I am wondering if I should continue a friendship with a woman I met on our old job almost 20 years ago. Some background: we're both in our 40's, married, and have children. We live in different cities, my family moved from our hometown 14 years ago. I work outside the home, she is a sahm since she had her first child. We have corresponded mostly by e-mail, facebook, text message over the years. When we both worked we would literally "talk" via e-mail the entire day. We have been there for each other through some really serious stuff, i.e. marital problems, deaths, pregnancies, illnesses.
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posted by getyourlife
on Apr 27, 2013 -
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What can I do, as a mid-twenties female, to ensure my reproductive organs will be as healthy as possible by the time I want kids? There is also history of problems in my family.
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posted by ramenopres
on Feb 3, 2013 -
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My "ovaries are polycystic, but this is not a significant pathological process" -what?
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posted by jrobin276
on Oct 17, 2012 -
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Romantic song sung by female singer, with lyrics like, "Why do I need stars when I have you"?
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posted by catburger
on Sep 28, 2012 -
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Try as I might, I can only think of one fantasy novel that I've ever (*ever*) read that had a girl as the main character. Can you suggest some for my 8yo daughter?
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posted by nonspecialist
on Sep 1, 2012 -
90 answers
Enlighten me on current state of the art thinking, discourse and vocabulary around gender politics please. Terminally unique details inside.
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posted by infini
on Aug 22, 2012 -
31 answers
Graduating with an IT degree at 31 - how to be attractive to employers, please?
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posted by Chorus
on Jun 14, 2012 -
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Can you help me show a friend that plenty of people find love after 35? She is afraid that no one will want a relationship with a woman who is single at 35.
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posted by persephone's rant
on May 27, 2012 -
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What is the poem about branches of a tree, i.e. choices in life, withering when the narrator can't bring herself to pick one?
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posted by ramenopres
on Jul 18, 2011 -
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NPRfilter: Female singer (from the 50s?) mentioned on NPR in the last week. She was characterized by the music critic as never overdoing vocal tricks, sining minimally and "just the right amount". The singing sample had very little musical backing. She retired early at the height of her popularity after getting sick of the music business.
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posted by benzenedream
on Dec 16, 2010 -
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Better late than never? I just finished my bi-annual Personal Fitness Assessment for the military and really need a "game plan" for getting a better passing score next spring.
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posted by DisreputableDog
on Oct 21, 2010 -
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For women who are over 50 years old. What advice would you give your 40 year old self?
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posted by kerby
on Aug 18, 2009 -
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How do I deal with a coworker who hangs out with a close friend of mine that I introduced and cuts me out of their meetings?
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posted by eskers
on Mar 14, 2009 -
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