Love, intimacy, sexual frustration, distance, inaction... help me deal with the complexities of it all. [more inside]
posted on Jul 31, 2008 - 19 answers

I'm needy--help! (pun intended) [more inside]
posted on Aug 3, 2007 - 19 answers

Yet another RelationshipFilter: This is the story of Jack and Jill... [more inside]
posted on Mar 22, 2007 - 74 answers

Should I talk to my boyfriend about me leaving, or ignore the situation? [more inside]
posted on Mar 22, 2007 - 28 answers

OK, so my fiance just started med school 2000+ miles away from where I live. To stay in touch and keep our phone bills reasonable, we both got iChat AV cameras for our powerbooks. However, the neccesary ports (16384 to 16403) are not open on her school network. We contacted her IT department and a week later, the guy told her that he couldn't open those ports for security/bandwidth issues, leaving us high and dry. So, what would folks suggest we do in this situation? Is it really a security issue or just bandwidth? Are there any workarounds?
posted on Aug 6, 2004 - 8 answers