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Possible asymptomatic herpes and HPV--should I disclose?

Dude, here. 1) My ex-girlfriend of on-and-off three years had periodic oral herpes outbreaks. I've never had an outbreak. Want to kiss new girl. Do I disclose so she can make an informed decision? 2) Two ex-girlfriends in distant past had abnormal pap smears. Do I disclose? [more inside]
posted by zeek321 on Oct 8, 2014 - 25 answers

What is it like to "come out" about having experienced mental illness?

I would like to hear stories from people who have "come out" about their lived experience of mental illness. What is it like to simply say, offhand, "Oh, yeah, I had depression" in the same way one might say, "Oh, yeah, I'm queer" - and have that be relatively common knowledge about you, rather than a private matter to be shared only with your closest confidants? How did you make the decision to be open and honest about your experience, and what were the benefits/pitfalls of doing so? Did you worry about professional ramifications down the line? How did it affect your sense of self? Do you ever wish you could un-disclose and stop being the "token crazy person"? I am particularly interested in hearing from people who have "come out" about their experience in order to assist others - for example, using your lived experience in a professional context to work in mental health promotion or peer support work.
posted by embrangled on Aug 14, 2014 - 32 answers

The past is the past right?

Do I need to disclose to someone I'm dating that I briefly dated my coworker who I still work with? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 21, 2014 - 15 answers

Wean me off of Disclosure - please recommend some house-flavored jams

I have a cursory understanding of EDM, but I'm obsessed with Disclosure... yet I've played their album to death. Please help me find something new to listen to. [more inside]
posted by blue t-shirt on Mar 7, 2014 - 14 answers

When to tell a prospective partner about my immigration status?

I am residing illegally in a country (I would rather not say which one) and am dating. I reached out to a person on a dating site. We have only been on two dates, but I quite like them and the person seems very into me as well. I feel like since I asked them out the onus is more on me to tell them about my status than if they had asked me out. When should I tell? I want to wait in order to protect myself from even the slightest possibility of deportation, but I also want to be as honest and forthright as I can be to honor both the person I am interested in and myself. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 2, 2013 - 15 answers

Record of improper private medical information disclosure?

Would a U.S. health care service provider be required to publicly report the improper disposal and disclosure of health care records and other personal information? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 25, 2013 - 4 answers

Disclose health status?

Should I disclose my illness? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 28, 2013 - 28 answers

Dormant herpes - when to disclose?

Hey guys, I'm 28 and I have the HSV-1. One outbreak a year or less, got from my mom, etc. Question: when should I disclose this to my partners, considering there's no outbreak? Options I see are: before kissing, before sex, before oral sex, and before engaging a relationship. Knowing about asymptomatic transmission and how most of the population have it I usually don't make a big deal out of this, but I realize different people have different standards, and that culture has some relevance when it comes to this (I'm originally from another country, where I suspect herpes is less of a big deal than in the USA). Anyways - trying to figure out the correct approach here, thanks!
posted by anonymous on Jan 27, 2013 - 17 answers

Exposed to HIV but not infected. Do I need to tell?

I was exposed to HIV last year, but am not infected. Do I need to disclose this to future partners? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 24, 2013 - 39 answers

Should I disclose my mental health issues to a prospective (and former) employer?

Last year I quit my job due to depression and anxiety. I now have an interview with my former employer for the same job. Should I disclose my mental health issues during the interview as an explanation for my progressively lazy work attitude and subsequent quitting? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 24, 2012 - 15 answers

What's the loving thing to do?

When to tell other people when someone is very very ill? [more inside]
posted by miles1972 on Oct 16, 2012 - 45 answers

Hey, Potential Employer, Guess What?

So, I'm trans, have a really horrible job where I can't reveal it and I need to get a new one. There's one issue that I've been struggling with: All of my legal documentation is still under my old name, which means I'm going to have to disclose my trans status at some point. But how and when? [more inside]
posted by Toby Dammit X on Aug 4, 2012 - 18 answers

Bedbug, bedbug, whatcha gonna do?

NYC filter: How does the bedbug disclosure law end up playing out when one is looking for a new apartment? [more inside]
posted by evidenceofabsence on Jul 23, 2012 - 7 answers

Dealing with suicidal clients?

In my law practice, I regularly encounter clients who are despondent and suicidal. I don't feel that I am well prepared for dealing with this issue. Without considering the ethical issues as to disclosure, what is the best course of action when dealing with a client who tells you that they're considering suicide? What resources are available as a guide to dealing with a suicidal client? [more inside]
posted by Dignan on Apr 26, 2011 - 11 answers

He was married, wife wants info, do I share?

