How do I stop thinking about a jerky ex-boyfriend now that I'm with someone really great?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 5, 2007 -
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Very touchy situation with my ex almost but not quite boyfriend. Any and all insight appreciated.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 29, 2007 -
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This is very complicated so get comfortable....I'm a girl of 24 and I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years in october to be with a woman.
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posted by shitontheradio
on Jun 12, 2007 -
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Loved him, resented him, detached from him, hated him, but I'm back to loving him: How to re-ex someone you loved, lost, and loved again?
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posted by anonymous
on May 12, 2007 -
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Friends' exes are off-limits, right? Aren't you supposed to clear it with your friend before you make a move on his ex?
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posted by emelenjr
on Oct 17, 2006 -
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LongDistanceFilter: Ok, well technically we're broken up but its purely for strategic reasons. But we both believe that we both have serious long term potencial, the only problem is that circumstances are against us.
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posted by apfel
on Sep 24, 2006 -
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To what extent is it okay/normal to have feelings for one's ex? What if you're in a new, very serious, relationship?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 18, 2006 -
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My ex-"soulmate" is coming to my town by next weekend, and asked me to meet. Should I?
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posted by ende-neu
on Aug 15, 2006 -
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Has anyone here looked into the best priced shipping options at their work? Our office seems to ship nearly 85% UPS and I was wondering if anyone has opted for another carrier that was as reliable and was cheaper?
posted by keep it tight
on Nov 7, 2005 -
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How do you ween yourself from fantasizing about an ex? I'm a twentysomething female who was in a long distance, long term (4+ years) relationship that recently went sour. Basically, the biggest problem had to do with sex (I still wanted my partner but he apparently lost interest in me physically). Now, I'm good when it comes to making a clean break in the manifested-social-interaction sense; I don't stalk or google exes or call them up randomly just to be "friends" or initiate contact ever after break ups. But in this case, I can't stop myself from wanting this person in my head. When I daydream/fantasize sexually, he is always my partner and everything is what I wished it had been but wasn't in the last month or so of our relationship. I would prefer it if people offered me constructive ways to stop doing this rather than telling me I should just accept it--it is painful for me and I just want to move on through and through, inside and out. Dating (rebounding to forget him) isn't really the answer either--I have made a well-thought-out decision to remain single for a while as I get myself together on my own terms. I'm hoping there's something besides just the whole "time heals all wounds" adage that can help me get through this.
posted by anonymous
on Nov 8, 2004 -
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