My parents are pushing 70 and have been married for almost 50 years, and now they're talking about divorce. How can my siblings and I help?
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posted by RingerChopChop
on Nov 15, 2010 -
36 answers
What are some agencies in the Washington DC area, that can provide help with some things around the home (like cooking and laundry) for an elderly man?
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posted by raztaj
on Nov 7, 2010 -
2 answers
How can we get my grandma from overseas to the US as painlessly as possible without spending $$$$$ amount of money?
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posted by joyeuxamelie
on Oct 30, 2010 -
20 answers
Grandmother in a nursing home. Elderly grandfather caring for her and denying help from others. Grandma not getting the care she needs. What can we do?
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posted by blackcatcuriouser
on Oct 29, 2010 -
9 answers
My recently-widowed father would like me to take him to see the Himalayas. What tour operators should we use or avoid and what issues for a 90-year old such as altitude acclimatisation should we be aware of? My dad can walk unaided but not at any great speed or distance, so long treks are out of the question. What road-based routes afford the best views? All travel tips welcome!
posted by cbrody
on Oct 11, 2010 -
11 answers
My mother is suffering from dementia and interaction with her is becoming very difficult. Suggestions or advice please?
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posted by LastOfHisKind
on Oct 3, 2010 -
17 answers
Does this sound like an onset of dementia, panic attack, short term memory issue or Alzheimer's?
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posted by zenpop
on Sep 21, 2010 -
14 answers
What are some every day physical gestures, common behaviors, and/or spoken phrases stereotypically favored by elderly people?
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posted by np312
on Sep 16, 2010 -
50 answers
I don't want my senior citizen parents to die of boredom. Help me keep them busy with stimulating activities, online or otherwise! (I swear I'm not a controlling son. Well, maybe just a bit.)
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posted by teedee2000
on Sep 2, 2010 -
24 answers
How can I get my violent brother out of my mom's senior apartment? Social workers, especially those who work with the elderly, your help is greatly needed.
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posted by The Light Fantastic
on Aug 15, 2010 -
14 answers
Picture phones for the elderly and places to buy them in Los Angles?
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posted by sdis
on Aug 14, 2010 -
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Two weeks ago my 83 year old mother was diagnosed with colon cancer--surgery to remove the right side of her colon is scheduled for this Friday. If anyone here has gone through this type of surgery, what were your experiences during post op and recovery? What can our family do to make Mom's recovery easier?
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posted by I'm Brian and so's my wife!
on Aug 8, 2010 -
6 answers
Best email and task management to communicate and track medication schedule of elderly mother.
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posted by jcbach
on Jul 28, 2010 -
4 answers
Looking for a v.sad story I read on the 'net years ago about a nursing home in Japan that had mannequins of children playing in the grounds.
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posted by uncanny hengeman
on Jul 21, 2010 -
4 answers
Looking for a digital medication reminder with text for my 72 y/o father-in-law that is not an iPhone app. Dream product described inside.
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posted by thinkingwoman
on Jul 20, 2010 -
10 answers
Am looking for an M.D. in Bremerton/Port Orchard WA who specializes in elderly patients.
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posted by mnb64
on Jul 18, 2010 -
3 answers
What resources are available (specifically in the state of Iowa) to assist elderly/disabled persons who require full-time care but lack the funds to be able to afford this on their own?
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posted by khelvan
on Jul 5, 2010 -
12 answers
Help my (elderly) mother take care of her (even more elderly) sister. YANML, and we will be consulting one soon, but in the meantime . . .
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posted by Slugette
on May 30, 2010 -
5 answers
My father recently intimated without saying outright that he was thinking of ending his life.
He's 77, has been living with the after effects of strokes for about 15 years or more and has lost his ability to enjoy pretty much all of his passions.
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posted by anonymous
on May 14, 2010 -
33 answers
Best practices for setting up an accessible litter box cabinet that's easy to maintain for an elderly or disabled person?
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posted by amtho
on May 12, 2010 -
8 answers
Are there any grocery stores or shoppes in Columbus, Ohio that make deliveries? Alternatively, are there any other organizations there that do (free or compensated) grocery delivery services for the elderly?
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posted by Keter
on Mar 10, 2010 -
5 answers
my elderly parents drive. there is a lot of evidence they should no longer be driving. they will not stop driving. what, if anything, can i do?
posted by alcahofa
on Feb 22, 2010 -
28 answers
What are the things I simply
must do now that I am the primary caregiver of a 90 year old woman?
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posted by arniec
on Feb 16, 2010 -
12 answers
Help me find a big digital clock for my wife's grandmother, who is having some temporal issues after pretty major brain surgery...
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posted by gravity
on Feb 13, 2010 -
6 answers
I am looking for feedback on the possibility of creating an elderly memoir blog. A couple of weeks ago my mother’s minister told a story based his father’s reminiscing about the past. The minister fortunately videotaped the conversation with his father so it was saved but he added “many great stories die with the storyteller.” His remarks got me to thinking that many stories and much wisdom from the elderly will be lost if not recorded in some fashion.
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posted by jcbach
on Feb 8, 2010 -
15 answers
I need recommendations for computer games suitable for my mum, who is getting on in years.
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posted by Ritchie
on Feb 6, 2010 -
13 answers
How to help an elderly family friend with homecare, meals, transportation and other general stuff? What services are available in Ontario, Canada and how best do I navigate them?
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posted by yawper
on Dec 1, 2009 -
5 answers
Is there an ultra-simple and bullet proof front end for MS Windows thats suitable for elderly folks?
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posted by jorlando
on Nov 28, 2009 -
7 answers
My grandmother is sharp, independent, and in good health. but she's beginning to need a walker for long periods upright. What gift could help her function better around the house?
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posted by ormondsacker
on Nov 11, 2009 -
21 answers
How do men's patterns of sexual attraction change as they age? That is, are older guys really attracted to older partners, or are they just being polite/settling for what they can get?
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posted by Bardolph
on Sep 25, 2009 -
69 answers
How do I find accountants and financial advisers for my elderly California Mom and her trust?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 12, 2009 -
4 answers
GrandmaHelp Filter: What's the name for a live-in assistant/nurse who visits the house of an elderly person 3-5 days a week, helps them with grocery shopping, etc? What's the best way to find referrals for quality people that perform this service in South Florida?
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posted by xotis
on Aug 4, 2009 -
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My grandma's beloved bulldog just died, so grandma needs a new dog so that well she doesn't go the same way as her bulldog. Help me find a good breed/mixed breed for her to adopt!
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posted by whoaali
on Jul 26, 2009 -
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My elderly grandparents live 45 minutes south of Orlando. My husband and I are visiting them next weekend. What do we do while we're there to minimize drama and maybe have a bit of fun?
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posted by desjardins
on Jul 7, 2009 -
23 answers
California: anyone know what government entity reimburses the elderly for home care? Is it local, state, or federal program? Or perhaps a charity??
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posted by jbenben
on Jul 2, 2009 -
8 answers
How do we protect an elderly man who keeps voluntarily giving money to a con artist?
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posted by Redruin
on Jun 12, 2009 -
18 answers
Where can I rent a rolling walker to help my future Grandmother-in-Law getting around for a few weeks in Scotland? I just moved to the Aberdeen from the USA to get married and in the chaos of arranging a wedding, I'm trying to be helpful by finding ways for my fiancee's grandmother to get around.
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posted by nangua
on Jun 6, 2009 -
4 answers
What is the best approach for me to take and continue helping my senior neighbor out without being taken advantage of by her and/or her children?
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posted by Taurid
on Mar 6, 2009 -
12 answers
