New Neighborhood in Portland OR! New to me, anyway. I could use some help! I now live downtown. What bars, pubs, etc, are great for a casual first date? I'm in my late 30s if that helps. [more inside]
posted by Mr Ected on Oct 25, 2012 - 9 answers

I need help with my dating life, I'm a single straight male, 25y/o, working 60 hour weeks, with limited options. [more inside]
posted by curious-mind on Feb 4, 2012 - 54 answers

When did "nightlife" start becoming a pickup scene? [more inside]
posted by sandmanwv on May 31, 2011 - 22 answers

I want to meet guys in bars, and not for a one night stand. I'm a girl. Is this even possible? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 9, 2010 - 40 answers

How can you enjoy the bar scene when you're married (with or without your spouse)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2010 - 36 answers

You're a single male sitting at your local bar and a rather large group of girls walks in and takes over a nearby table. How do you proceed? [more inside]
posted by cannotremember on Jun 13, 2009 - 45 answers

I'm handsome, excellent flirt, and women willingly give me their numbers...Now what? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2009 - 16 answers

After a complete transformation, I need to practice flirting, in New York. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 9, 2008 - 22 answers

What are some fun, affordable places to take a date in the Twin Cities? [more inside]
posted by TacoConsumer on Aug 31, 2007 - 16 answers

Pulling girls in bars: how do you do it? I don't think I know how. The two or three times I have they've kissed me first. I'm more used to getting into relationships - sometimes even just asking "can I kiss you? I think you're lovely" after a date - but want some of the late-night stranger-kissing that all the bar guys get. How do you turn cheery bar conversation into cheery bar smooching?
posted by anonymous on Nov 18, 2004 - 23 answers