[ethicsfilter] two of my friends are getting it on. one of them has herpes. should I tell the other?
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posted by krautland
on Oct 9, 2008 -
70 answers
I want to travel, but I think doing so by airplane is unethical because of the associated carbon emissions and the inadequacy of 'offset' schemes.
Is it still possible to travel by sea from North America to Europe or Asia? If so, how long does it take, and what are the associated costs?
posted by sindark
on Sep 29, 2008 -
32 answers
I'm creating a basic study guide for the topic of Ethics in Film. I have a basic list compiled. What are films that address a particular moral issue that you feel should be on this list? (Recommendations for a basic text as companion guide would also be appreciated.)
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posted by strangeleftydoublethink
on Sep 29, 2008 -
25 answers
AskMe the Ethicist: how do we divide this plumbing bill among 3 roommates (or am I a jerk for not wanting to split it evenly)
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 14, 2008 -
48 answers
JudgeMe: is it ethical to buy a hard drive enclosure for the express purpose of data recovery and then return the enclosure immediately after the data has been recovered?
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posted by crazycanuck
on Aug 31, 2008 -
34 answers
If you're a straight male college student how do you signal to women of the same age that you're interested in sleeping with them - while avoiding the extremes of coming across as objectifying or amorous?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 25, 2008 -
40 answers
Three years ago Verizon sent my roommate a modem; she not only never used it, she never opened the box. Three months ago my roommate moved to Australia and left lots of stuff behind. Three days ago I found that box, opened it, and found what was in it. Three minutes ago Verizon finally told me they don't want it back.
Ethically and practically -- what should I do with it?
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posted by EmpressCallipygos
on Aug 25, 2008 -
11 answers
What to do when you find out that one of your friends cheated on his girlfriend (who is also a friend?)
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 21, 2008 -
82 answers
Be conservative in your own behavior and liberal in the behavior that you accept from others. Is there a name for this concept?
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posted by LittleMissCranky
on Aug 5, 2008 -
17 answers
Is there any point backing up my DVD collection if I could just download replacements?
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posted by snarfois
on Jun 29, 2008 -
18 answers
I stumbled upon a print of a painting selling online (sold by the artist thru a third party site) which I really love. I’m creative, so rather than buy the small and expensive print, I thought it would be fun for me to paint my own version of it.
What are the ethics/copyright issues of this?...
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posted by catatethebird
on Jun 22, 2008 -
19 answers
"[Companies] have a legal responsibility to make their shareholders lots of money, which means they *MUST* rip you off for as much as they can get away with." Really?
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posted by divabat
on Jun 13, 2008 -
24 answers
I'm in a job offer dilemma. I've verbally accepted an offer that i'm excited about. BUT, a job that I don't hesitate to say would be a dream company for me just had me interview again for one of two positions they are considering me for. Sounds like it is a slam dunk that i would get an offer from DreamCompany but it's the end of their quarter and they are wrangling a few details around, shifting head count, etc and won't have anything firm for a few more days but SortaExcitingCompany needs papers signed TODAY.
Ugh - dilemma..... SortaExcitingCompany does not know anything is up yet. I'm tempted to see about getting a few days extension on the offer but worried about just retracting it all together.
I know everything in the US is "at will" work anyway - but ethics still come into it for me at least.
posted by anonymous
on Jun 2, 2008 -
5 answers
I returned two items to a store and was refunded $37 extra. The refund did go back to my credit card and is on my statement. Will the company notice and take it back?
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posted by jesirose
on May 29, 2008 -
11 answers
Is it ethical to make money subleasing an apartment to others while not living there myself? Does the landlord need to know?
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posted by anonymous
on May 24, 2008 -
18 answers
Is it ethical to fake conversation in your own blog's comments section? I don't mean stirring up controversy for the sake of it or setting up straw-man arguments. I mean chucking some "model" comments on to the end of a batch of posts to let readers know the comments are there and easy to use. As a codicil: Has anyone done this and found that it effectively enticed discussion?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 19, 2008 -
31 answers
What, if anything, should I do about the possibly unethical and definitely scummy behavior of my boss?
