In love with an ex boyfriend that i am currently dating, but i think he's still in love with his other ex gf, i feel like a rebound, should i stay or should i go? Help!! [more inside]
posted on Jun 25, 2008 - 22 answers

Why does she invite her ex or friends to everything we do? What's my next move? [more inside]
posted on Jun 16, 2008 - 44 answers

Ex-boyfriend mails crazy letter to my family. Seems to have totally lost it, and concocted a conspiracy theory that they were out to get him, and will somehow end up destroying my life. I. Am. Freaked. Out. Next steps? [more inside]
posted on Jun 8, 2008 - 23 answers

Lovelifefilter: I have a chance to reconcile with my ex, how can I not blow it? [more inside]
posted on Apr 17, 2008 - 33 answers

To what extent could sleeping with my ex-girlfriend, who is now very firmly just a friend, jeopardize the acceptability/reasonability of said relationship to any future potential girlfriends? [more inside]
posted on Mar 31, 2008 - 52 answers

When will I stop thinking about my ex? She's starting to pop up in my cavernous head again. [more inside]
posted on Mar 27, 2008 - 13 answers

I'm a scientist. My ex is a scientist. We study similar things, and their name is starting to turn up in my literature searches. What to do? [more inside]
posted on Feb 16, 2008 - 27 answers

Can I still hang out with my best friend even though I'm in love with him? [more inside]
posted on Feb 3, 2008 - 35 answers

How can I reign in jealousy? [more inside]
posted on Jan 25, 2008 - 9 answers

How do you politely tell an ex that they are invited to your parent's visitation, but not the funeral? [more inside]
posted on Dec 19, 2007 - 18 answers

Needed: Change Tray for 2008 Accord LX - Parts guys don't know what I'm talking about. [more inside]
posted on Dec 19, 2007 - 11 answers

What's the best way to approach an ex about getting back together? [more inside]
posted on Dec 2, 2007 - 17 answers

How to tolerate his flirtatious ex? (slightly NSFW) [more inside]
posted on Dec 2, 2007 - 42 answers

My ex-girlfriend humiliated me, now I'm obligated to attend social events with her presence. Avoidance has worked wonders, but I can't keep it up forever. How do I 'move on' or 'just forget that it happened'? [more inside]
posted on Nov 22, 2007 - 54 answers

Lately I have been feeling like I have blown my chance at true love and have been missing an ex. Hard. Problem: we've both moved on to other relationships. Should I make one final grand romantic gesture to my ex? [more inside]
posted on Nov 7, 2007 - 29 answers

I don't want to be the bitch new girlfriend, but I also am upset by traces of his ex. What to do? [more inside]
posted on Oct 31, 2007 - 69 answers

Relationshipfilter: How frequently is too frequently to talk to the ex? [more inside]
posted on Oct 30, 2007 - 45 answers

How do I stop thinking about a jerky ex-boyfriend now that I'm with someone really great? [more inside]
posted on Sep 5, 2007 - 17 answers

Very touchy situation with my ex almost but not quite boyfriend. Any and all insight appreciated. [more inside]
posted on Jun 29, 2007 - 23 answers

This is very complicated so get comfortable....I'm a girl of 24 and I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years in october to be with a woman. [more inside]
posted on Jun 12, 2007 - 22 answers

How to reconcile different relationship ideas? [more inside]
posted on Jun 10, 2007 - 17 answers

How can I stop thinking about my boyfriend's past loves? [more inside]
posted on May 20, 2007 - 32 answers

Loved him, resented him, detached from him, hated him, but I'm back to loving him: How to re-ex someone you loved, lost, and loved again? [more inside]
posted on May 12, 2007 - 13 answers

Why do I continue to have dreams about my ex-boyfriend from 10 years ago? [more inside]
posted on Apr 20, 2007 - 33 answers

Friends' exes are off-limits, right? Aren't you supposed to clear it with your friend before you make a move on his ex? [more inside]
posted on Oct 17, 2006 - 49 answers

LongDistanceFilter: Ok, well technically we're broken up but its purely for strategic reasons. But we both believe that we both have serious long term potencial, the only problem is that circumstances are against us. [more inside]
posted on Sep 24, 2006 - 17 answers

To what extent is it okay/normal to have feelings for one's ex? What if you're in a new, very serious, relationship? [more inside]
posted on Sep 18, 2006 - 20 answers

My ex-"soulmate" is coming to my town by next weekend, and asked me to meet. Should I? [more inside]
posted on Aug 15, 2006 - 22 answers

Is it morally or ethically wrong of me (or just creepy) to read my ex's blog? [more inside]
posted on Aug 9, 2006 - 56 answers

What to do now that the ex is back in town? [more inside]
posted on Mar 31, 2006 - 32 answers

Has anyone here looked into the best priced shipping options at their work? Our office seems to ship nearly 85% UPS and I was wondering if anyone has opted for another carrier that was as reliable and was cheaper?
posted on Nov 7, 2005 - 11 answers

I screwed up a relationship once, and I'm doing it again. Someone stop me. [more inside]
posted on Nov 2, 2005 - 16 answers

How do you ween yourself from fantasizing about an ex? I'm a twentysomething female who was in a long distance, long term (4+ years) relationship that recently went sour. Basically, the biggest problem had to do with sex (I still wanted my partner but he apparently lost interest in me physically). Now, I'm good when it comes to making a clean break in the manifested-social-interaction sense; I don't stalk or google exes or call them up randomly just to be "friends" or initiate contact ever after break ups. But in this case, I can't stop myself from wanting this person in my head. When I daydream/fantasize sexually, he is always my partner and everything is what I wished it had been but wasn't in the last month or so of our relationship. I would prefer it if people offered me constructive ways to stop doing this rather than telling me I should just accept it--it is painful for me and I just want to move on through and through, inside and out. Dating (rebounding to forget him) isn't really the answer either--I have made a well-thought-out decision to remain single for a while as I get myself together on my own terms. I'm hoping there's something besides just the whole "time heals all wounds" adage that can help me get through this.
posted on Nov 8, 2004 - 28 answers