I have been dating someone for two weeks, a guy I had a crush on in my writing class. For some reason as I get to know him he's a bit different than I expected. I feel something for him, but it's not a mind-boggling attraction. Now I wonder if it's enough and if it will develop?
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posted by anonymous
on May 11, 2013 -
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I have feelings for another woman that I have no intention of ever acting on, and my current relationship seems doomed because of it. Help.
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posted by zeek321
on Mar 8, 2013 -
78 answers
I started having feelings for my good friend and mustered up the courage to tell him, but he says he doesn't feel the same way, yet still wants to remain close friends. I'm not happy with that. How do I get out of the friend zone? Or should I just get over it?
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posted by impactsmoothie
on Aug 13, 2012 -
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How do I approach a castmate I've developed feelings for? We've been working on a show together for about a month, and I've developed an attraction to him. I immediately determined I should wait until the show closed to make any obvious moves, but I'm not sure how to do it.
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posted by lemoncakeisalie
on Jul 21, 2012 -
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What can I do to make my geographically-distant fiancee feel more emotionally close to me?
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posted by Scientist
on Jul 21, 2012 -
16 answers
How does one know that they are feeling "lonely" vs "alone"? Have you encountered both and can you share how you overcame these feelings, if at all?
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posted by xm
on Jun 12, 2012 -
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I'm having a lot of trouble identifying the emotions I'm feeling and why. What techniques can I use to work through this?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 20, 2012 -
16 answers
I thought I had forgiven my friend, but whenever it comes up I am disturbed by our differing accounts of the same events. Why does this bother me so much? How can I truly forgive her?
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posted by abirdinthehand
on Nov 18, 2011 -
32 answers
How should I have reacted to being called ugly in the street, in order to feel better now? What can I do now in order to feel better about it?
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posted by toenail
on Nov 13, 2011 -
67 answers
How can I be more mindful and "in touch" with my feelings, and how can I articulate those feelings using words for other people?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 6, 2011 -
12 answers
Question for men: Which books or movies have resonated with your private inner thoughts or feelings?
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posted by Ashley801
on Jun 20, 2011 -
94 answers
Sometimes some people tell me that I think too much and that I over think things. Is there a way that I can become more of a feeling person and less of a thinking person?
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posted by antgly
on Feb 20, 2011 -
20 answers
I would like the ability to write an essay or piece of fiction that can make many readers cry.
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posted by serazin
on Jul 23, 2010 -
50 answers
My partner has a hobby/interest that is important to him--similar to music or art, it's something that he occasionally shares the labors of his love with the public. The problem? I'm not crazy about these particular creative fruits. Am I just being too snobby?
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posted by leemleem
on Jun 9, 2010 -
23 answers
I am looking for advice about or stories of coming to terms with submissive feelings in bed. I'm a lady in my mid 20s and I like dudes.
I've seen a few questions like
this one and
this one, from the perspective of guys who want to be more dominant with their girls, but are finding it hard to get in the head-space. I'm interested in the opposite angle.
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posted by anonymous
on May 21, 2010 -
35 answers
I feel completely different mentally from 2 years ago. Help me reverse it (if possible). Kinda long...
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 8, 2010 -
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Are our feelings/emotions (love, anger, lust, sadness, etc.) a result of chemical reactions that take place in our body? Or do chemical reactions occur as a result of our emotional state? What comes first?
posted by murtagh
on Mar 19, 2010 -
40 answers
Insight, advice, perspective required for relationship dramas/attempt to become emotionally unstuck (longggggg)
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 16, 2010 -
12 answers
What are the most basic feelings, from which all others are composed? By this I mean that some feelings are combinations of other feelings (e.g., melancholy is a combination of sadness, thoughtfulness, listlessness, etc.), whereas others are unrelated (if you feel loving, you don't feel angry, for instance). What a smallest collection of feelings which could be combined to create all possible feelings? Has this been studied? Or is the premise false?
posted by jewzilla
on Nov 21, 2009 -
24 answers
Am I that stereotypical "afraid to commit" male, or am I just being cautious about a relationship I care about?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 18, 2009 -
28 answers
How can I retake control of my life and achieve my hopes and dreams with a clean slate?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 12, 2009 -
26 answers
Is there a word for: expecting to feel grief or ache of conscience and then not feeling it?
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posted by coizero
on Jan 23, 2008 -
22 answers
Is there a word for when you appreciate the thought put into something (a gift, a gesture) but dislike the thing itself?
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posted by bondcliff
on Nov 27, 2007 -
22 answers