21 year old college student with past relationship experience, but I can't get a date to save my life. I believe I know the problem(s) but I'm unsure how to get started in term of solving things.
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 25, 2013 -
20 answers
I’m Male in my late 20s; I need help figuring out what to do about my relationship, I’ve tried breaking up a few times, but every time I get to it something in my head stops me... What can I do?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 21, 2013 -
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Need strategies for not getting stuck in my own mind for hours every day over thinking a new relationship. How to know whether you are ruining things in your own head or things are not right?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 31, 2013 -
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I would like help in turning situational confidence into all-the-time confidence, particularly as it pertains to romance and dating.
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 3, 2012 -
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The break up I recently is making me confused and it has shattered my confidence. I would like to know what happened, how falling in love is meant to be in reality and how to get back my confidence.
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posted by home
on Sep 22, 2012 -
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This is embarrassing. But I could do with some tips. I freeze up around people I am attracted to. My confidence goes out the window. Can anyone help?
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 11, 2011 -
26 answers
Tips for meeting new girlfriend's friends at a big party. Help me not just survive, but make a great first impression (plus a couple other complications).
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posted by althanis
on Mar 2, 2011 -
44 answers
I was confident and had loads of self esteem right up to the moment I actually started a real relationship. Now I'm a mess. How did I lose it all?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 10, 2011 -
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I need some major help with body image issues (self confidence) I'm reaching out to the hive for some extremely personal advice (thank God for anonymous-ness). I apologize beforehand for my casual typing - I tend to type the way I talk, and it can go all over the place...
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 12, 2010 -
18 answers
All right. How difficult is it for women to flirt with men *really*? I often hear that just smiling at a dude is good enough, but how true is that? What tactics have been successful for you, ladies? What is it you gentlemen out there wish a woman would (reasonably) do in a social situation? I've read the SIRC guide to flirting, but I'm looking for some real world anecdotes to supplement that.
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 12, 2010 -
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I didn't think the whole "if you're persistent it'll work" thing would work, but it did and now I have a chance to get to know her better...what do I do? She's gorgeous and smart...now if I can just get her to laugh some more with me, I'll be on the right path. Or do I boast, or compliment?
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posted by talljamal
on Jul 15, 2010 -
25 answers
Please share with me your best tips for keeping my raging lust in check while I'm getting to know someone I find very attractive.
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posted by velvet winter
on Jan 5, 2010 -
24 answers
Please help a fella out with the next stage of his Courtship Reeducation Program: How to stay cool when you can't stay ambivalent?
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posted by EatTheWeak
on May 25, 2009 -
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How can I become more confident interacting with women specifically as well as in social situations generally.
NOT looking for gimmicks, PUA or "get laid" systems, but genuine self improvement techniques.
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posted by DetonatedManiac
on Jan 1, 2009 -
31 answers
