After a complete transformation, I need to practice flirting, in New York. [more inside]
posted on Mar 9, 2008 - 22 answers

If you're an obese man who's been successful in the dating scene, please give me some tips and advice. As always, there's [more inside]
posted on Sep 13, 2007 - 12 answers

I'm gay, new at dating, and kind of overweight (though not morbidly so -- say ~ 20/22% body fat), though my face doesn't show it. I'm afraid dates will like me, in part based on that deceptive face, then discover my fatness during a moment of intimacy, and be repulsed. Am I being paranoid?
posted on Aug 24, 2007 - 21 answers

I have a question to ask of heterosexual women on Metafilter: are you as shallow as I am? Do you find overweight men attractive? [more inside]
posted on Jul 21, 2007 - 34 answers

How should I describe myself in online dating profiles or personals ads? [more inside]
posted on Nov 18, 2006 - 34 answers