WeddingFilter: Help my girlfriend and I gracefully decline a request to work the reception table. Again. And forevermore. [more inside]
posted on Apr 10, 2007 - 33 answers

Please point me toward resources to help me cope with my family and their responses to my impending (gay) engagement. My Google-fu seems to be failing me. There's more details on my specific situation inside. [more inside]
posted on Apr 3, 2007 - 35 answers

Wedding Etiquettefilter - was I invited or not? what should I do about it? [more inside]
posted on Aug 19, 2006 - 13 answers

Dear Abby what should I do... I’m in the wedding party of a once close friend, but I’m having doubts as to whether or not I should participate. [more inside]
posted on Aug 22, 2005 - 9 answers

Weddingfilter: Church ceremony from 2 to 3pm; reception starting at 7pm, less than a half hour of travel in between. Is it too long to make people wait? Out of towners will have hotels nearby; friends might not really have anywhere to go. [more inside]
posted on Mar 30, 2005 - 30 answers

If you were going to throw out the etiquette books, forget every tradition you've ever learned and try to build an inexpensive, small (30-50 person) wedding from the ground up, what traditions would you absolutely want to hold on to? What would you throw out the door? What would you do to make it less stressful for a couple that doesn't handle crowds well? And if you've got more than a year lead time, when would you even start thinking and worrying about this?
posted on Oct 20, 2004 - 22 answers

Bridesmaid etiquette on gifts - What to do? (more inside)
posted on Apr 18, 2004 - 7 answers