Remember those classes in college/university where one person would monopolize the entire lesson? I am that person, please help me stop! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 21, 2009 - 53 answers

Dominant in bed, submissive in life - how to get over feeling like a weirdo? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 9, 2009 - 11 answers

How can I develop a more dominant personality? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 14, 2009 - 29 answers

Which eye do you look at when you are talking with someone? [more inside]
posted by devnull on Apr 14, 2009 - 35 answers

CatFilter. I adopted a 1.5-year-old female cat, and carefully introduced her to my 8-year-old male cat. It's been a month and they're still fighting more than I'd like. How long does this usually take, and any advice on how to help them get along better? [more inside]
posted by pseudostrabismus on Jan 12, 2009 - 12 answers

I've recently gotten out of a LTR where there was a lot of sex without foreplay-- my ex didn't like to kiss/cuddle/etc. Now I'm with a cute, fabulous girl who absolutely loves making out, and I'm thrilled, but feeling like I've forgotten a lot of my old tricks. Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 25, 2008 - 14 answers

What is the minimum acceptable dress code for male Doms who want to go public? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 18, 2008 - 12 answers

Someone close to me has a D/s lifestyle. Are there readings/websites I can check out to give me a better understanding of these things and help me come to terms with my worries? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 25, 2008 - 24 answers

D/s: Help me be a good dominant. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 11, 2008 - 8 answers

My male cat is afraid to use his outdoor house because my dominant female cat has claimed it. How do I get him to re-claim his house? How do I get her to relinquish control of the house? [more inside]
posted by alleycatd on Sep 19, 2007 - 7 answers