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Was this (ex)relationship problem properly handled?

Recently, I said some harsh things to an ex whom until recently I had remained very good friends with. These things had been boiling inside me for months and I had to say them at this point. However, ever since I said them, she has disappeared from her online profiles (which she updated multiple times every day), I have no way of contacting her, and I'm worried. Obviously there's a lot going on, and some of it may be serious. [more inside]
posted by marriedtotacos on Dec 18, 2011 - 33 answers

When is it okay to keep the baggage in the bag?

Should I tell my (potential) new boyfriend about my marriage and divorce? Or can I keep this secret like I want to? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 28, 2011 - 53 answers

Should I file a restraining order against my ex?

Considering a restraining order against an ex, but I have a lot of questions about the logistics and just generally whether it's going to make the situation better or worse. For example, I don't think he knows where I live- so how would it even work? Many more questions inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 26, 2011 - 23 answers

Must I go to this wedding?

No seriously, do I reaaaaally have to go to this wedding? [more inside]
posted by bookgirl18 on Nov 6, 2011 - 15 answers

Bad idea to contact an ex from another lifetime?

This is yet another contacting-one’s-ex question. I will try to avoid cliches as much as possible and will do my best to jump to the marrow of this somewhat complicated tale. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 2, 2011 - 23 answers

Why is my ex stuttering?

My ex has developed stuttering when he talks to me. Am I being played? Is there such a thing as emotionally-caused stuttering? [more inside]
posted by b33j on Oct 18, 2011 - 19 answers

About those "reformed" ex-boyfriends and girlfriends..

Reformed exes- "suck it and see", or leave it alone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 16, 2011 - 22 answers

time heals all wounds, but I don't have all fucking day

How do you get over someone when time is really, really not working? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 10, 2011 - 35 answers

I need advice on preparing for fallout.

Divorce & Custody Filter: I think my husband is trying to buy my daughter's affection. What can I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 26, 2011 - 27 answers

Meetup with Ex Gone Wrong

Met up with ex-girlfriend six months after the break-up. Things went well, and then they didn't. Am blaming myself a lot and need to know what, if I anything, I can do. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 11, 2011 - 31 answers

How do I tell my blog readers that we've broken up?

I have a sort of popular blog and I occasionally blogged about my relationship with another blogger. We've broken up. How do I handle it? [more inside]
posted by idle on Sep 6, 2011 - 15 answers

Schroedinger's ex: I'm over him. I'm not over him.

I'm having a difficult time trying to mentally process an ex's recent wedding because I'm hung up on the sex/religion aspect of it all. I need advice on how to stop thinking about him. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 21, 2011 - 33 answers

Should I invite the ex?

Should I invite my friend's ex to a party I am throwing at his house? [more inside]
posted by amodelcitizen on Aug 8, 2011 - 25 answers

Can I (or how can I) not act all heartbroken when I AM?

Should I see my ex-boyfriend (who has a girlfriend, and who I'm still in love with) when I'm in his city in September? And if I do... how? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 4, 2011 - 50 answers

Overpaid child support, now what?

Impact on child of lowering child support? Shot Version: Have been overpaying $1k per month on child support, I'm owed a credit. Will my child hate me if I lower the support and try to take the credit? [more inside]
posted by MeatFilter on Jul 31, 2011 - 32 answers

You're my favorite person... too bad you're a little nutso

How often is it amazing? [more inside]
posted by queens86 on Jul 28, 2011 - 40 answers

Should I be okay with my gf's ex moving in?

Relationshipfilter: Should I be okay with my girlfriend's ex move into her/her moms's house? [more inside]
posted by trogdole on Jul 26, 2011 - 55 answers

I'm not over her; help me deal with her presence.

I've accepted that I likely won't be completely over my ex until after we both graduate. Considering that, how can I deal with being around her? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 24, 2011 - 12 answers

goodbye my friend

How do I gain closure on this lost friendship? [more inside]
posted by whalebreath on Jul 5, 2011 - 18 answers

Responding to an ex who's broken with reality

Utterly delusional letter sent from my ex to my current partner (stating I belong with the ex, am being kept from him, and am currently in love with him). Here is our plan; what do you think? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2011 - 58 answers

I need to stop thinking about my boyfriend's abusive ex.

I need to stop thinking about my boyfriend's abusive ex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 4, 2011 - 22 answers

Cordial Exes

The friends of my recent ex-bf sent me an email invite to attend their monthly music jam session. My ex will probably be attending. I want to go, but I also don't want to make things awkward. [more inside]
posted by chara on Apr 14, 2011 - 21 answers

It's a small world, even in the big city

I just found out a guy I have been corresponding with on OKC works at the same law firm as my ex. The new guy seems like someone I might want to get to know. How should I handle this situation? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 3, 2011 - 15 answers

I'm ready to be over my ex. What's taking so long?!

The ex and I broke up a year ago. I've been seeing someone else and am extremely happy, but it still bothers me that the ex's new relationship is going well. I don't understand why he's treating this other person so well when he treated me so poorly. [more inside]
posted by Pericardium on Mar 30, 2011 - 45 answers

Can I ask an ex to return my gift?

