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Why men gotta be like that!

Why do men with wives/girlfriends aggressively hit on me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 30, 2014 - 35 answers

What are some cultural examples of strong, smart, flirtatious women?

I get nervous about flirting and dating, and my friend suggested I 'fake it til I make it' by trying to imitate someone I wish I could be like. But I'm having trouble thinking of fictional characters/celebrity role models. What are some examples of women who are intellectual/feminist/strong but also forward and good at flirting? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 6, 2013 - 35 answers

Do I not understand Facebook standards?

I feel ridiculous for even asking but...I have a very happy and satisfying relationship with my domestic partner of several years. Seriously...everything's fine except for this one little thing...it's about how we both approach Facebook (we're both in our late 30's). He and I don't communicate, like or comment on each other's walls and we never have. But he does comment in a somewhat flirty manner with his exes (and I mean these are women from MANY years ago), and I've asked him, "What's up with that?" and his response has been, "It's nothing. Just being chatty." [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 9, 2013 - 11 answers

Husband playing with fire - chances *I* will get burned?

Husband has always been friendly with women, but never too flirtatious. Husband met a woman in the course of his workday (on his commute) and they struck up an "aquaintanceship" based around their daily metro commute. Things have progressed a bit too far for my tastes and I'm trying to understand his mindset. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 26, 2013 - 44 answers

Sick of being single, unsure of where to start

21 year old college student with past relationship experience, but I can't get a date to save my life. I believe I know the problem(s) but I'm unsure how to get started in term of solving things. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 25, 2013 - 20 answers

help me flirt in a professional setting

How do I, a barista, flirt with one of my hot regulars? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 20, 2013 - 54 answers

how to explain to a flirty friend about being monogamish?

I didn't cheat on my girlfriend but it might look like I did; I flirted with my friend but I don't want it to be emotional. What to do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 13, 2012 - 24 answers

How do I relax and just get laid, rather than obsessing over it?

I want to have more sex, but I don't want to get hung up about it. How do I stop obsessing about (not) getting any? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 25, 2012 - 17 answers

Turned off by forwardness

Is it strange that I get turned off by outright flirting and sexual advances from men? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 15, 2012 - 30 answers

Please don't flirt with me, sonny

How to kindly discourage flirting in a pen-pal context? Military perspectives very welcome. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 23, 2012 - 12 answers

How to Get What I Want

How do I, an early-30's woman, get what I want when it comes to dating and sex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 21, 2012 - 16 answers

Damage Control

I think I accidentally lead on my non-English-speaking coworker. iAyudame, por favor! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 13, 2012 - 13 answers

Shitting where you eat.

I made the very classic mistake of sleeping with a coworker and now trying to pretend nothing happened. What is the protocol for this, because I have suspicions she is breaking it. Medium-long post. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 10, 2012 - 36 answers

Help me flirt with my uber hot sweetie?

flirting tips/ideas? i'm really good at sweet, romantic, thoughtful, etc. not the best at sexy. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 21, 2012 - 11 answers

Less attractive than I think?

I know the general practice for women is to date guys who seem into you, but what if guys don't seem into you? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 22, 2011 - 31 answers

How can I look sexier?

I can't really believe I'm asking this, but: what are some things I can do to look "sexier," in a heteronormative-woman kind of way? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 13, 2011 - 54 answers

Strikeout for the awakwrd guy

This is a follow up to my previous question. Made a move on a girl who I thought had some interest in me. I thought wrong, apparently... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 13, 2011 - 47 answers

Help the guy who trips over his own tongue compliment the girl who won't accept compliments.

Increasingly frustrated bloke looking for practical advice on how to say to his girlfriend - who won't accept compliments - without it sounding cheesy or like I'm angling to get her into bed. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 10, 2011 - 26 answers

The Hook Up Guide for the Awkward Guy?

How do I make a move and initiate a hook up? Awkward guy in need of help! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 5, 2011 - 31 answers

How friendly is too friendly with an attached man?

Are you a bad person if your guy friend leaves his girlfriend for you? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 30, 2011 - 56 answers

If I turn them down I'm a bitch; if I don't, I'm "leading them on" and I'm still a bitch

I don't know how to reject men! I just know I'm handling this all wrong, please advise. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 7, 2011 - 45 answers

Help me flirt like a man?

How do men and women flirt differently? I'm a straight man who often comes off as feminine or gay, and I don't like it. I think it's ruining my success with women. Help? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 21, 2011 - 53 answers

And no, unavailable is not code for married...

I've realized that I can only relax and be myself around men I'm attracted to if I believe they are unavailable. How do I break through this mental barrier so I can relax with men who are available? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 11, 2011 - 11 answers

E-Jealousy

I believe my boyfriend may be entering in to an emotional affair with a former coworker via facebook. How do i bring this up without seeming untrusting when nothing physical has happened (yet?) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 2, 2011 - 37 answers

I need help with flirting!

I'm a straight 29-year old male, who for various reasons has never dated and now is trying to get started. The problem is that I never learned how to flirt, and I'm totally clueless about how to either generate interest or recognize interest in others. What's worse, the standard "Martian's guides to dating" are almost useless to me because my primary social activities are forms of partner dancing, in which the norms of physical contact are different enough that I can't use the standard signals to judge someone's interest. So, what can I do to attract the ladies or notice when they're attracted to me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 30, 2010 - 19 answers

Places for flirty conversation online?

