Started dating a great guy, he became my boyfriend probably a month and a half ago. A few weeks into the relationship we were talking and it turns out that he has a "dating coach" and he still meets with her in weekly phone calls because he enjoys her advice. This rubbed the wrong way and googling her, I found she's also totally hot. It just creeps me out that this totally hot woman has so much impact on my boyfriend's life. [more inside]
posted by ponytime on Feb 2, 2013 - 51 answers

BDSMfilter: Newbie male bottom + experienced poly top = insecurity vortex! Help! [more inside]
posted by RockPuppet on Oct 22, 2012 - 12 answers

We dated for quite a while, but it didn't work out and we've ended up as good friends. But now I'm entering a serious relationship for the first time since it ended, and the shift in my attention seems to be rattling her. How can I handle this gracefully? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 12, 2012 - 39 answers

Help me figure things out! I just ended a casual relationship and I'm worried that I will only continue to stop connecting to people due to my deep fear of rejection. The extended explanation is quite long, but I've been needing to vent to a group of strangers for a while so bear with me while I rant my cerebral crazy. [more inside]
posted by bengalibelle on Mar 26, 2012 - 18 answers

Ex-girlfriend jealousy, my-own-brain-originating-type. How do I break jealous thought patterns? [more inside]
posted by ArgyleMarionette on Dec 16, 2011 - 17 answers

I dated someone I work with. Now she's dating my boss. I would love some tips on how to get over this without quitting. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 18, 2011 - 16 answers

How do I stop being so jealous/protective/possessive of my female friend? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 11, 2011 - 11 answers

How can you enjoy the bar scene when you're married (with or without your spouse)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2010 - 36 answers

Ghosts-of-relationships-past-filter: How do I forget an old girlfriend, years gone by? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 11, 2010 - 20 answers

My long-time single friend finally has a boyfriend. I'm jealous. How should I deal with that? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 3, 2010 - 24 answers

RelationshipFilter: A girl I've never met is spending a few days at my boyfriend's house. Am I overreacting, given the circumstances? (long-ish) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 28, 2010 - 51 answers

We met on OKCupid and started dating. I deleted my profile... she didn't. What to do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 14, 2009 - 49 answers

All's fair in love and war? A guy I am dating has pitted me against my neighbor, do I ditch him? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 12, 2008 - 26 answers