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Is it creepy to donate to charity with ulterior motives?

Is it creepy to donate to charity with ulterior motives? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 10, 2011 - 27 answers

How to stop a relationship going any further?

I don't want to date a girl who's really, really in to me, but I want to hurt her as little as possible. Plus, I'll see her at work! [more inside]
posted by Silentgoldfish on Oct 31, 2011 - 43 answers

How to avoid someone you're attracted to you know isn't good for you?

I am really attracted to someone I know I shouldn't be, when I'm not single and I know he is not the kind of person I should be interested in. We see each other almost every day of the week, and I'm in a new city with not many other friends. How can I find my way out of this feeling? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 21, 2011 - 22 answers

Tale of two Dudes.

Help me sort out this ridiculous dating situation. Please. [more inside]
posted by floweredfish on Oct 17, 2011 - 30 answers

Geometry of the Relationship Sense.

Love Triangle-type situation Filter: Halp! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 11, 2011 - 17 answers

Gossip or not Gossip?

Torn by conscience, did I talk too much? [more inside]
posted by easilyconfused on Sep 25, 2011 - 8 answers

"Hi! Next time you call your family, can you do me a favor?..."

I think I may have found a way of definitively finding a long-lost crush. Tell me if that's a bad idea. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 21, 2011 - 32 answers

How to let down someone who has a crush on me?

She has a crush on me. I don't feel the same way about her. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 19, 2011 - 19 answers

One more does he/doesn't he for the books...

[Dating Filter] Sh*t or get off the pot? (Metaphorically speaking!) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 12, 2011 - 18 answers

Crushing...just as painful as it sounds.

I have an embarrassing, painful crush on someone in my tiny grad school program. How to stop thinking about them in this way? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 11, 2011 - 25 answers

Turn up the A/C, baby.

I've got a huge crush on a friend. I'm pretty sure said friend likes me back. YES!! Caveat: We won't see each other until school starts in a month, and I want to make my move in person. How do I keep my twitterpated daze from eating up the last beautiful bit of summer while setting the groundwork for possible dating in the fall? [more inside]
posted by flawsekno on Aug 14, 2011 - 10 answers

How to handle a workplace connection in the midst of divorce and downsizing (in other words, when I am crazed with loss?)

Divorce, downsizing and dealing with a workplace crush/connection: how do I behave like a grown-up when all I want to do is curl up under his desk and cry? [more inside]
posted by Fierce clam on Aug 10, 2011 - 14 answers

Saw a guy at work on OkCupid, he seems cool--should I ask him out?

This is kind of a follow-up to this question about seeing people on OkCupid that one knows offline in some capacity. I have a similar situation but an added wrinkle: I work with my potential match. Is this a good idea to pursue him or not? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 29, 2011 - 16 answers

Songs like Melanie Safka's Brand New Key?

"I'm really enjoying Melanie Safka's Brand New Key right now for a particular mood I'm in. What other songs convey that angsty 'I really want to keep having hot sex with you, but you could care less' while being relatively upbeat?" asking for a friend. I never thought I'd say that, and I always thought it was baloney. [more inside]
posted by bilabial on Jul 29, 2011 - 16 answers

My optometrist is easy on the eyes. Crap.

My eye doctor brings in a new second doctor every once in a while, I guess to handle most of the menial check-ups. To my frustration, I have a crush on this current one. I'm due to visit the office one last time in a week or two. What then? YANMD, at least, I hope not. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 25, 2011 - 8 answers

Insight as to why this guy who is interested in me is acting nervous?

Why is the guy who appears to have a crush on me suddenly acting so nervous? Why isn't he contacting me more now that I have expressed interest? [more inside]
posted by sunnychef88 on Apr 28, 2011 - 70 answers

I'm 26 going on 14.

How can I act on this silly schoolgirl crush? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 4, 2011 - 16 answers

Hooray for embarrassment in the workplace.

I have a crush on an older co-worker and would like to stop acting like a nervous schoolgirl around him. How do I do this when he seems nervous too? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 25, 2011 - 18 answers

I suck at reading men and he's like Gravity's Rainbow

Hi. This was me eight weeks ago. I still have a crush on my coworker and I am still pretty certain he feels something too, but he's acting hot and cold and I can't decipher WTF is going on. Please help me catch or release. [more inside]
posted by supermetasock on Mar 3, 2011 - 52 answers

How to fix my inappropriate semi-infatuation with a historical figure?

How to fix my inappropriate semi-infatuation with a historical figure? [more inside]
posted by tamagogirl on Feb 25, 2011 - 23 answers

What's the right time to start LDR?

I met a lovely young lady at dinner with a mutual friend last week, and am pretty sure there were sparks flying. The downside? She was only in town for vacation, and left the next day to head home to the coast. The upside? She's moving to town at the end of May. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 28, 2011 - 18 answers

Meet me at the water cooler in three weeks?

I'm crushing on a coworker - what to do? Complication: extended business trip [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 28, 2010 - 26 answers

How do I get him into bed, or at least my mouth?

How do I turn my friend into my lover? He is a bit younger than me, I am recently out of a relationship, and I am not sure he is in to me. I never do well with friendships with men, and we are so close, so I have no idea if I even should try. But I really want to. [more inside]
posted by jenlovesponies on Nov 7, 2010 - 35 answers

Anonymous Massage Question

Ethical dilemma. Should I book a massage with someone I had a huge crush on in high school, just for the thrill of it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 4, 2010 - 67 answers

Is it a crush or just being nice?

