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Does he actually like me as a person or is he only interested in sex (29 yr old girl w/no experience)?

Does he actually like me as a person or is he only interested in sex (29 yr old woman w/no experience)? [more inside]
posted by wcmf on Mar 4, 2010 - 56 answers

talking about Big Plans in a relationship

Talking Big Plans in a relationship -- how do I distinguish the excitement of approaching life for two from the prudence to not jump the gun, so to speak? [more inside]
posted by elephantsvanish on Mar 2, 2010 - 7 answers

How to find lovers who are into bdsm but not in the scene?

BDSMFilter: How can I find non-monogamous kinky lovers out here in the vanilla world? I've gone to munches and classes at TES (a bdsm organization here in NYC) and other bdsm groups, but I never meet people there with whom I can connect on other levels. Is there a trick to finding kinky folk in vanilla settings? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 1, 2010 - 16 answers

When to Give it a Second Chance?

How long does it take you to know you want to "date" a first date from online? Is there more i can be doing to give chemistry a try? [more inside]
posted by bearette on Feb 27, 2010 - 20 answers

Do I or don't I contact him?

First it was non-stop communication, now it's slowed to almost a halt. Should I contact him or lay low? [more inside]
posted by patientpatient on Feb 25, 2010 - 24 answers

I really would like to pay, but I don't want it to seem gender-based. And I don't want to say that.

On early dates, should I pay because I'm more able to afford it (which I usually will be), or should we split it to be equal? [more inside]
posted by jejune on Feb 25, 2010 - 55 answers

He's a lot like me. But handsomer.

How to deal with a Lothario in your social scene? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 23, 2010 - 34 answers

Non-Pick up Artistry dating advice for men Website: does it exist?

Non-Pick up Artistry dating advice for men websites: does they exist? [more inside]
posted by plungerjoke on Feb 23, 2010 - 8 answers

How-to date a sexy vain woman who wants attention from the world when trust levels are low?.

I'm 30 she's 25 and we have been dating for 1 year and living together for 3 months. She has decided she wants to do a "figure competition" (not to be confused with a fitness competition or bodybuilding competition). Given all of the trust issues in our relationship how can I come to terms with this? [more inside]
posted by stealabove on Feb 22, 2010 - 74 answers

She ain't got money, honey.

How does someone's debt burden affect your interest in them romantically? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 21, 2010 - 37 answers

In search of SWF, Flakes Need Not Apply

Online dating - help me figure out what I'm doing wrong! Multi-part question inside [more inside]
posted by photo guy on Feb 21, 2010 - 39 answers

How can I make my home more entertaining for dates?

What are some things that I can do to entertain visitors to my home after one of our first dates? [more inside]
posted by rwatson on Feb 20, 2010 - 13 answers

Say Anything!

Have you ever performed a romantic-comedy-type grand gesture to win over a woman in real-life? If so, what was it and what were you thinking as you were planning/executing? [more inside]
posted by decathecting on Feb 19, 2010 - 33 answers

Does He Even Want to Meet for a Date?

Does He Even Want to Meet for a Date? [more inside]
posted by cscott on Feb 15, 2010 - 13 answers

People disappear on online dating sites

Online dating: Often when I've met someone on an online dating site and emailing them back and for, it's hard to switch from emails to phone calls, or phone calls to an actual date. I'd say the vast majority of women I talk to just disappear at some point during this process. If I do manage to get a phone call, they won't respond after the first phone call, even when it seems like it was a really good conversation. Is this pretty typical? I'm wondering if I should be doing anything different. It's taking like months of work to get a single date and it's very frustrating.
posted by anonymous on Feb 15, 2010 - 38 answers

But I don't want to be an alpha male!

Questions about male-female attraction and my validity as a man. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 14, 2010 - 60 answers

Can we become more than friends?

I'm developing feelings for her...should I just say so? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 7, 2010 - 26 answers

On second thought, I actually am that superficial.

After a first date that I can see isn't going to go anywhere based on a lack of physical attraction, how do I proceed decently? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 7, 2010 - 46 answers

Round Two, this time with consideration

Dated my ex for a year, split up for 1.5 years. Recent developments re-awakened my feelings. How to explore this while being considerate to him and our friendship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 5, 2010 - 10 answers

OKCupid users and/or experienced daters: What's my next move?

If you're online dating and the email correspondence drags on too long, what's the next move? Is it rude/unwise to ignore a long, thoughtful message when you'd really rather meet in person? I'd rather not miss my chance with this guy. [more inside]
posted by maggymay on Feb 4, 2010 - 40 answers

He is pushin me away, but does not want me to leave :'(

My S.O.'s life is falling apart and has decided to break up with me, however, S.O. has requested that nothing change. (LOOONG, so sorry) [more inside]
posted by penguingrl on Feb 2, 2010 - 73 answers

Cheap girls looking for a good time

Awesome, low-cost date ideas for tomorrow night in NYC. (And in general.) [more inside]
posted by anthropoid on Jan 29, 2010 - 15 answers

Wait, you know her from... where?!

RelationshipFilter: A girl I've never met is spending a few days at my boyfriend's house. Am I overreacting, given the circumstances? (long-ish) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 28, 2010 - 51 answers

The crush that refuses to die

I briefly dated a guy a few years ago. I ended things but then couldn't get him completely out of my thoughts. Recently we dated and stopped again. How do I prevent from falling back into pining? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 27, 2010 - 17 answers

You don't what?