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posted by Mimzy
on Mar 3, 2008 -
14 answers
Recently I flew to visit a good friend. I went to help with the baby while her husband was away. When I got there, her husband gave me a check for the amount of my airfare (about $250), stating that they wanted to pay for my fare because "you won't really be having a vacation."
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posted by Shoggoth
on Feb 16, 2008 -
20 answers
Prosecuting someone for a crime that someone has already been convicted of?
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posted by yesno
on Feb 14, 2008 -
13 answers
Please help me find writings about the relationship between men's and women's reproductive rights.
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posted by ssg
on Jan 26, 2008 -
11 answers
Posting this ethics question on behalf for a friend: Friend has been offered two different fellowships and has to choose one. A is worth twice much as B. A good buddy is runner-up for A and does not have any other fellowship options. The buddy has offered to by my friend the difference if the friend takes B so the buddy can get A. So the end result is the friend would officially have fellowship B but cash from his buddy to give him the same as he would have gotten from A while buddy officially gets fellowship A with the net funding equal to B. Does this sound reasonable? ethical?
posted by metahawk
on Jan 20, 2008 -
31 answers
Today at work, a closet was being cleaned out, many items were being tossed in a trash cart. I noticed that a few of these items were unopened, brand new (though out-of-date) items, and out of curiousity, checked to see if they were worth anything. I noticed that a few of them were going for not-insignificant amounts of money on ye olde eBay, and "rescued" them from the trash, thinking about creating a D-I-Y Christmas Bonus out of them by putting them up on eBay. Other co-workers have done similar things, selling a fair amount of old equipment at garage sales, etc, and none of my immediate peers seemed to think anything of it. Mrs. [anonymous], however, seems to feel that it's ethically wrong to do so, and more importantly potentially legally wrong. Does the hivemind have any knowledge of the legal (and/or ethical) implications of this D-I-Y Christmas Bonus? (For reference, we're probably talking $300 total, here.)
posted by anonymous
on Nov 28, 2007 -
31 answers
Bassist buys the tour van then quits the band in the middle of the tour. What's a fair way to distribute the money now that it's over?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 13, 2007 -
15 answers
Someone hit my parked car on Friday night and I know who it is...
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posted by 517
on Nov 5, 2007 -
11 answers
I have a girlfriend, and we've been seeing each other for about 6 months now. The other day, I ran into an old flame I haven't seen, nor had the opportunity to significantly persue something with her (i.e. no sex, foreplay only in the past) because we stopped communication at some point and just lost touch. I'm feeling torn for some reason; I mean, my g/f now is hot, loves me to death, and extremely good to me treatment-wise. Am I just experiencing a classic case of "More-ism?"
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posted by gmodelo
on Oct 8, 2007 -
27 answers
Someone wants to buy a domain name I own that I'm not using. The domain is my last name .com, it's also his last name too.
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posted by Argyle
on Sep 21, 2007 -
39 answers
I would like to know everyone's thoughts on uploading photos to the web. I never thought anything of it myself, but now that I'm on facebook, my worlds are colliding.
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posted by mooza
on Sep 17, 2007 -
14 answers
A customer just placed an order at my website. It's looking like this is a friend I went to school with in the early 90's but lost touch over 10 years ago. I would like to reconnect with him. How do I do that without violating his privacy and/or being creepy?
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posted by SoulOnIce
on Sep 12, 2007 -
22 answers
DoublethinkFilter: Suppose someone had unauthorized access to thousands of random computers around the world. Without doing anything illegal or unethical (besides controlling these computers of course), is there some way they could use these computers for profit without hindering the true owner's ability to operate the computer?
posted by comwiz
on Sep 6, 2007 -
33 answers
Can anyone suggest websites/producers/organizations that will allow me to make buy things (food, gift, etc) in an ethical way?
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posted by sarahkeebs
on Aug 26, 2007 -
3 answers