How can I develop a more dominant personality? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 14, 2009 - 29 answers

D/s filter: Should I be concerned that my sub still keeps close contact with her former Dom? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 5, 2009 - 23 answers

I've recently gotten out of a LTR where there was a lot of sex without foreplay-- my ex didn't like to kiss/cuddle/etc. Now I'm with a cute, fabulous girl who absolutely loves making out, and I'm thrilled, but feeling like I've forgotten a lot of my old tricks. Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 25, 2008 - 14 answers

What is the minimum acceptable dress code for male Doms who want to go public? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 18, 2008 - 12 answers

Someone close to me has a D/s lifestyle. Are there readings/websites I can check out to give me a better understanding of these things and help me come to terms with my worries? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 25, 2008 - 24 answers