I think a friend of mine may have feelings for me, but I'm not sure how all that works nor what to do about it. Can you help a romantically clueless girl in the right direction? Details below. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 27, 2010 - 18 answers

What to do about my months-long crush on sweet nerdy volunteer supervisor?

I'm female and in my late 20s. I started volunteering at a local bookstore about eight months ago, and I've had a major crush on my supervisor since the very first day. It started as just a mild heart-skip, but as the weeks passed I found myself liking this guy more and more. He's got this reserved yet friendly geeky nature that I just can't get enough of. Oh my. [more inside]
posted by tamagogirl on Oct 22, 2010 - 38 answers

Should I stop sexually fantasizing about my coworker?

I'm married and I have a crush on a married coworker. Should I stop sexually fantasizing about him? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 21, 2010 - 46 answers

Not jumping for the bed?

You are a 22 year old guy who asks to stay over at a female friends' place where there is only one bed and no other furniture, and then decide to sleep on the floor after being offered a spot on the bed. What are you thinking? [more inside]
posted by bearette on Oct 4, 2010 - 56 answers

Unrequited infatuation without unhappiness and jealousy -- too good to be true?

Got infatuated with co-worker. She is getting married this Saturday. Strangely I don't feel jealous and I am genuinely happy for her. This is strange to me as it contradicts all my previous experiences. That is excellent but what is the catch? Is it possible that some kind of delayed catastrophe will happen? [more inside]
posted by przepla on Sep 14, 2010 - 13 answers

Kundalini, what are you doing to me?

How do I focus on yoga in stead of the hot guy next to me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 2, 2010 - 19 answers

Why am I sad when I learn if a girl I like has had more sex than me?

Why am I overcome with feelings of disappointment when I learn that a girl that I like has had a higher number of sexual partners than me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 28, 2010 - 39 answers

A Bug's Life

Bug Identification Filter: Can anyone tell me what the following bug is? It has a read carapace and has hairy legs and segmented antennae. [picture inside] [more inside]
posted by Napierzaza on Jun 27, 2010 - 3 answers

Cancel him and let him go!

I'm going to wash that man right out of my hair! Help me figure out how! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 24, 2010 - 19 answers

I missed dating 101 in high school.

Men are like aliens to me, and I've never been able to read them. I need a male perspective on this in order to help me either make a move or move on. [more inside]
posted by canadia on Jun 2, 2010 - 49 answers

Please don't ask me on a date.

I know a guy in person that I've been chatting with online. In person, I'm not attracted to him at all. But I am intellectually turned on by the conversations we have. (Anon because I talk to this guy on the internet.) I don't want this to go any farther. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 23, 2010 - 15 answers

Should guys stay alone in their unsuccessful social situations?

Relatively unfriendly guy, exceedingly caring and friendly with good-looking girl. Help me understand this social behavior -- and should I do anything? [more inside]
posted by knz on May 22, 2010 - 21 answers

Should I leave my wife?

Should I leave my wife??? I have doubted my feelings for her from day one... story below... This is lengthy, sorry... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 20, 2010 - 54 answers

My (not so little) red-head girl.

What songs reference a redheaded person (directly or obliquely)? [more inside]
posted by divabat on Apr 29, 2010 - 42 answers

Do I ask this guy out? How?

How to ask someone I don't really know out on a date? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 9, 2010 - 15 answers

What sources for inspiration for courage can you think of?

What sources for inspiration for courage can you think of? [more inside]
posted by hipersons on Mar 29, 2010 - 13 answers

I need blunt, direct advice about a recent crush.

I need blunt, direct advice about a recent brief crush. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 19, 2010 - 34 answers

People do this every day, I've never done it right once. Is there an ideal way to reveal your feelings for someone to them?

Please help me figure out how to do something that I ought to know how to do already at my age. How do you tell someone that you're into them? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 25, 2010 - 21 answers

"No, of course I like you. It's because I like you, I don't want to be with you. It's a complicated...emotion."

Help me stop crushing on my classmate! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 23, 2010 - 12 answers

i'm the loser, baby....

How do you stay classy in the face of rejection? [more inside]
posted by motsque on Feb 5, 2010 - 33 answers

The crush that refuses to die

I briefly dated a guy a few years ago. I ended things but then couldn't get him completely out of my thoughts. Recently we dated and stopped again. How do I prevent from falling back into pining? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 27, 2010 - 17 answers

How do I keep my raging lust in check while getting to know someone?

Please share with me your best tips for keeping my raging lust in check while I'm getting to know someone I find very attractive. [more inside]
posted by velvet winter on Jan 5, 2010 - 24 answers

The friend zone seems to work both ways

I have a crush on a friend and I don't want to act on it. I also don't want to be this guy. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 2, 2010 - 24 answers

I've accidentally been leading a friend on.

Help me clean up a complicated friend-triangle before it becomes a messy love-triangle. [more inside]
posted by brenton on Dec 5, 2009 - 13 answers

Getting over limerance

Stop the limerance! Alternatively, how do I get over someone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 2, 2009 - 21 answers

I just think that we'd get on.

I haven't had a crush since I was 14 and now I have a HUGE one. I have never had to be the pursuer before, but now I think I need to be. AskMeFi, teach me to flirt and pursue while still keeping me cool!! [more inside]
posted by SkylitDrawl on Nov 16, 2009 - 19 answers

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