What is the minimum acceptable dress code for male Doms who want to go public? [more inside]
posted on Apr 18, 2008 - 12 answers

I was seeing a sex therapist for about a year. We had a little tiff and now I don't go there anymore. I could still use the therapy though. Should I forgive and forget or are there more thera-fish in the sea? (Potentially NSFW) [more inside]
posted on Mar 2, 2008 - 22 answers

I'm a straight guy and I have several kinks which drive me wild in bed. I'd like to date a straight girl who has similar kinks which drive her wild in bed. But I don't want to get into fetish lifestyles or anything extreme (unfortunately kink owners tend to get polarized into one big group of "alternative people" who dress in rubber and go to subterranean bondage clubs every week) - I just want a regularish relationship with some special orders in the bedroom. How do I do this? [more inside]
posted on Mar 2, 2008 - 18 answers

Why does the law have a problem with sex with a bicycle? [more inside]
posted on Nov 15, 2007 - 21 answers

Where can I find therapy which will allow me to understand / cope with / overcome a fetish? [more inside]
posted on Nov 1, 2007 - 25 answers

Do I have a (sexual) kink? Should I have a kink? If I do have a kink, how do I discover it? [more inside]
posted on May 31, 2007 - 27 answers

Ugliness as a fetish on the Internet - resources? websites? chat? [more inside]
posted on May 9, 2007 - 10 answers

Seeking a specific fetish story, published on the web in the mid 90s or earlier, that had to do with a heat fetish (being heated to extreme temperatures as sexually arousing). I know it's a long shot but this story made such an impression on me and I can't find it again. [more inside]
posted on Mar 26, 2007 - 3 answers

The Burquini thread got me to thinking about fetishes among Muslims. There is [more inside]
posted on Jan 12, 2007 - 35 answers

Selling used, ahem, clothing online. [more inside]
posted on Jun 6, 2006 - 8 answers

FetishFilter: can a person overcome a dangerous or detrimental sexual fetish? or any fetish for that matter?
posted on May 29, 2006 - 16 answers

What was my friend's "most disturbing movie ever seen?" [more inside]
posted on Jan 29, 2006 - 37 answers

BSDMFilter : Is it true that there are far more male bottoms then there are female tops? [more inside]
posted on Jan 20, 2006 - 14 answers

I think people would pay to watch me do (tame) stuff on the internet, but getting from that idea to the whole moving forward, I need help. [more inside]
posted on Jan 2, 2006 - 18 answers

Are you attracted to people of races different from your own? [more inside]
posted on Jun 3, 2005 - 85 answers

Help me have sex with my girlfriend. [more inside]
posted on May 5, 2005 - 44 answers

So has anyone tried to explain sexual kinks and fetishes? I don't mean in a cataloguing sense, but in the same sense that an evolutionary biologist explains a fish's tail shape. Where it came from, what purposes it serves, that sort of thing.
posted on Mar 5, 2005 - 29 answers

So I was looking at the dirty ads in the back of the weekly paper, and there was one for "different interests" including "BDSM, golden showers, young/old, and interracial." Are the latter two really on par with the former in terms of perceived deviancy?
posted on Dec 5, 2004 - 24 answers

What constitutes "mainstream" with regards to fetishes? [MI]
posted on Nov 18, 2004 - 40 answers