My husband and I are U.S. citizens and Permanent Residents of Canada. Are we required to file for divorce in Canada because we're legal residents there? If it's permissible to file in either country, anyone know of pro's or con's for either choice?
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posted by otfence
on Sep 16, 2009 -
4 answers
My husband is cheating on me and has been for at least two years. He doesn't know I found out. Now what?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 3, 2009 -
67 answers
Australian Family Law filter. Spouse maintenance, child support,divorce financials?
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posted by cerebrum
on Aug 31, 2009 -
2 answers
I have picked myself up, dusted myself off, and am ready to move forward post-divorce. Help me find books I can read to help me through that process. More details enclosed.
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posted by eleslie
on Aug 22, 2009 -
4 answers
Best of friends-- kind person and new mom-- is intent on getting a divorce. As "Angie's List" doesn't have a 'divorce lawyer' section, can anyone recommend a Minneapolis attorney or a system to find one?
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posted by Arch1
on Aug 10, 2009 -
6 answers
My parents split about a year ago. My father has started dating under unusual circumstances, and it makes me somewhat angry. Am I overreacting? How can I find peace with the situation?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 4, 2009 -
32 answers
I'm signing the papers for my divorce this week and moving to a new country (UK) next week. I'll be meeting new people and I'm looking for a word to call my ex-husband.
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posted by CdnMathTeacher
on Aug 2, 2009 -
26 answers
I'm almost 30. I'm unemployed. I may or may not be able to attend college this year. I am halfway across the country from my friends and family, can't move in with my parents, don't have a license, and I am going to have to divorce my wife of four years. Where do I start? (Warning: Long)
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 19, 2009 -
9 answers
Stay vs. Go Showdown 2009
Also starring: 2 kids!!!!!!!
Is it better to stay in a bad marriage so that the kids can be with both parents, or to divorce and hope for the best?
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posted by rahnefan
on Jul 18, 2009 -
38 answers
Would my three kids (17, 15, 10) be happier if we left the same town their dad lives in? I can't figure out if I'm allowing prolonged damage to my kids by letting them stay here because their dad is down the road but NEVER wants to see them. And where he lives bothers them (more later).
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posted by dzaz
on Jul 7, 2009 -
44 answers
My husband of 17 years had an affair and left me for someone else. Three years later, I’m still feeling bitter and vengeful. Please help me cope.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 3, 2009 -
38 answers
We are recently separated (with lots of drama), and our families and friends don't know. How do I deal with my brother in law asking to stay with “us” for a while, since he suddenly got a job in our town?
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 2, 2009 -
45 answers
Need personal recommendations for a divorce lawyer in the western Chicago suburbs (Aurora area).
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posted by Joleta
on Jun 29, 2009 -
5 answers
Illinois Child Support: I'm a father of a 2 year old and I pay the standard 20% plus half of his insurance to his mother. Question: I have him 50% of the time, should I have to pay support when we equally have him the same amount of time?
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posted by MMALR
on Jun 29, 2009 -
32 answers
This is yet another "we're broken up but still living together and want to remain friends," question, but with some complications... specifically, we had planned a Caribbean vacation for next winter, and she still wants us to go together... I'm not so sure that's a great idea. Long, drawn-out story follows.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 7, 2009 -
13 answers
What's your best advice for preventing divorce- starting before you even decide to get married?
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posted by anonymous
on May 25, 2009 -
55 answers
Is it possible to get started on an amicable divorce or separation agreement while still living together?
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posted by anonymous
on May 19, 2009 -
16 answers
30 years after my father is gone, I wonder what intangibles he denied me. How do I get a sneak peak into the world of a daddy‘s girl?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 30, 2009 -
38 answers
Does being in a de-facto / common-law relationship while waiting for a pending divorce make me grounds for bigamy under Australian law?
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posted by psyward
on Apr 27, 2009 -
7 answers
In the case of divorced parents, who gets to decide on funerary issues if children die?
posted by matkline
on Apr 12, 2009 -
8 answers
So, I'm getting divorced. I have 2 daughters, who I'm kinda terrified to tell. I'm hoping Ask.Me might be able to provide some tips.
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posted by Richat
on Apr 2, 2009 -
27 answers
My new husband has an ex-wife and daughter who live in Colorado. They've been divorced a long time, not exactly on "friendly" terms, but certainly civil, for their daughter's sake. Recently, the kid's grades have been slipping (she's in 8th grade) and Mom decided she needed some tutoring. She signed her up for $10,000 worth of tutoring, without telling my husband in advance, then turned around and demanded half the tuition from him. My husband pays child support, has never been late, even though he's currently unemployed. He told her he couldn't afford $5,000 and even if he could, he doesn't think he should have to pay since she didn't consult him in advance or discuss the matter with him. I was wondering if anyone had any experience with this kind of thing. Does he have to pay her?
posted by redhaired_girl
on Mar 31, 2009 -
21 answers
If you are still married after n years of marriage, what are your odds of divorce in the US? Is there data specifically for the happily married? How does this change over time? Also, for those who get divorced, is there any data about at what point the marriage turned the corner from good to bad?
posted by crazycanuck
on Mar 19, 2009 -
11 answers
Marriage Madness: Is it better to be single or to waste away in a bad marriage? (long, but uniquely personal details inside)
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posted by brandnew
on Feb 16, 2009 -
61 answers
A question about lawyers, divorce, separation, timing, etc. etc... I would love a little advice, please.
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 5, 2009 -
10 answers
I need a lawyer who specializes in divorce/separation in Brooklyn or lower Manhattan. Anyone had an especially good experience?
posted by jasonsmall
on Feb 4, 2009 -
0 answers
Are there any circumstances in (UK) law that would allow a friend to 'sue' his wife for what he considers the money she stole from their joint account.
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posted by daveyt
on Jan 26, 2009 -
15 answers
My ex is a drunk, so I threw him out. However, we have a young child, and I'm having a hard time figuring out where to go from here.
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 23, 2009 -
14 answers
[
DivorceFilter] I need divorce role models. Can I get over my separation and become a wholehearted person again? Can any of us? Did you?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 16, 2009 -
16 answers
How do you cope when a loved one, married to someone you can't stand, reveals during a crisis that everything is as awful as you suspected? But then turns around and decides to stay in the marriage, when everything that you have seen points to a relationship that is somewhere between self-destructive and unworkable?
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posted by Kirklander
on Jan 5, 2009 -
29 answers