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De profundis clamavi ad te

Ghosts-of-relationships-past-filter: How do I forget an old girlfriend, years gone by? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 11, 2010 - 20 answers

Honda Accord Throwdown

Should we take the Accord LX, or the Accord EX? [more inside]
posted by SlyBevel on May 25, 2010 - 25 answers

Can I get my money back?

How do I approach the prickly subject of money owed to me with someone who doesn't want to have anything to do with me? A couple of years ago I was heavily involved in a "I'm in love with my best friend but she doesn't love me" scenario and I lent her some money. We now don't talk, I'm in a new, great relationship but she hasn't paid me the money. What are the most effective tactics to get it back? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 16, 2010 - 25 answers

If I send this voicemail to her new SO, what are the possible outcomes? Is it wrong to do this?

If I send this voicemail to her new SO, what are the possible outcomes? Is it wrong to do this? [more inside]
posted by talljamal on Apr 20, 2010 - 60 answers

evangelical ex married young

Why am I so bothered about my evangelical ex getting married young? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 4, 2010 - 26 answers

Help me stop thinking about their exes?

How do I get over the difference in our levels of experience with respect to relationships? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 3, 2010 - 9 answers

Doomed?

Is this relationship doomed? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 11, 2010 - 59 answers

How do I undo a breakup?

I broke up with my (now ex) girlfriend five months ago. (The breakup surprised her) She went back with the b/f she had before me one or two months after our breakup; if I have the time line right she has now been with her current b/f for about three to four months. I'm still in love with this girl and regret not giving our three month relationship more time before I broke things off... How do I contact her to tell her this and what do I say? Looking for success stories... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 22, 2010 - 38 answers

Round Two, this time with consideration

Dated my ex for a year, split up for 1.5 years. Recent developments re-awakened my feelings. How to explore this while being considerate to him and our friendship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 5, 2010 - 10 answers

Wait, what, we're back together now?!

Getting back together with an ex-girlfriend while living long distance: is this a tenable situation? Have you successfully mended a relationship with "interesting" history under difficult circumstances? (yes, much more inside - it is a relaxnFilter question, folks) [more inside]
posted by Gaeacon on Feb 4, 2010 - 14 answers

Cutting contact with an Ex from the same friendship group.

Ex-Relationship Filter: What's the best way to cut contact with an Ex, when you have got friends in common. [more inside]
posted by 92_elements on Jan 31, 2010 - 11 answers

The one that got away?

How on earth can this work out alright? [more inside]
posted by bookgirl18 on Jan 11, 2010 - 19 answers

Breakup = :-(

Help me cope with my loneliness and pain a month after getting dumped. [more inside]
posted by mesha steele on Dec 25, 2009 - 40 answers

Teaching an old dog new tricks...that I learned from another dog.

How can I teach my ex what I've learned while we were apart? [more inside]
posted by blackcatcuriouser on Dec 15, 2009 - 16 answers

How to mend a broken heart

HeartbreakFilter: Help me come to terms with the end of my relationship and quit being in denial. [more inside]
posted by mesha steele on Dec 1, 2009 - 24 answers

Please get out of my dreams!

Help me stop dreaming about my Ex! [more inside]
posted by MayNicholas on Nov 30, 2009 - 29 answers

I don't really know why this has to be awkward.

College freshman drama: After knowing A. for a week, I dated him for two; I was the one who broke it off. A month later, I started dating D. It's been three weeks since that started and things have been fantastic, except A. still refuses to talk to either one of us. This is awkward because we all live in the same dorm. Is there anything I can do to make things smoother? [more inside]
posted by flawsekno on Nov 24, 2009 - 36 answers

Am I the dick in this situation?

A friend of mine is currently pretty pissed at me because I'm about to hang out with a girl that's friends with his ex's sister. In his mind it's only a matter of time before I'm hanging out with his ex too. Is he being an irrational dick, or will continuing to hang out with this girl only result in me getting a taste of my own dick medicine? [more inside]
posted by Venadium on Nov 4, 2009 - 34 answers

Sex with an ex?

I'd like to hear stories or comments from others who have slept with their exes. [more inside]
posted by bananaskin on Oct 17, 2009 - 28 answers

My boyfriend has been doing lunch with the ex and not telling me about it.

I found out my boyfriend sometimes goes out to lunch with his ex, and he doesn't tell me about it. I feel this might be a red flag, not necessarily because of the specific situation, but because it shows he is perfectly capable of lying, even if by omission. Please help me gain some perspective. [more inside]
posted by neblina_matinal on Sep 10, 2009 - 52 answers

My friend has a persistent stalker who is not getting the message.

My friend has a persistent stalker who is not getting the message. Help us get rid of him. [more inside]
posted by Optimus Chyme on Jul 14, 2009 - 43 answers

Meeting the ex?

Tips for meeting the ex girlfriend? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 30, 2009 - 20 answers

How to stop wanting my ex back?

How can I stop viewing my ex with rose-colored glasses? Everyone thinks he was a bad boyfriend except me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 8, 2009 - 24 answers

Help me help him . . . before I lose my mind

Help me help him . . . be a better boyfriend. Specifically, looking for book recommendations to help him understand his 'role' as boyfriend. [more inside]
posted by lblair on Apr 12, 2009 - 59 answers

Axe the ex?

What to do with pictures of exes? [more inside]
posted by cachondeo45 on Mar 29, 2009 - 34 answers

Someone Else Took My Road Not Taken...