How do I ask for my gift back? Complicated relationship back story inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 11, 2011 - 24 answers

Can I compete with his ex girlfriend?

Can I compete with the ex? [more inside]
posted by queens86 on Feb 26, 2011 - 37 answers

Can I stop thinking mean thoughts without saying them?

I keep writing devastating (and true!) letters to her in my head. This makes me sad, because I don't actually want to be mean to her. I want to stop being sad. [more inside]
posted by peripatetic007 on Feb 4, 2011 - 35 answers

How should I respond to my ex?

How should I respond to my ex's request for a domain name I purchased when we were together? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 12, 2011 - 53 answers

Take things slow? How do people do that?

Question about getting back together with an ex, and how to take things slow [more inside]
posted by mesha steele on Jan 12, 2011 - 25 answers

How to deal with confusion related to important things?

An ex, mixed signals, and dangerous times. How do I proceed? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 22, 2010 - 14 answers

Topless pics damage control

My ex-fiance has topless photos of me, we are still on good terms but I'm not sure how to proceed. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 18, 2010 - 22 answers

I found pictures of

I was looking through the pictures on my BF's iPhone this morning, and I found a few pictures of his ex girlfriend that he had saved recently. He claims that he has no feelings for her. Should I be worried? [more inside]
posted by maggymay on Dec 15, 2010 - 56 answers


How can I enjoy things that are tainted with memories of my ex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 12, 2010 - 23 answers

I don't want to be a crazy ex-girlfriend.

How do I stop my obsession of stalking/thinking of my ex so that I can start liking myself again? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 28, 2010 - 25 answers

Jekyll and Hyde

How do I cope with an ex that wasn't who I thought they were? [more inside]
posted by showmetheway on Nov 23, 2010 - 22 answers

Better late than never? Or just never?

Should I return possibly valuable stuff to ex - decades later? If so, how? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 16, 2010 - 24 answers

How much do I owe a soon-to-be-ex? I want to be a good guy but not a sucker

How much do I owe a soon-to-be-ex? I want to be good; I want to be decent; I want to be nice. I don't want to be taken advantage of, consciously or not. [more inside]
posted by peripatetic007 on Nov 6, 2010 - 38 answers

Sweet Guy or Crazy Person?

I am currently dating an ex, and we've been back together for about a month now. Everything is going really well, except for the fact that I'm starting to get a little freaked out about his revelation that he thinks I'm his soul mate and that he never got over me from the last time around. Does this guy sound sweet and sincere or potentially unbalanced? [more inside]
posted by mudlark on Oct 22, 2010 - 49 answers

To tell or not to tell: that is the beanplating question.

Would you want to know if your partner talks to their ex regularly? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 22, 2010 - 42 answers

Grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change!

How do I stop resenting my girlfriend's behaviour towards her ex? [more inside]
posted by ohsnapdragon on Oct 14, 2010 - 23 answers

Best way to lose an old tool?

I think my sister's ex is stalking her. Do people who work at collections agencies use fake names, and would they be able to stalk people that way? If so, what can I do? [more inside]
posted by bolognius maximus on Oct 3, 2010 - 28 answers

Should I contact my ex-boyfriend for help with buying a car?

I’m looking to buy my first (used) car, but feeling kind of overwhelmed by the process. I don’t really have anyone in my life who is car-savvy. Is it a bad idea to ask my ex for advice or help? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 24, 2010 - 11 answers

The only thing harder than breaking up

Working with an ex. We just got out of each other's space. Now our only point of interaction is work. It is awkward and uncomfortable, not just because of the obvious but also because it seems he's going out of his way to be unpleasant. The job is great, the pay is amazing, and the company is awesome. I've been there for a year. He's been there for a year and three months. Quitting is not an option for either of us. [more inside]
posted by chichimimizu on Sep 21, 2010 - 36 answers

How do I remain friends with my ex when he's with someone else?

How do you keep your self-esteem level high and your unhappiness level low while remaining friends with your ex who has a new girlfriend? [more inside]
posted by biochemist on Sep 9, 2010 - 44 answers

All i have to do is dream...?

Why do i keep dreaming about my ex even though i'm married? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 8, 2010 - 21 answers

How do I get over this?

How do I get over this? A never-defined relationship and an abrupt end. [more inside]
posted by p1nkdaisy on Aug 16, 2010 - 15 answers

How to be ok with my boyfriend's feelings?

Crazy card alert? Please, help me sort out my relationship, MeFi world! [more inside]
posted by LemonGardot on Jul 6, 2010 - 15 answers

This is me. For me. F*** him!

I don't want to see myself through my ex's eyes anymore. I don't want to compare myself to how I was then, because how I am now is healthy. I don't want to be afraid of my ex seeing what I look like now. Help! (Long) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 6, 2010 - 22 answers

Getting over first love..

Getting over first love, when he needs me more than ever to be supportive. [more inside]
posted by lwclec072 on Jul 5, 2010 - 18 answers

Delayed conflict resolution with an ex.

An old conversation is still bothering me and I'm wondering how to bring it up with with other party, who has been very hostile in the past. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 18, 2010 - 19 answers

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