Where can I find people to chat with online who are interested in flirting, but not necessarily a relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 26, 2010 - 8 answers

No, I really do just want to be friends.

How can I best deal with the unwanted romantic advances of someone I will be seeing on a regular basis? Special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 18, 2010 - 26 answers

How easy do I or do I not have it as a woman in the dating world?

All right. How difficult is it for women to flirt with men *really*? I often hear that just smiling at a dude is good enough, but how true is that? What tactics have been successful for you, ladies? What is it you gentlemen out there wish a woman would (reasonably) do in a social situation? I've read the SIRC guide to flirting, but I'm looking for some real world anecdotes to supplement that. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 12, 2010 - 38 answers

Awkward!

Help me not be a socially-awkward weirdo around men I find attractive. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 4, 2010 - 11 answers

Did I Just Waste My Flirting Skills on a Back-Up Boyfriend?

Thought I hit it off with somebody I met through a mutual friend. There's been lots of fun chatting at parties, a bit of drunk flirting, but I fear I may have misread their intentions. After talking with both the mutual friend & this person, I'm starting to suspect that this person perhaps has feelings for the mutual friend. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 25, 2010 - 7 answers

Excuse me, what?

Do guys mention wanting to get laid to girls they don't want to lay? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 14, 2010 - 38 answers

Always have a plan b

What's the best way to keep things light and limit embarrassment for both people if the other person rejects you when you make a move? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 28, 2010 - 25 answers

Please don't ask me on a date.

I know a guy in person that I've been chatting with online. In person, I'm not attracted to him at all. But I am intellectually turned on by the conversations we have. (Anon because I talk to this guy on the internet.) I don't want this to go any farther. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 23, 2010 - 15 answers

How can I return a favour without being flirtatious?

How can I return a favour without being flirtatious? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 14, 2010 - 37 answers

Why don't good looking guys my age hit on me, but groups of 14 year olds will?

Do really good looking guys ever ask for the numbers of women they don't know? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 20, 2010 - 44 answers

Should a (probable) asexual still date?

I am asexual (I think) but I still get strong feelings for people. Should I still pursue relationships? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 6, 2010 - 27 answers

He's a lot like me. But handsomer.

How to deal with a Lothario in your social scene? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 23, 2010 - 34 answers

Friends->???->Dating

Help a late-blooming dating newbie figure out the mysteries of entering a relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 25, 2010 - 11 answers

I don't know how to be gay.

I'm a twenty year old gay woman. For 2010, I want to learn how to flirt with other women. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 24, 2009 - 15 answers

Extroversion or flirting?

How do you tell the difference between someone who's an extrovert and someone who's romantically interested in you? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 21, 2009 - 23 answers

I'd like to hunt you again, my sweet.

I'm in a great longterm relationship - but I miss flirting. I have no desire to flirt with anyone but my guy, except... how do I recreate that feeling of excitement and butterflies that flirting brings? I've always felt that this excitement springs from the subtlety and not-knowing-ness of where it might go. When a relationship is already established, what actions would feel close to that? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 18, 2009 - 22 answers

I'm handsome, excellent flirt, and women willingly give me their numbers...Now what?

I'm handsome, excellent flirt, and women willingly give me their numbers...Now what? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2009 - 16 answers

How to stop married man from flirting when it's reciprocal

How to stop married man from flirting when it's reciprocal? I'm a notoriously bad crusher. Even though almost everyone would describe me as a competent, sensible, self-assured and promising young woman, I completely loose myself when someone breaks through to my inner core. It's not that it happens all the time either, but when it does it's with a vengeance. I would definitely describe it as a 'crushing' sensation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 14, 2009 - 39 answers

A question for (straight) women about varieties of casual eye contact with semi-strange men

A question, especially for straight women, about varieties of casual eye contact with semi-strange men: [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 31, 2009 - 26 answers

Teach a socially-slow guy how to get from "flirting" to "hooking up."

Teach-a-Martian-to-socialize-filter: moving from flirting to "hey, come back to my place." [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 9, 2009 - 25 answers

explain to me this... mojo.

Please explain the basic principles of flirting to me as if I were an alien who had recently landed on Earth trying to describe the phenomenon for my anthropological records or something. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 23, 2009 - 27 answers

How do you stay flirtatious, witty, and mysterious when you REALLY like someone?

Help me Don Juan Kenobi, you're my only hope; or How do you stay flirtatious, witty, and mysterious when you REALLY like someone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 4, 2008 - 12 answers

GayDramaFilter. How can I make sure that people don't confuse my basic interest in them with flirting?

GayDramaFilter. How can I make sure that people don't confuse my basic interest in them with flirting? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 18, 2008 - 19 answers

From eating cookies on prom night, to flirting in Manhattan meat markets?

After a complete transformation, I need to practice flirting, in New York. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 9, 2008 - 22 answers

Help me not appear to be sleeping my way to the top

How do I as a young female professional behave warmly, but not flirtatiously, towards attractive men with whom I want to network? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 8, 2007 - 35 answers

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