My boyfriend has been sneaking porn into bed to secretly look at while having sex with me (pictures on cell phone while behind me). He has been doing this for a year. How do I deal with my resulting body issues and how do we repair intimacy? [more inside]
posted by cakebatter on Aug 31, 2012 - 94 answers

Pro-pornography writings by feminists? [more inside]
posted by kingjoeshmoe on Apr 5, 2007 - 36 answers

I'm female, sex-positive, and a feminist. Help me deal with my residual issues about porn. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 11, 2005 - 29 answers

I have some honest questions about porn, inspired by the recent Suicide Girls brouhaha.

PLEASE: CIVIL DISCUSSION AND NO FLAMES! CAN WE DO THAT? WE CAN, RIGHT? Anyone can state their own opinion or knowledge without attacking someone else's contradictory opinion, eh? Thanks!       *More inside.* [more inside]
posted by Shane on Feb 4, 2005 - 85 answers