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accidental flirty dynamic

I have a friend who I have a naturally intense and potentially flirty dynamic with, even though I'm not interested in them sexually. It's making me a bit uncomfortable and confused. How do I handle this? [more inside]
posted by hotcoroner on Aug 7, 2015 - 21 answers

Was he interested or not?

An older guy flirted with me at work. I finally got a chance to give him my number but it's been awhile and he hasn't called. I'm VERY confused. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by divina_y_humilde on Apr 26, 2015 - 17 answers

Time-Sensitive Seduction? Or: not letting ship-in-the-night sail on by.

I have been crushing heavily on a guy who's been working as part of a construction team renovating my office space since September. After months of crossing paths without a word, just eye contact, we finally made small talk, but kept the talk going, and he sustained a very steady eye contact which I feel to be indicating some interest, even if he's not strongly signaling. His project wraps up in a week. Perhaps he feels there's no point in making a move. But I want something to happen. What do I do to make him mine? [more inside]
posted by taramosalata on Dec 5, 2014 - 14 answers

How do I not be a meet cute mouse?

Meet cute happens. (Yes, these actually happen IRL.) The next time I encounter my meet cute, suddenly this successful, smart, outspoken women becomes a mouse. Literally small and fuzzy and hiding in a corner if at all possible. Any concrete strategies for not doing this? HALP! Example and background after the break. [more inside]
posted by susiswimmer on Oct 8, 2014 - 21 answers

Poem ID: two lovers meet in a shop and touch hands over handkerchiefs

I've thus far been unable to find this poem online given only the lines I remember. It starts off with something like "she asked how much for the handkerchiefs..." and then she flirts with the store worker, and they use the handkerchiefs as an excuse to touch hands. And there's a line about the shopkeeper being in the back so he doesn't notice... [more inside]
posted by ch3cooh on Sep 11, 2014 - 3 answers

Someone's keen.

I almost dated someone but complicated circumstances left us with no choice but to remain friends. Despite this, she still flirts with me continuously. How do I deal with that? A slight snowstorm inside. [more inside]
posted by sapien on Mar 10, 2014 - 24 answers

Les Liaisons Dangereuses?: What is flirting, and am I doing it?

What is flirting? And am I doing it? [more inside]
posted by UniversityNomad on Feb 10, 2012 - 47 answers

To use info from a girl's online profile in talking to her offline?

I've recently made chit-chat with an attractive barista at a coffee shop I frequent, mostly about the writing group I meet with there and a band we both like that she was playing over the sound system one day. This past weekend I signed into OKCupid for the first time in awhile, and she's one of the first matches that comes up for me. So now not only do I know that she's single, but that we both like several other bands, authors, shows and movies. We actually have a good bit in common. Do I exploit my new-found knowledge of her to make conversation in person (which is publicly posted, and it's not like I went looking for it), or do I message her on OKC in a "fancy meeting you here" sort of way? Which is less creepy?
posted by Zorz on Jul 26, 2011 - 40 answers

My schedule is totally not interested in you

Mind-reading Filter: What does this mean - "Well, I'm totally booked up this week... I don't know what my schedule is next week." [more inside]
posted by XMLicious on Aug 10, 2010 - 21 answers

Hi AskMetafilter, nice to meet you!

What are some of the sweetest text messages you have sent or received? [more inside]
posted by lover on Jun 22, 2010 - 16 answers

Should guys stay alone in their unsuccessful social situations?

Relatively unfriendly guy, exceedingly caring and friendly with good-looking girl. Help me understand this social behavior -- and should I do anything? [more inside]
posted by knz on May 22, 2010 - 21 answers

Is my behavior completely wrong?

Alright, so I am 20-something female, pretty outgoing/friendly, and (I think) relatively well-liked. My problem is that I can't figure out the nuances of human interaction. (FYI: somewhat-long question ahead). [more inside]
posted by Sakura3210 on Apr 25, 2010 - 26 answers

I just think that we'd get on.

I haven't had a crush since I was 14 and now I have a HUGE one. I have never had to be the pursuer before, but now I think I need to be. AskMeFi, teach me to flirt and pursue while still keeping me cool!! [more inside]
posted by SkylitDrawl on Nov 16, 2009 - 19 answers

Men: "Nice shoes!" (trans: let's fuck!) Women: "Nice shoes!" (trans: let's be friends!)

Previously dated men, now wants to date women. Problem: I can't tell when women are interested in me or if they just want to be friends. [more inside]
posted by Eleutherios on Oct 13, 2009 - 17 answers

can't tell if this psychology study exists

I recently read about a study on what body language women use as perceived by men. Essentially, it said that there was no observable difference between a woman trying to flirt with a man and the same woman just being polite for the first four or five minutes of their first conversation together. I'm trying to find out if this actually happened, and if so whether it was a reliable, scientifically done study, but I lost the link right after reading it.
posted by sandswipe on Sep 27, 2009 - 8 answers

No Casanova am I

What is the appropriate flirty answer to "Do you believe in fate?" [more inside]
posted by Busy Old Fool on Apr 28, 2009 - 54 answers

Help me find a few-years-old essay about flirting

Help me find an article/essay/blog entry I read 2 or 3 years ago about how obvious flirting is and always will be. [more inside]
posted by ictow on Jan 25, 2009 - 2 answers

Addressing a girl as 'fair'. Flirting or just a figure of speech?

Addressing a girl as 'fair'. Flirting or just a figure of speech? [more inside]
posted by Emilyisnow on Dec 17, 2008 - 38 answers

Chatting up the grocer

I have a crush on the night clerk at my local grocery store. How do I let him know I find him intriguing without coming off all stalkerish? [more inside]
posted by ruemonkey on Oct 30, 2008 - 29 answers

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