I got a letter from the wife of a man I met once off of craigslist back in oct It says that he's married and she found my name and address among others and asks me to email or call her. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 12, 2011 - 50 answers

I didn't realize your girlfriend was okay with us dating, too.

Why do people go on "dates" to "get to know" other people, but not mention that they already have a significant other? [more inside]
posted by patronuscharms on Dec 28, 2010 - 32 answers

Guidelines for disclosure of depression?

Depression filter: At what point (if any) is it appropriate to share with specific family/friends incidents of depression / suicide ideation in my past? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 17, 2010 - 15 answers

Should I tell my girlfriend about my nosejob?

At what point should one disclose prior plastic surgery to a significant other even if never asked directly? Is it a breach of trust to not volunteer something material like that after a certain amount of time? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 27, 2010 - 23 answers

Was it too soon to ask about his feeling?

Relationship-break-up-post-mortem filter: Did I objectively screw this up or was it just a unique to the person I was with. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 8, 2010 - 30 answers

What *should* have the seller have told us about the water well situation?

What does full disclosure really mean in a real estate sale? [more inside]
posted by swimming naked when the tide goes out on Mar 27, 2010 - 7 answers

Should I tell the Other Man's Wife?

I recently discovered that my partner of 9 years has been having an emotionally and sexually intimate affair with a man for the last 2+ years. The man is married with two teenage children. Though devastated, I'm glad I now know the truth, and I feel very betrayed by two of our close friends who knew of my partner's infidelity and didn't tell me. Given that, should I tell this guy's wife? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 27, 2010 - 75 answers

How strictly is the letter of the law followed in reviewing job applications?

How confidential is confidential when applying for a job with a small pool of colleagues? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 10, 2009 - 5 answers

Should I disclose a past suicide attempt (and subsequent hospitalization) on my state Bar application?

Should I disclose a past suicide attempt (and subsequent hospitalization) on my state Bar application? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 4, 2009 - 24 answers

Can I blog about writer's block?

Should I blog about writer's block? What will my clients think? [more inside]
posted by Wordwoman on Aug 1, 2009 - 6 answers

I swear I'm not really a deadbeat

Should I disclose this stuff on my rental application? How far back do they check these things, anyway? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 30, 2009 - 7 answers

What are the ramifications when a real estate disclosure is misleading, and nasty surprises are revealed after sale?

What happens when you buy a house with an unfortunate history (suicide) that has been disclosed, but no one bothers to tell you that the victim's blood is hidden under the new carpeting? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 21, 2009 - 38 answers

Asked for tax returns during interview? Legal/Illegal?

Can a prospective employer ask for my previous 2 years tax returns? [more inside]
posted by thinktwice on Apr 23, 2009 - 19 answers

U-turn-u-like

I just over-disclosed to a work colleague - what now? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 17, 2009 - 28 answers

If you come to work with the 'flu, why can't I come to work with the weepies?

I disclosed depression at work. Most of the things people tend to do in response to a depressed colleague are things which actually make me sicker. What to do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 24, 2009 - 9 answers

[ethicsfilter] two of my friends are getting it on. one of them has herpes. should I tell the other?

[ethicsfilter] two of my friends are getting it on. one of them has herpes. should I tell the other? [more inside]
posted by krautland on Oct 9, 2008 - 70 answers

Do I have to disclose that I received a warning at a former place of employment?

I'm very close to getting hired by the firm I want. They just want me to fill out their employment application now. It says, "Did you receive any formal discipline (warnings, suspensions, resignation at request of employer, discharge) at your former or current place of employment? Do I have to answer "Yes"? [more inside]
posted by onepapertiger on Mar 31, 2008 - 22 answers

What should we do now that we've discovered a major flaw in our new house?

We are about four days from closing on our house and just did the final walk-through and came upon a real gut-punch of an issue. The next door neighbor has the framing up for his new garage -- we knew that he was building this and where it would be but we really did not know how tall it would be.... [more inside]
posted by amanda on Jul 21, 2007 - 20 answers

Keeping patients in the dark in Japan?

I'd like more information about the practice of not informing patients of the extent of their illness in Japan. [more inside]
posted by Espy Gillespie on Jul 13, 2007 - 18 answers

Should I tell my mortgage broker I just lost my job?

Yesterday I got fired from a job I hate, but I'm in the middle of applying for a mortgage and I'm worried this will jeopardize my chances of getting approved. I need to know what I should tell the mortgage broker, if anything, about this whole situation. [more inside]
posted by elisabeth r on Mar 31, 2006 - 11 answers

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