Help me find music about sexin' up Superheroes! I'm running an event based on Yoe's "Secret Identity" and I need background music that references a bunch of things and/.or sounds like something The Silk Specter would enjoy. [more inside]
posted by The Whelk on Nov 2, 2009 - 25 answers

Looking for an original costume idea for Halloween at a BDSM club. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 17, 2009 - 17 answers

Fetishes and relationships: Help me find objective, balanced, third-party information for my girlfriend. [more inside]
posted by zeek321 on Aug 2, 2009 - 11 answers

Catsuit: how/where to buy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 28, 2009 - 15 answers

It seems like the only thing that can get me off is extremely unpleasant written erotica (details inside, to keep the front page clean). Do I have a problem? Should I see a therapist? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 30, 2009 - 47 answers

NSFW: My boyfriend and I (a woman) have explored many sexual fantasies together - but how should I respond to his desire for a blumpy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 2, 2009 - 33 answers

KinkFilter: Is there currently any sociological research on sexual kinks, specifically long-term BDSM relationships? My friend and I were talking a couple days ago, and we were wondering if D/s dynamics were more common among certain demographics (i.e., college-educated, middle class, particular ethnic groups, certain religions, etc.), and I decided that MeFi might know if anyone was publishing on this stuff.
posted by aliceinreality on Nov 26, 2008 - 14 answers

Some of the disciplinary acts I endured as a child and teenager have spilled over into my adult sex life. Is this a healthy thing to encourage, or should I avoid these acts altogether? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 31, 2008 - 16 answers

A potential romantic partner has a very specific phobia. As luck would have it, it happens to be pretty much the exact thing that is my very private fetish. I have never shared it with anyone and don't plan to share it with anyone. Are we doomed, or could we somehow make this work to our advantage? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 16, 2008 - 31 answers

What is the minimum acceptable dress code for male Doms who want to go public? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 18, 2008 - 12 answers

I was seeing a sex therapist for about a year. We had a little tiff and now I don't go there anymore. I could still use the therapy though. Should I forgive and forget or are there more thera-fish in the sea? (Potentially NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 2, 2008 - 22 answers

I'm a straight guy and I have several kinks which drive me wild in bed. I'd like to date a straight girl who has similar kinks which drive her wild in bed. But I don't want to get into fetish lifestyles or anything extreme (unfortunately kink owners tend to get polarized into one big group of "alternative people" who dress in rubber and go to subterranean bondage clubs every week) - I just want a regularish relationship with some special orders in the bedroom. How do I do this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 2, 2008 - 18 answers

Why does the law have a problem with sex with a bicycle? [more inside]
posted by popcassady on Nov 15, 2007 - 21 answers

Where can I find therapy which will allow me to understand / cope with / overcome a fetish? [more inside]
posted by ninepin on Nov 1, 2007 - 25 answers

Do I have a (sexual) kink? Should I have a kink? If I do have a kink, how do I discover it? [more inside]
posted by Ethereal Bligh on May 31, 2007 - 27 answers

Ugliness as a fetish on the Internet - resources? websites? chat? [more inside]
posted by stinkycheese on May 9, 2007 - 10 answers

Seeking a specific fetish story, published on the web in the mid 90s or earlier, that had to do with a heat fetish (being heated to extreme temperatures as sexually arousing). I know it's a long shot but this story made such an impression on me and I can't find it again. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 26, 2007 - 3 answers

The Burquini thread got me to thinking about fetishes among Muslims. There is [more inside]
posted by Ynoxas on Jan 12, 2007 - 35 answers

Selling used, ahem, clothing online. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 6, 2006 - 8 answers

FetishFilter: can a person overcome a dangerous or detrimental sexual fetish? or any fetish for that matter?
posted by brandz on May 29, 2006 - 16 answers

What was my friend's "most disturbing movie ever seen?" [more inside]
posted by justkevin on Jan 29, 2006 - 37 answers

BSDMFilter : Is it true that there are far more male bottoms then there are female tops? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 20, 2006 - 14 answers

I think people would pay to watch me do (tame) stuff on the internet, but getting from that idea to the whole moving forward, I need help. [more inside]
posted by bilabial on Jan 2, 2006 - 18 answers

Are you attracted to people of races different from your own? [more inside]
posted by Big Fat Tycoon on Jun 3, 2005 - 85 answers

Help me have sex with my girlfriend. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 5, 2005 - 44 answers

So has anyone tried to explain sexual kinks and fetishes? I don't mean in a cataloguing sense, but in the same sense that an evolutionary biologist explains a fish's tail shape. Where it came from, what purposes it serves, that sort of thing.
posted by kavasa on Mar 5, 2005 - 29 answers

So I was looking at the dirty ads in the back of the weekly paper, and there was one for "different interests" including "BDSM, golden showers, young/old, and interracial." Are the latter two really on par with the former in terms of perceived deviancy? [more inside]
posted by dame on Dec 5, 2004 - 23 answers

What constitutes "mainstream" with regards to fetishes? [MI] [more inside]
posted by billybunny on Nov 18, 2004 - 39 answers