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 26, 2011 -
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I'm rarely interested in the people who show romantic interest in me, and the people who I'm interested never return the sentiment. What's going on here?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 26, 2010 -
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My girlfriend and I live together for 2 years with cats. The cats are driving me crazy. What can we do?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 4, 2010 -
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Is there a way to get around the initial consultation for an IUD if I've already had one within the last week?
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 2, 2009 -
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I'm stressed. Frequently. It seems like it's always to do with interactions with friends and lovers, but it's dragging me down.
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 24, 2009 -
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How do I stop setting ridiculous expectations of myself and then either beating myself up when I don't meet them, or feeling more stressed during the process than is warranted?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 20, 2009 -
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I've been trying to get under a certain weight for weeks. Whenever I know that if I do well on a certain day, I'll have reached my goal in the morning, I tend to subconsciously self sabotage (by over eating or eating something I know will make me gain weight the next day.) Then I'll end up gaining a few pounds and needing to start all over.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 28, 2009 -
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Dealing with a friend whose tendency to vacillate with both plans and moods is driving me slowly mad. Should I speak with them about this, or find a way to deal with it?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 3, 2008 -
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What am I doing wrong? Either I've got the worst metabolism in the world, or my body *likes* being fat.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 28, 2007 -
31 answers