Please point me to resources that describe the phenomenon of "switching" by some BDSM participants. [more inside]
posted on Apr 13, 2008 - 3 answers

Help for a couple starting to experiment with a D/s relationship. [more inside]
posted on Apr 11, 2008 - 16 answers

Help me figure out why I seem to predominantly attract sexually submissive guys. [more inside]
posted on Mar 12, 2008 - 14 answers

My partner wants me to dominate him. That's totally not my style, and his pickiness makes it harder, but I'm trying my best, and it's working! Up to a point. (NSFW text inside.) [more inside]
posted on Oct 12, 2007 - 49 answers

Men: are you aware of who the resident alpha male is around your office, on your bowling team, in your circle of friends? Is this a shifting position? [more inside]
posted on Mar 7, 2007 - 54 answers