I think my head knows the answer to this already, my heart just needs to hear a couple other people saying the same thing... I just found out that an ex is not only with a new girlfriend, but that they're moving in together. And some of the time frame sounds really similar to what he and I went through, except I made a different choice -- and now I'm wondering if I actually made the wrong choice. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 1, 2009 - 31 answers

The exgf wants pics of when we were together, what do I do?

So the ex-gf wants the pictures from when we were together, what do I do? [more inside]
posted by althanis on Feb 26, 2009 - 92 answers

lunch with the ex ...good idea?

I've just accepted to go for lunch with my ex-girlfriend. I called her a couple of weeks ago to let her know that I still some of her belongings that I'd like to give back to her - and while she's emailed, called and texted me since then to meet up I've declined to scheduling issues. I'm meeting her tomorrow. And now I'm beginning to question if the lunch part was prudent on my part. I've just really tried to live my life since we split in such a way that does not constitute any element of her ...and I'm proud to say I've done that. I've no more feelings left for her. Just respect, great memories and the thoughts of what 'could have been'. That's it.
posted by sniperantics on Feb 12, 2009 - 15 answers

Since feeling is first: please give shape to this nebulous emotion attached to my ex getting married.

The syntax of things: what is this emotion? [more inside]
posted by December on Feb 4, 2009 - 14 answers

How can I get my ex to leave me alone?

My ex is still contacting me and begging for another chance more than a year after the breakup. A restraining order is apparently not an option. I can't become unreachable. What can I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 21, 2009 - 44 answers

How do I deal with a vengeful ex?

I don't know how to deal with my boyfriend intimidating me and making it impossible for me to move out my things. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 13, 2009 - 49 answers

Ex what?

Can someone explain a passage/plot point in Aravind Adiga's "The White Tiger?" (Warning: spoilers!) [more inside]
posted by M.C. Lo-Carb! on Jan 2, 2009 - 3 answers

How can I stop feeling resentment toward my ex?

I'm troubled by unresolved ex issues. How can I move on from these feelings of resentment? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 26, 2008 - 32 answers

Should I ignore my ex friend with Benefits Birthday tomorrow?

Should I ignore my Ex - Friend with Benefits Birthday tomorrow? And how speak to him after that after that? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 6, 2008 - 12 answers

Should I be more supportive to an ex?

Am I wrong for not being supportive to an ex? [more inside]
posted by althanis on Sep 26, 2008 - 41 answers

What to do when you have left someone shortly before an anniversary and birthday....?

Two weeks after my girlfriend treated me to the most thoughtfully-indulgent birthday weekend imaginable, I broke up with her. Just a week has passed since we went our separate ways, but that means two weeks until what would have been our three-year anniversary and three weeks until her birthday, upon which I would otherwise be reciprocating her generosity. Is there anything I can do or say or give to mark the occasion appropriately? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 1, 2008 - 45 answers

The Ex-Files

How do continuing relationships with opposite sex friends (and some former lovers) affect one's primary relationship? Can these relationships negatively impact the SO relationship even though there is no desire on either SO's part to cheat? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 24, 2008 - 24 answers

Feeling like a rebound..

In love with an ex boyfriend that i am currently dating, but i think he's still in love with his other ex gf, i feel like a rebound, should i stay or should i go? Help!! [more inside]
posted by SummerLove on Jun 25, 2008 - 22 answers

Why does the posse show up on a date?

Why does she invite her ex or friends to everything we do? What's my next move? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 16, 2008 - 44 answers

Leave me alone!

Ex-boyfriend mails crazy letter to my family. Seems to have totally lost it, and concocted a conspiracy theory that they were out to get him, and will somehow end up destroying my life. I. Am. Freaked. Out. Next steps? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 8, 2008 - 23 answers

How do I get a second chance?

Lovelifefilter: I have a chance to reconcile with my ex, how can I not blow it? [more inside]
posted by Sianion on Apr 17, 2008 - 33 answers

It's not that I don't trust you... I just don't trust HER.

To what extent could sleeping with my ex-girlfriend, who is now very firmly just a friend, jeopardize the acceptability/reasonability of said relationship to any future potential girlfriends? [more inside]
posted by Annon E Moose on Mar 31, 2008 - 52 answers

ex girlfriend past memories nostalgia

When will I stop thinking about my ex? She's starting to pop up in my cavernous head again. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 27, 2008 - 13 answers

My scientific nemesis

I'm a scientist. My ex is a scientist. We study similar things, and their name is starting to turn up in my literature searches. What to do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 16, 2008 - 27 answers

Can I still hang out with my best friend even though I'm in love with him?

Can I still hang out with my best friend even though I'm in love with him? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 3, 2008 - 35 answers

People are not Pokemon. Stop trying to keep them all.

How can I reign in jealousy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 25, 2008 - 9 answers

How do you politely tell an ex that they are invited to your parent's visitation, but not the funeral?

How do you politely tell an ex that they are invited to your parent's visitation, but not the funeral? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 19, 2007 - 18 answers

Needed: Change Tray for 2008 Accord

Needed: Change Tray for 2008 Accord LX - Parts guys don't know what I'm talking about. [more inside]
posted by SlyBevel on Dec 19, 2007 - 11 answers

Asking the ex for another try?

What's the best way to approach an ex about getting back together? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 2, 2007 - 17 answers

Sexy ex sabotage

How to tolerate his flirtatious ex? (slightly NSFW) [more inside]
posted by idle on Dec 2, 2007 - 42 answers

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