I met a girl at a bar and I want to know how to avoid chatting with her all week before our first date.
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posted by Atlantic
on Mar 31, 2013 -
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Is it normal to be a female and not have many (okay, any) close guy friends? Should I actively pursue friendships with guys?
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posted by sunnychef88
on May 6, 2011 -
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I have had a few fledgling relationships that have gone from awesome platonic friendship --> sexual tension ---> hook-up (instigated by the guy)--> awkward, painful attempt at going back to friendship (also instigated by the guy).
I'm really confused and bitter and angry. Can you help me decipher what's going on and figure out if these friendships are salvageable?
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posted by calcetina
on Feb 11, 2011 -
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Can cynical old me still find passionate love? Or should I readjust to some kind of grown-up relationship?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 14, 2009 -
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I’m concerned that I may have inadvertently gone out on a date recently. Please advise.
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posted by willie11
on Feb 23, 2009 -
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AskingOutFilter: I've heard of a potential match from a third party.. how might I go about acquiring her contact details (or other info) in an uncreepy way?
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posted by Quarter Pincher
on Feb 1, 2007 -
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I'm an still-in-the-closet (but perhaps soon to be out) gay man in his early 20s. What are the best ways to meet good-hearted, intelligent, and personable gay men in Boston (or generally), people who are interested in relationships and not just quick hookups?
posted by anonymous
on Dec 8, 2005 -
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I've gone out with this girl on one date which went “ok”. And, at the time, I figured on going out with her at least once more since first dates can often be unrepresentative of other dates. [MI]
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posted by Handcoding
on Dec 25, 2004 -
44 answers