So I'm dating a former religious fundamentalist. [more inside]
posted by canadia on Jan 27, 2010 - 19 answers


A recent question has me wondering about the dos and donts of fixing people up. [more inside]
posted by SillyShepherd on Jan 25, 2010 - 20 answers


Help a late-blooming dating newbie figure out the mysteries of entering a relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 25, 2010 - 11 answers

Getting that Long-Distance thing to Work?

Long-distance single parent dating filter: if we really, really like each other, why is there this problem? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 22, 2010 - 24 answers


i was defriended on facebook by a guy i'm seeing. is this not as weird as i thinks it is? [more inside]
posted by violetk on Jan 22, 2010 - 54 answers

Looking for date ideas in Toronto

Somebody please give me a great idea for a charming date in Toronto! (Bonus points for something happening this weekend) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 21, 2010 - 8 answers

North Chicago Suburb Dating (Highland Park Area)

I have an upcoming first date in the Highland Park, IL area. I don't really leave the city to often, and I don't have a car, and I've actually haven't spent too much time in the North Suburbs. Can anybody help me out in suggesting 'things' to do, proper first date stuff, in the Highland Park through the Skokie Area. [Friday Night] - thanks for your help.
posted by anonymous on Jan 20, 2010 - 7 answers

How to get from attraction to sleeping together without dating?

I seem to find myself in the same situation all the time - I'm friendly with a girl, and there seems to be a pretty clear sense of mutual attraction. But for whatever reason, I'm not really interested in dating them. Sometimes it's a shared interests thing - maybe there's one thing we have in common but share pretty much nothing else. Or maybe they're just really immature about some things. Or maybe they're someone I work tangentially with that it would be sorta inappropriate for me to date. Anyway, for me it seems like the attracted-to scale and the want-to-date scale are kind of independent. It's great when they line up, but often they don't. So how do I go about telling them that I'm attracted to them but don't really want to date? Or is that just totally unwanted? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 18, 2010 - 10 answers

Help me bring people together better.

I am thinking of organizing a speed-dating event in my city, and was wondering if people who have participated in one of these events before could suggest specific improvements I can make to the existing popular speed-dating models. Perhaps after the event, when you were hanging out with your friends, you were discussing the event the way you might talk about a movie after seeing it. Perhaps you voiced specific complaints, or areas where the organizers could have improved your experience, streamlined the event. I would like to hear them.
posted by Sully on Jan 13, 2010 - 9 answers

Is there a tag for "awkwardness"?

DatingFilter: Is he playing it safe or just oblivious? [more inside]
posted by canadia on Jan 11, 2010 - 37 answers

Late to the dating game? - follow up / male version

Late to the dating game -- follow up? I was in this mefite's position a few years ago. Now stuck a few steps further. What's next? [more inside]
posted by knz on Jan 10, 2010 - 2 answers

Holding myself back because of body anxiety

How do I ease my anxiety over meeting a dude I'm really into? Body image issues tagging along, too. [more inside]
posted by rachaelfaith on Jan 8, 2010 - 26 answers

Midlife fish, teeny tiny pond.

How do I deal with dating in a tiny village of 6000? I'm 38. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 8, 2010 - 17 answers

Guy I met online only wants to text. No call yet, should I call or wait until he texts again???

Texting guy from online site. He don't want to talk on the phone, only text and FB messages. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 7, 2010 - 48 answers

No more...Ms. Nice Gal?

How do I become less "sweet" and more upfront about what I want? [more inside]
posted by themaskedwonder on Jan 7, 2010 - 44 answers

Let's be non sexual the first time we meet!

What are some sweet things to do on a first date that will be non sexual, yet limited to a hotel room? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 6, 2010 - 36 answers

How do I keep my raging lust in check while getting to know someone?

Please share with me your best tips for keeping my raging lust in check while I'm getting to know someone I find very attractive. [more inside]
posted by velvet winter on Jan 5, 2010 - 24 answers

Making Long-Distance Single Parenting Relationship Work Smoothly!

Early stages of long-distance relationship filter: I've reconnected with an old potential dating interest from over 20 years ago in the past, and since August, there have been daily texts, emails, phone calls. We live about a 3 hour drive away from each other. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 5, 2010 - 10 answers

Defining dating parameters

What's the difference between casual dating, being friends and being in a relationship? [more inside]
posted by youcancallmeal on Jan 2, 2010 - 19 answers

How to have a serious relationship discussion when kids are involved

I just met someone I am really interested in dating, but who has kids. In general, I am OK with the idea, but I want to know the sorts of issues and questions I should bring up with this person to talk about it and understand the situation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 2, 2010 - 14 answers

The friend zone seems to work both ways

I have a crush on a friend and I don't want to act on it. I also don't want to be this guy. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 2, 2010 - 24 answers

I need GOLD, Jerry!

When is it appropriate to ask someone out? [more inside]
posted by cmoj on Dec 29, 2009 - 23 answers

Creative (or deceptive) dating attempt?

I asked someone over to review their art portfolio, but I also have designs on asking them out on a date. Tacky or just being creative? [more inside]
posted by zenpop on Dec 28, 2009 - 35 answers


Help me be more direct in telling someone I like them, but not so direct as to be weird. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 27, 2009 - 41 answers

I don't want to be the real life 40 year old virgin...in 15 years.

What am I doing wrong? I am 25 and HAVE NEVER GONE ON A DATE. I have always been attracted to women only, and I am funny, intelligent, and reasonably good looking. I make friends easily, but I don't know how to ask people out, and I've only been asked out by weird guys [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 27, 2009 - 17 answers

How should I move forward?

The New Year is approaching and I need some guidance on how to move forward with my life. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 26, 2009 - 13 answers

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